So my birthday is coming up which will mean eight years single. ill be 21 but i really dont drink..anyway i cant ever seem to attract girls. im not bad looking see www.myspace.com/OHV and click pics. But ireally dont like to be single anymore. its depressing the heck outta me. i go outside try to fit in but it never seems to work.i dont think i can really go to year nine. Im really afraid ill do something rash. any way can someone help i am at the end of my rope wth being single. i dont see whats so great about it
2006-11-20 12:40:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i seem to be getting alot of angry people here as well as good answers. I really dont have to many friends as i moved a round alot and just moved to my new town.I know im young but the only girlfriends ive ever had(2) really messed me over. so yeah ive never been kissed or nothing. hence why im pretty depressed its not just being single thats getting to me its the fact that i have no experience whatt so ever
2006-11-20 12:55:20 · update #1
why would you want to share your life with another human being. Humans are disgusting, awful and hurt each other feelings everyday. so why the hell would you like to have a girlfriend????
2006-11-20 12:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by jonsinher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactally how you feel. I am 25 myself and I have never been in a long term relationship. I know that it really hurts and it really hurts to see that "everyone else" has someone and that you are the only one who is single. You always wonder if you will ever find your special someone. I feel the same way as you when you say "what is so great about being single". I really don't get that neighter.
You know what! You are still young. Why don't you Go out go more so that you can meet more people. You can join an organization or even a church group. Humm maybe I should be doing the same thing...
2006-11-20 12:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by Dont Ask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 21, how do you get 8 years single? You think that you should have started dating at 13? Give me a break, start whining when you're my age almost 32 - single for 4 years, no prospects, every one around is having kids and starting the life you wanted .. then start whining.
You're 21, and if this makes you so worked up that you think you will "do something rash" then you need to to talk to someone professionally. Get out and do something, it isn't always easy but get out of the house.
2006-11-20 12:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by Daughtry-luver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when someone isn't looking for love it shows up. I know that doesn't seem to help but I've heard that a million times.
Try to relax a little and have fun. Go out with the guys and just have fun not looking. She will show up.
2006-11-20 12:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by Rosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being single is better than being in a relationship and being alone, or making a mistake before your ready or paying childsupport. Good luck., the time will come, HB
2006-11-20 12:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look does not determine everything. No matter how ugly you are, there is always people appreciate you. There will be admire even tough you are bad guy.
Should try with your sincere heart, not trying to get girls as because you are lonely. Girls not stupid, they can feel whether you are honest with them.
Find someone good and suitable, and go ahead with your sincerity. Wish you all the best.
2006-11-20 12:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by Vangelis 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are too young to worry about this- honest.
Just calm down and be a bit mysterious with women and they will flock round.
And maybe you are too choosy. Look for a girl you like and not a trophy and become friends first.
Don't get desperate chick, things will get better! xx
2006-11-20 12:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by kiku 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry the right girl will come along sooner or later. You just have to be patient and before you know it you will have a girlfriend.
Good luck and I hope you find someone ^_^
2006-11-20 12:47:30 · answer #8 · answered by Danny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit your whining, there are older people out there that are more lonelier than you!
Stop looking for love in all the wrong places!
Don't fall in love it will stick to your face!
Change to a different paper bag LOL
2006-11-20 12:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by Binky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your only 21 brother!u shouldn't be in a relationship.go out and now that you are 21 meet women in bars clubs etc!keep your head up and don't be desperate to find a women because when you are looking too hard its hard to find someone.remember keep your head up and u ll find plenty of girls!!!
2006-11-20 12:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by armond425 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋