MY BABYBOY IS GOING TO BE 2 MONTHS HIS DAD WANTS TO SEE HIM BUT THE ONLY PROMBLEM IS THAT THE GIRL HE IS WITH RIGHT NOW HATES ME AND SHE EVEN TRY TO RUN OVER ME WHEN I WAS PREGNANT SHOULD I LET MY SON SEE HIS FATHER LIKE FOR HIM TO TAKE WITH HIM OR SHOULD HE COME AND SEE HIM WHERE HE IS SAFE?
2006-11-20 12:35:43 · 21 answers · asked by lonelygirl200784 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes he should see the baby but no not take him on his own, meet him somewhere public just the 2 of you and not her ... as for her i would look into a restraining order
2006-11-20 12:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not sound like a comfortable situation to say the least,
but the bottom line is the father of the child should get to see and
experience the child and vice versa, personally at that particular age I would make daddy come (alone) to see the child. Stay in control of the situation...things may change as time goes on. What ever you do, DONT let him take the child away from you for private or alone visitation time. If he is an upstanding person and contributes to your daughters wellfare...then he should have more rights as time goes on. (Baby Steps)
2006-11-20 21:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by John P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means, if the dad wants to see his child, let him. I wouldn't punish a father because he is now dating a psycho.
At first, you and baby meet dad in a public place, or if you trust him, at your home. The more he gets to know the baby, they better for both of them.
My dads second wife forbid him to see me, my brother and my sister. He came by a few times secretly, but I think he got in major trouble and he never came back. My dad is now in his 70's and all I feel when I think about him is that he was a weak man that couldn't stand up for himself. If I had gotten the chance to know him, chances are I would not feel this way.
It is hard to love someone you don't know, and I really wanted to know and love my father.
Good luck to you and your son.
2006-11-20 20:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by sylvrrain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your baby needs 2 see his father like it or not, but i would have him come 2 ur place where the visit is supervised, because of the crazy girlfriend. let him know that the problem you have is not with him and his relationship 2 his son but with his crazy new girlfriend. if he cant live with that then let him take u 2 court and explain what happened between u and her, and that u were looking out for whats best for ur son.
2006-11-21 09:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by karen l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the dad see his son, be careful when it comes to the g/f. If the father is willing to meet w/o the g/f then even better...a public place would be best or a friend's.....if not, don' let the baby out of your sight!
2006-11-20 20:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by aes_bunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Allow him to see his child only in your home and only if he comes alone. Do not under any circumstances allow this man to take your baby out of the house unless you go with the two of them. I would never trust anyone who continued to date a woman who tried to harm you while you were pregnant. Does this guy understand that she could have killed his child? He doesn't sound much like a responsible dad to me. Never trust him to be alone with your son!!!
2006-11-20 21:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should come to see his son at your place or some place neutral (like a restaurant) without his girl. Don't let him take the baby, but do let him see the child.
2006-11-20 20:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes let him see his son. After all it took the two of you to make that child. Just set some ground rules and let him know he can come see his son.
2006-11-20 20:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by groundpilot43061 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the father he can certainly see his son but you have a big problem with his girlfriend because of her past behavior. Tell him to come to your home without her for a visit.
If he wants to see his son badly enough he'll make arrangements with you and leave her at home.
2006-11-20 20:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to come home and see the baby ! dont allow him to have the baby alone ! and dont let him bring the girl he is with along when he comes to see the baby !
take care
congrats on the baby
all the best
2006-11-20 20:42:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋