What age should you be?

Question

What age do you think it's right to become sexually active with a boyfriend?

This is just a question to see what everyone thinks. And what their opinions are =]

Answer 1

When you are mentally, emotionally, and financially prepared to deal with the effects of sex.

Answer 2

20

Answer 3

Marriage is really the best time to start being sexually active with someone. In this way, sex becomes more than just a physical action to satisfy the selfish desires of two people, but something to cement a bond of love that is both publically stated and intimately believed by those having sex. Call it what you will. . . but it is this form of sex that is the most righteous by God's standard--who you are ultimately judged by in the end.

Answer 4

There is no magic age, it depends on your maturity level. Are you on birth control? Can you buy condoms yourself without giggling like a twit, or ask your parents for condoms? Do have regular pap smears because you know why they are important? And most important of all do you know that sex doesn't mean love, and will NEVER hold together a relationship?

If you can answer yes to all these questions, you might be ready. Take your time, sex ain't going anywhere. Besides if your to young your body may not be ready and it will hurt more.

Think about it and decide for yourself.

Answer 5

17

Answer 6

Wen ur ready to take the responsiblities of what may come after, yes a few minutes of sexual intercourse may be fun but then what about after? what if ur stuck pregnant (condoms arent 100 percent secure) or with a STD like herpies or even AIDS...r u really ready 2 risk it....My best bet is from 18-21

Answer 7

this is a question you need to have with yourself. you need to think about the quality of your relationship, is this going to be some one night stand? or have you been with him for a while? you will remember who your first was for the rest of your life... do you really want to do it with someone you really dont care about? or arent mature enough to handle? make sure your thinking about what will happen if you get pregnant? once you start hes going to want to keep having it, are you ready for that? what if you catch something? make sure your being safe, wrap it up, but only when your really ready to answer all these questions.

Answer 8

To tell you the truth , marriage. Millions of people will strongly disagree with me , but sex bonds two people together , Their spiritis , souls , and bodies. It is not a thing to be taken lightly . Along with marriage , comes a responsiblity and maturity . That is the bottom line.

Answer 9

when you feel like its right for you.
you shouldnt have to ask others,its a decision you should be able to make comfortably on your own. if you cant,ur probably not ready to deal with potential problems that could arise once you are sexually active.
maybe talk about it with someone who knows you well and who's opinion you respect (someone other than ur bf )

Answer 10

Age has nothing to do with. Wait until you're married. This applies to both sexes, but young men should be setting this standard.

Fat chance that you'll find one with priniciples in todays world, however, so you'll have to be the one.

Answer 11

There's no magic age that makes it all ok. It's just up to the responsibility and maturity of the participants. Ideally, that would be during marriage, ya know?