my mom is hiding foods from me for my younger siblings to eat. when i cook, i cook for my whole family to eat. but when mom cooked, she is being greedy to me. looks like she don't really want me to eat at all. but i am not a big time eater, i don't get why mom is being like this to me. so is this right for my mom to be doing this? i mean i love her and i always give her money and cook and clean ......what'sup with her?
2006-11-20 12:22:04 · 7 answers · asked by friendly_nice_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
this is a difficult one as i don't know how old you are. but parents sometimes act in certain ways and do not realize they are hurting their children. Have you told her how you feel? she maybe protective of her younger ones thinking you can fend for yourself and they still need her. I still think this is very unfair especially as you take turns to cook and contribute money to the household. I believe you should treat all your children the same. Is your relationship with your mother good in other ways? if you can't talk to her have you anyone else in the family that could have a word? i do hope you can sort this out.
2006-11-20 12:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by pixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you cook - i'd get in the kitchen and cook my own meals -enough if anyone else wants any - but make sure i get my share. if mom then complains, i'd say - mom, i get the feeling you are hiding food from me and if i'm going to eat, i'll make my own meals and my own portions - if you have a problem with that, i can't help it, i'm a growing person and a smart enough person to know how to get what my body demands and needs. this is something that every child is entitled to and if you have a problem with this, maybe we should take it to a higher authority.
2006-11-20 12:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds so weird! Does she think you have a weight problem or something? I'd ask her straight out what she's doing and why.
2006-11-20 12:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by Deborah C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your money and go out to eat.
2006-11-20 12:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, you should have a close relationship with your mother, you only get one!!!!
2006-11-20 12:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by purpleone726 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to her heart to heart...instead of thinking the answer of this, ask her...she might be a reason...
2006-11-20 12:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by alexjem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with her... she may not realize she's doing it.
2006-11-20 12:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by I think... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋