Well.. I have this REALLY good friend. I used to like him a lot more than just friends. He's been moving around a lot lately. Back and forth because his parents don't really have it together.. But anyway, he told my friend that he really likes me and well, it got to me. He's also moving back to my town in a few days. I'm not really sure what to do.. because if I say no to him i'm missing a great guy.. Yet, I really started liking being single.
I'm not really sure what to do at this point. What would you do? I think I just need some guidence. Theres no way I am going to lead him on. I just wanna get that feeling again that I used to have for him
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Oh also, he tells me secrets and stuff. Like, I don't know. I feel that he really trusts me. (when I say he moves back and forth a lot. When he moves it's like 20 mins away.) He calls me like every day or every other day.
what do you think would be a good choice for me?
2006-11-20 12:00:13 · 8 answers · asked by Hil<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like a great guy. Just because you say "yes" to a date doesn't have to mean you're a couple. See what it's like to go out with him. It might be too weird because you are good friends or it could spark something in you that sounds to me like is already there. I think you would regret it if you didn't at least go out with him once. Goodluck with whatever your decision might be.
2006-11-20 12:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by TatuGrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest is the best why to approach it. Ask him if the rumor you heard was true or not. That will save you a lot of figuring out. If he says yes then ask him the what if ? What if we got together and broke it off, do you think we could be friends? I know that sounds a little foward but, I wouldn't waste time thinking the what if this and what if that. And, rekindling a feeling you had is sometimes hard to get back. Do you really like him enough to have an honest and openminded relationship? Is he capable of that or are you? Honest is the best way to go.
2006-11-20 20:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by Rosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i would (if i was a woman, i mean) get together with him. he sounds like a great guy. the relationship is pretty good, too. this is just me, but, i dont really like being single. id get together with him and see how it goess. if the relationship doesnt work, or somethin, break up. u might be a little heartbroken. i mean, i would. and you got three more days to ask this question, so u might get a better answer so . . .
2006-11-20 20:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by conƒused-little-man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he really cares, i wouldn't mind giving him a chance. But you also have to think about what would happen if you two were to break up. Would you still be great Friends? Or would you ignore each other? Consider your relationship before you make an decisions.
2006-11-20 20:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even try to make up feelings that you used to have and don't have now. If you like being single, then stay single.
2006-11-20 20:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless he actually approaches you and asked you to be with him...don't worry about your relationship status. i'm sure that when he comes back to live near you again, you'll get that feeling you had for him...but like i said...don't worry about it.
2006-11-20 20:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with him. you said you liked him and if things dont work out you can still be friends in the end.
[Elizabeth]
2006-11-20 20:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by Elizabeth and Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is ok to be friends and stay single. date him but dont make any commitments.
2006-11-20 20:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋