I have know idea what to say.?

Question

Well this boy really interest me and he is the only boy that i will probably like in my school.
When my friend asked him if he wanted to go with me he said
" she is pretty and all, but we are better off friends because i dont want to go with anyone in the school because once i go with a girl her friends are always in our buissness and i dont like that. "
i just want him to know my friends wont be in our buisness and he should at least give me a chance. wat should i do or say to him?
please do not say move on with your life and leave him alone

Answer 1

Obviously trust is the key factor
Try becoming friends - you know those of the opposite sex can be very good friends to have. Besides - perhaps your relationship can grow beyond that once you both get to know each other - otherwise -maybe he'll make a great friend who has other 'cute' friends to date later on.

Answer 2

greetings....let me start out by saying you sound like a bright young lady with alot on the ball, so here's what i suggest you do.
the first thing i would do is take your friends out of the loop. whenever theres a middle man involved things have a tendacy to get confusing. i suggest you go right to the source. i would approach the boy you like and ask him if he would like to sit with you for lunch..alone..if you dont feel confortable doing that, then try this....write your name and phone number down on a small piece of paper and put it in your pocket. when you see the boy alone, just approach him and say hello. make with the small talk and then ask about meeting for lunch. if he can't make the lunch date, don't get discouraged. reach in a pull out your little piece of paper and hand it to him. then say well here's my number, why don't you give me a call when you get free and then mabey we can hang out. he will take the paper and say ok thankyou. smile and then move along. what happens after this is all on him. his or your friends will not be involved. you can feel good about yourself. you've made the first move and now you wait. if the guy has an ounce of sense he will graciously accept your offer. if not, then no big deal. it was'nt meant to be. one things for sure...atleast you'll know for sure where you stand, and you dont have to rely on second hand information, that may or may not be accurate anyway. just be the best you that you can be. good luck

Answer 3

Are you sure you want to be with such an idiot? So he's going to be alone for the rest of his life because he doesn't want his girl's friends getting into his business?

Smart man. Either he's really dumb, or he's making excuses.

Answer 4

Try talking to him...as a friend. Talk about his opinions about having a relationship with you and calmly explain that your friends would not be in your business. Try your best to gain his trust. Hope I helped.

Answer 5

I'd first off apologize for letting your friend ask if he liked you, to prove that you can keep them out of your business.
Then I'd try to get to know him better, ask him out personally, and hope for the best!

Answer 6

Just agree with him and be friends and see what happens. Once he sees you are your own person things will change.
Good Luck Honey.

Answer 7

Well talk to him privately u know show him that ur friends arent always in ur business. Also compliment him, it won't hurt to compliment and he might start felling interested in you.

Answer 8

Please never ever beg for a guy to like you.

No matter how you feel about him if he's not interested let him go.

I cannot say what you may want to hear because that would be dishonest.

Answer 9

well.....give him a note and give it to him saying that my friends wont be in our buisness.....and another thing,
and ask...plz give me another chance.....



i hope this works girl!:)i hope it works out.

Answer 10

ask him just that to give it a shot.