Family & Relationships - 18 November 2006

so i shy around him and he shy around me too

2006-11-18 19:59:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 19:54:45 · 22 answers · asked by Jo K.L. 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

he was always loved and looked after, but i must admit him and his mother had a cold relationship, but with her other 3 she was warmer and more loving,
he went to scotland to live with his father and join his business when he was 16 but he basically cocked things up up there and came back down to kent just after 18th birthday, without finishing his apprentiship and no real job prospects. since living back here i took him in as he was causing too much trouble with his mum. with me he worked for a few weeks then gave up, even though i know now his job was there as long as he was willing to work. he run up a bill on my phone calling mobiles, even though i had asked him not to use it for that. (my own two kids dont). because he didnt work he didnt pay me any keep. he wouldnt look for a job, even though local supermarket was empoying. he has just been kicked out of his digs and has used too many ppl so no one wants to help. more has happened but pls what can i do to change his ways

2006-11-18 19:54:31 · 16 answers · asked by anni333 2 in Friends

why do guys stand girls up then not to mention no phone call is it they are just not intio u why do they have to stand you up instead just say you got something to do i mean anything but i guess men will always be jerks i guess us ladies should get the hint

2006-11-18 19:52:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Of course I will never date them again. Come to think of it I will never date a divorce man ever.

2006-11-18 19:51:38 · 21 answers · asked by prettypueo1812 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I wonder if people can notice it...

2006-11-18 19:51:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i are getting along great I love and enjoy everything we've done together,but a close friend of mine who always tells me when he thinks someone is wrong for me,,Has currently told me he don't foresee this relationship working out..He also said that he thinks this guy is just using me..But my boyfriend asks me for nothing he just wants to spend time with me...I care a great deal about him, but i'm not wanting to get hurt again..I deserve happiness and bliss,as well as a man who treats me good and who's willing to except me for me.... i want things to work out between us too but could my friend be right?? I have no idea what the future holds everything show it's wonderful but in past relationships i thought the same, and it didn't work out...This shows different in all aspects..Hopefully i picked a good one this time I'm truely happy with him!!!

2006-11-18 19:50:40 · 5 answers · asked by Shawty 3 in Singles & Dating

I had a fight the other day with my parents. We were discussing the issue that they never listen when I am upset with them. The conversation went on and my mom wanted to make an example about something that had to do with my boyfriend and I sleeping in the same bed with each other. Now, I am 20 years old and my boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 2 years. My parents have an issue with me sleeping next to him in bed. They know we are having sex with each other and they know that we are planning on getting married in another couple of years. Am I crazy to think that they have no right to tell me what to do about this? They let us have the house to ourselves when they go on vacation and when I went on vacation with him this past summer, they knew we were sharing the same bed. They only seem to have a problem with it when there's a way for them to try and prevent it such as us sleeping together when they're home or when I'm over his house. What should I do about this?

2006-11-18 19:48:23 · 10 answers · asked by Brig 1 in Family

my boyfriend has recently taken up another job, he works everyday of the week sometimes up to 70 hrs.
anyway, we are only seeing eachother for a maximum of 2 days a week due to him working and myself also working.
its realy hard on us not being able to see eachother...
does anyone have any advice on how to get through something like this? anyone else who has been in a similar position with their boyfriend/husband....
anything would be great. sometimes i find it hard to cope without seeing him.....
thanks

2006-11-18 19:47:57 · 11 answers · asked by Laura 2 in Singles & Dating

A little over 5 years ago I was engaged to be married. I found out I was 3 months pregnant and then 2 days later my ex told me he cheated on me. Less then a week later I had a miscarriage before I had a chance to tell my fiance about the baby. We broke-up and I met a wonderful man that I've been married to for 2.5 years. He knows about my ex and the baby. Recently I ran into my ex and we've been talking via email. There's absolutly nothing there and never will be but I feel I need to tell him about the baby. I've been thinking about it a lot lately and I'm still healing from all the pain I've been through. I think telling him will bury the past once and for all, but I don't know if it's worth opening that can of worms. What should I do?

2006-11-18 19:45:59 · 17 answers · asked by Nikkio 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-18 19:44:58 · 4 answers · asked by inquisitive 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi all, I have a colleague who stares at me everytime I move around his place..I can make out that He controls himself but finally gets tempted to look at me...He looks and looks at me from every angle!!!And if I smile at him he gives me a relaxing and a confident smile...and starts breathing normally from then on...My God! I am bugged up...I dont know whats going on with him?Please tell me why is he doing this? and how do I react to this? When I try to talk to him He shows a little attitude also!!!!!!

2006-11-18 19:43:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 19:43:32 · 12 answers · asked by prettypueo1812 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl and one day my friend gave me note which said would u go out with me and had the girl that I liked name on it. I said yes and he said it was joke and told my rest of my friends. What should I think about all this.

2006-11-18 19:41:51 · 8 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Singles & Dating

At school, one of the dining attendants and I flirt. I think she is attractive. The only drawback is she is not college educated and I wouldnt consider her a potential girlfriend. But by asking her out to only get in her bed, would I be considered scum?

2006-11-18 19:40:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The other day I was asking someone why it is that I am always getting so hung up and attached to guys that I have just met and like. The person told me it was probably because when I was young I would cling to a man and use it as a defense mechanism to get out of my problems. I thought about it and it made since because if I was ever upset I would always run to my papa to save me. Now it has carried over into adulthood. I guess I am looking for a white knight,someone to save me,a wonderwall I guess you'd call it. It's like I meet certain types of guys I click with and I get attached to them too quickly. It's almost always the ones with the bad boy type image. Also I have the urge to take care of them and nurture them. What the piss is wrong with me? When will I get my head out of the clouds?

2006-11-18 19:40:03 · 1 answers · asked by So'sYerFace 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband has gave me a second chance and we are going to counseling. This letter was the counselor suggestion so his family can understand his decision since they were there for him after I did this to him. But the counselor wont read it and I'm a horrible writer .

2006-11-18 19:38:56 · 8 answers · asked by jane 1 in Marriage & Divorce

would be offened if you said to your boyfriend or girlfriend oh its too bad we can't spend thanksgiving together...and then he said..."yeah I know,but thanksgiving is for family."

2006-11-18 19:36:08 · 25 answers · asked by thereis 3 in Singles & Dating

I recently had a huge argument with my parents. The point of the conversation was that they don't really listen when I have a problem with them. I told them that when I am angry or upset with them, that they huff and puff at me and many times (especially my dad does this) he walks away without us ever resolving the issues. I have no idea what to do anymore. This has been going on for years and I've had enough. What should I do?

2006-11-18 19:35:39 · 8 answers · asked by Brig 1 in Family

my boyfriend and I are not fighting. he called me in the beginning of the week to ask me how my work week was. now he hasnt called me since. I dont want to call him because i dont want to be all over him. is he testing me to see if I can respect his space?

2006-11-18 19:30:11 · 17 answers · asked by 1212 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, this would be probably a silly question, but i'm feeling so lonley and depressed these days...
everyone else around me seems to have someone that they can lean on..as in having a bf or gf...
i'm turning 20 early next yr, and i'm just embarassed and ashamed that i haven't dated a single girl coming to this age...i know i shoudn't be but i cannot help myself being in this sort of mood..

I know this is a silly question...but ppl plz help.. ; S

2006-11-18 19:29:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if girl showing her well pedicured, polished feet, Does it means she wants u to touch them or kiss them or praise them?

2006-11-18 19:27:17 · 11 answers · asked by clinica4002 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 19:26:53 · 10 answers · asked by sakshi G 1 in Friends

If you liked your sisters best friend who was 17 and you were 19, what would you do if she was spening the night and she and your sister went downstairs (where your TV/bedroom is at) and she was wearing little tiny shorts? would you feel uncomfortable?

2006-11-18 19:25:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are naturally bald guys sexy?
I find that most of the smart ones are...

2006-11-18 19:23:16 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dear family,

I know you guys are upset, and writing this letter is very difficult for me. I apologize for crossing the line by cheating, and can only imagine how angry you must be with me. Though sometimes a sorry can't fix everything, I am truly, deeply sorry for what I did, and promise never to repeat my mistake. My intentions are to spend my life trying to make it up to you guys and especially to him. I am ashamed as his wife and one of your family members for my actions and sincerely want to regain yours and his trust. you my not believe I deserve a secong chance with him, but I still ask that you please forgive me.

Sincerely,


Is this okay?

2006-11-18 19:21:32 · 37 answers · asked by jane 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hello =]

im 15 years old and my dad [you guessed it] isdriving me crazy! my older brother is 17 and he is alowed to do all these things, and my dad doesnt trust me. i havnt really given him reason to too.but i should inform you that most of my friends are guys. and im not atracted to them nor do i intend in having sex with them. but my dad cant get his mind past that! i want to do things like go to the mall or movies with some of them and he freaks. i cant even go to the library with one to do homework! i dont know if this is a good questoon but, is this fair? i mean come on any tips? please help me!

2006-11-18 19:20:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

You fell in love with a girl who you shouldnt have because of her heritage.You normally would just play women but her you would treat as gold.She broke up with you with a text and left on vacation.You havent seen her for a month and then she appears everywhere.You give her an attitude send her dirty messages,looks, blow smoke in her face,make out with hundred of girls everynight,smokes(not just ciggaretes),drinks and his friends stopped talking to you.Are you happier?Because,she left him because she loved him and thought it would be best.Do you still love her or was it a phase?Please explain yourself.

2006-11-18 19:20:29 · 15 answers · asked by kat 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 19:20:18 · 8 answers · asked by anna c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

heard him tell other people hed do anything for them but never that he loves them, and he said it to me once in front of everyone. what does that mean

2006-11-18 19:18:20 · 12 answers · asked by boo 1 in Singles & Dating