Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

My best friend's 23 yr old brother drove drunk with her little sister, and one of my good friends. He drank 13 shots of vodka in less than 2 hrs. He could have killed them!!!!

My best friends other brothers (19 & 20) and her cousin (17) had to go get him and make him give them the keys!

He almost flipped the car on the freeway

How can we all show him he's out of control!?!?

2006-11-17 14:05:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-17 14:05:21 · 11 answers · asked by Tyler L 1 in Singles & Dating

okay i think i like this one girl but i don 't know her so i can't say that i like her because i really don't know her. she said she don't like me but the way she acts i think she like me i really don't know what ta do?

2006-11-17 14:04:21 · 7 answers · asked by cartwright_terrance 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, me and my boyfriend have been having sex for almost six months and through out this whole time we haven't been using any kind of birthcontrol. We simply use the withdrawal method. So far its been turning out fine but this last week I had the worst scare ever. My period was almost a week late. He doesn't like to use condoms. I've told him that I wont have sex with him unless he has condoms. Yet he always seems to "forget" to buy some.I was thinking of trying to go to a clinic and ask for patches, since he ovbiously wont use condoms, but you see I don't know if that is such a good idea. I am scared of going to a clinic becuase I dont want them to call my parents or any of that. Also I dont know how much they cost.

2006-11-17 14:03:54 · 35 answers · asked by ♠<>♥<> 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my friends are male teens and one friend falls asleep so easily, because one minute were just talking about girls and stuff and the next he is snoring (literally) so one time we wrote on him and put his hand in water. Then another time we tied him with string to the couch. I want something hilarious and more original than just shaving cream and a feather. More is better!

2006-11-17 14:02:58 · 7 answers · asked by Matt 2 in Friends

We were together for several years and have 2 kids. He proposed to me and everything. We did fight and had a lot of problems. he recently left me for a coworker who is younger. I may be stubborn but I do anything for anyone, I gave him everything and did everything to make him better himself. He says he still loves me and always will, I am his best friend. He has already moved in with her. His family refuses to meet her or allow her at their home. I think he is just "smitten" with her and will eventually come crawling back, but then again I am afraid he is having too much fun because she has no kids and no responsibility. I desperately want to try it again and I really hope we can work it out before Christmas, what can I do? No rude answers please, I know I shouldn't take him back, but I don't care.

2006-11-17 14:02:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am almost 15 and I do not have a girlfriend. There are no girls that I know of that are free, so I kind of gave up looking. I talked to some attractive girl and class about school and she smiled a lot when me and this other kid were joking around, but wouldn't you know it? She is taken. I have talked to her, but it was about school only. I am so frustrated I just want to give up looking forever. I mean, this has been pissing me off for a long time. All of the girls I know are happily taken. Is it possible for a girl to like me more than her boyfriend and dump him? What should I do?

2006-11-17 14:02:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am maarried with 2 kids an I am 21 I want to go to school My husband does not htink that we should take out loans to do this I am telling him that we will have to. He thinks it will affect us buying a house in a couple of years. I am going to school to be in Healthcare management I have done my reshearch and saw they make 65k or more is it worth it or should we wait.

2006-11-17 14:02:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

here to be with me

2006-11-17 14:01:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone is different, and some people just don't have an interest in s e x. My spouse is one such person. But I sure have an interest. What's the best way to find a friendly lover?

Note: I don’t need to hear from the ignorant sanctimonious meddlers. If you’re opposed to my question, just move along to another question, please.

2006-11-17 14:00:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have seen 2 of my aunts stay in 25 yrs of abuse.And I wonder all my life why do they stay.I asked them, all they say is "I love him,or it's not his fault,he was rasied that way". Now my sister who has been married 15 yrs,is staying with her abusive husband.I helped her once to get away from him(3 yrs ago),She went back.Now for 3 yrs she hasn't been allowed to contact any of her family. She sneaks and calls my grandmother sometimes. And I asked her once after she went back why?And she said "Duh I love him".,,,Her and her children were safe with us. It broke me down mentally and physically when she went back. It hurt me more for the children,I have 2 girls they got very close to her girls,and now they keep wanting to know why she did this to her kids?WE were not raised to let a man beat us,but our father did mentally abuse our mom.Is it from being raised in abuse or what?

2006-11-17 13:59:10 · 29 answers · asked by Mother of 2 girls 3 in Family

2006-11-17 13:59:10 · 13 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Singles & Dating

I read somewhere that there is a "test" to see whether or not she wants to be kissed. If the guy strokes her hair, and makes some kind of comment abou it, and then after a few seconds does it again, while gazing into her eyes, and she let's him do that, does it mean she wants to be kissed? I read that this "test" never fails, but I'm skeptical....I'm sure it's not perfect, but is the guy who wrote that on the right track?

2006-11-17 13:57:26 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend said he wanted to go out with his friends and drink tonight. I agreed but 1/2 hour ago he called me drunk as H E L L to say he won't be home until another hour or two because he's having too much fun with his friends. Does that mean he doesn't have fun with me? He told me he'd come home for dinner but he blew that off after I had cooked a nice big meal which is what he wanted to have tonight. What could this mean?

2006-11-17 13:57:09 · 11 answers · asked by Wondering gal 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I know this is weird but most girls I know aren't virgins and I'm just wondering! They make it seem like the best thing ever...
does it hurt, was it fun, etc.


???


no i'm not interested in losing my virginity anytime soon, i'm young!

2006-11-17 13:56:19 · 17 answers · asked by Janessa 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 13:55:52 · 9 answers · asked by corinne g 1 in Singles & Dating

Say you are crazy about two wonderful, adoring, intelligent and beautiful women, but one is a successful investment banker and the other is a struggling artist. Which one should you pursue?

2006-11-17 13:55:22 · 9 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 13:54:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this, boy, he sais that he likes be, then when I go to ask him out he dates another person. How do I get him to like me?

2006-11-17 13:54:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My roommate and I used to be really good friends but he's girlfriend is a self absorbed,selfish,insecure person.She came uninvited ended up staying until they broke up,she came over drunk and flipped at me becuse they were having problems.I straight up told him I didn't want her here.Two weeks later she was back.I sucked it up and gave her a chance and we became good friends until one day the same thing happened except this time we had company and she came out and started tripping on me about the dishes,saying that shes tired of cleaning up after me.I HATE DISHES and she and I had an understanding or so I thought.I bit my tounge until our guest left and I attempted to talk to him when she came storming out and tripped on me.She said that I should not cook,i was a looser and an a hole.I told her when she started to pay my groceries and rent until then F.off.She left but shes back and I don't want her drama anymore.So frustrated-help???

2006-11-17 13:54:17 · 7 answers · asked by Shalimaar 3 in Friends

hmm i was wondering if midgets glow in the dark!! and like is it true if u stand still they cant see you?

2006-11-17 13:53:49 · 14 answers · asked by JDUb @ 1 in Singles & Dating

Or can the absent parent make payments just by handing over some cash?

2006-11-17 13:53:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im majorly attracted to guys who are...well, caucasian. But seem to only get approached by guys that are...black. Im not a rasict, Im just not attracted. I don't know how to be more approachable for the type of guys Im into, but I seriously can't see myself with some one who doesn't have fair skin, blue eyes and black hair! Im not conceited but I am gorgeous, Im not ghetto, I don't even listen to rap or whatever, I donno why am I intimidating to the guys im into, but it is starting to frustrate me... some help if any....please!

2006-11-17 13:53:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 13:52:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married to this man for 5 years now, he quit his job 11 months ago to write a book, I agreed to 6 months now we are going on 11 months, I work from home, supporting the whole family and take care of a 2 year old at the same time along with a school age child.

He does not do anything around the house, will not even take out the trash, stays up all night and sleeps ahalf of the day.

He is very nasty to me and treats me with no respect.

Today I found out that my company is closing and will be out of a job soon, I asked him to get a job so I can stay home with the younger child and he said he has no intentions of ever getting a job and reuses to feed me or my daughter from first marriage

and I can take care of him, he said he will stay home and care for the younger child but he will not even change a diaper.

I feel like he is a freeloader and I am a golden goose-I just want out, do you what I am being to tradional when I think a man should work?

2006-11-17 13:51:53 · 23 answers · asked by Just unhappy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well i've known this girl since like the begiining of school and bearly started talking to her like a couple of months ago...but anyway when i flirt with her she flirts back and in soccer practice when i go to the field with her she always tries to impress or showoff in front of me...than yea she tells me other things but i can't say them on here.

2006-11-17 13:51:25 · 9 answers · asked by hotsauce 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that I dated 10 years ago and I really liked him a lot. He didn't have any money back then but I still with out with him. Well to this day I am not sure why we we went seperate ways. I did see him again last week and he does have lots of money now (I mean like a million dollars), but still that doen't matter to me. Do you think he is weary if I want to be friends with him, because I only want his friendship. He did give me his cell number and his home address. What do you think? I kind of think it was him that ended the realationship back then.

2006-11-17 13:51:16 · 7 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating

his dad made him take the ring back. but he bought it with his own money he got from working. when i asked him why his dad made him tkae it back. he said he didnt know and he was sorry?

does anyone know what it is up? did he really buy it or is just pulling my leg?

2006-11-17 13:51:15 · 8 answers · asked by jugglelove 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really like this guy... and i don't know if he likes me. how do i ask him if he likes me.... i really need help on this subject. please and thank you!!

2006-11-17 13:51:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife is from Mexico and I caught her cheating. She said that she I leaving. I don’t care but she told me that she is going to take our son to Mexico to live with her. How can I stop this or better yet how can I gain full custody? I love my son and she knows this and she is using him against me. She knows that if she leaves for Mexico I could never find them again. And I will probably never see my son again.

2006-11-17 13:50:38 · 8 answers · asked by guero75220 2 in Marriage & Divorce