I am almost 15 and I do not have a girlfriend. There are no girls that I know of that are free, so I kind of gave up looking. I talked to some attractive girl and class about school and she smiled a lot when me and this other kid were joking around, but wouldn't you know it? She is taken. I have talked to her, but it was about school only. I am so frustrated I just want to give up looking forever. I mean, this has been pissing me off for a long time. All of the girls I know are happily taken. Is it possible for a girl to like me more than her boyfriend and dump him? What should I do?
2006-11-17 14:02:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm nto afraid of this kid. He is 2 times smaller than me, but I would hate making a couple break up.
2006-11-17 14:05:26 · update #1
Wait for a girl to come along. (or wait until you are 62).
2006-11-17 14:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all is a girl is going to dump her bf to go out with you thats a bad sign. what do u think she would do if another guy came along? she would dump you. and sorry about ur problem im a girl and have had the same problem as you. I switched schools (not just for that reason), and a month after starting have found a potentially great boyfriend and i think it might last. (obviously im not sure ive onny been going out with him for a few weeks). Oh and when u do get a gf, don't tell her you love her too soon. It makes girls suspicious. And make sure you act like a bf not just a friend. (sorry if im ranting im jst a little pissed off right now lol) so good luck and stop looking. once you stop you can focus on other things. It will happen when it is suppossed to. If you are a nice guy and not too ugly(j/k) u will find a gf. (besides you are only 14)
P.S. don't listen to the "Sad Man". Thats just dumb. Trust me. And why the heck is that girl posting her phone number on this?
2006-11-17 14:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of girls out there! Many (and especially the very pretty ones) like to have a boyfriend as protection, even if they don't like him all that much. Then when guys hit on them, they can say "Sorry, I have a boyfriend." At your age, 95% of the girls are still shopping around. If they do spot a more interesting prospect, then they have no problem "breaking up" with the current "place holder" boyfriend. And it's not very difficult to look better, because most of those "boyfriends" don't have a clue! (Just like you, apparently.)
So your mission, should you decide to accept it, is simple: You need to stop hanging around with your buddies and get involved with groups and activities where you can meet girls and become friends with them. You do that by being clean, smelling good (ie. like soap and shampoo, but NOT a strong aftershave), not using profanity every other word, being nice to them, talking with them in a friendly way without hitting on them, discovering shared interests, etc. And don't just talk to the pretty ones: That makes you look like a phoney. You can't just act like a nice guy. You have to actually BE one.
Pretty soon you will have several girl friends (friends who are female), and one of them will be interested in being more than friends. Or, one of them may fix you up with one of their friends. But keep up your new friendships, since relationships don't tend to last very long at age 15. If you do have a girlfriend and then later breakup, don't be surprised if another of your girl friends steps right up: Being in a relationship makes you seem more attractive to them.
2006-11-17 14:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by pondering_it_all 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't try that. Just wait until the time is right, and it could be a long time. I'm in college and I'm going through the same thing. But how do you know everyone is taken? You can't just ask the pretty girls. Even the regular ones can be fascinating and nice people. Just get to know them. (aka grow up. :)
2006-11-17 14:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by UMRmathmajor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look Im 17 so i know what you mean about wanting to make a conection with people. Yes its possible for them to break up with the guy for you, but say she doesn't dont give up because I hear that 95% of people who date there crush that they had in high school end up not getting married so chill out alittle but I promise your time will come. if you have any more ?'s or just wanna chat some more my # is 308-440-3991
2006-11-17 14:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by bearcatz_07 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i was in your situation before...
your best bet, write the one you really like nice little notes and slip them in her locker, just to let her know that you really like her. Be very nice and polite. Keep it up for a month or 2 and dont revil yourself until the time is right, then your a sure in. Dont get caught, if you do people will laugh at you, but if you do it right you can land a date with the woman of your dreams. also, try to give her a small chain and tell her to wear it if she is interested. good luck
peace
2006-11-17 14:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sad Man 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hon im in the same boat at my school...all the guys are taken or like someone who they will end up going out with...:/
its the way life works...
and hey you never know, a girl could just so happen like you more than their boyfriend...it happened to some of my friends!!
2006-11-17 14:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by girlzrule1221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expand your horizons and accessiblity to the fairer sex. Join groups, volunteer, enjoy recreation where young people go.
There must be clubs at school, community volunteer events, skating rinks, bowling alleys, game arcades, etc. etc, ad nauseum.
Best of luck to you, oh, and quit trying so hard. Relax and enjoy yourself.
2006-11-17 14:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying so hard! let a girl come to you! if all else fails, go to the mall. single girls love malls. or a club. but NEVER resort to a dating website. thats just pathetic.
2006-11-17 14:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by lala89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah dont break up a relationship thats a bad thing to do. just think if you were in the relationship and someone broke you to up.
2006-11-17 14:12:10 · answer #10 · answered by godfatherthebomb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋