Im majorly attracted to guys who are...well, caucasian. But seem to only get approached by guys that are...black. Im not a rasict, Im just not attracted. I don't know how to be more approachable for the type of guys Im into, but I seriously can't see myself with some one who doesn't have fair skin, blue eyes and black hair! Im not conceited but I am gorgeous, Im not ghetto, I don't even listen to rap or whatever, I donno why am I intimidating to the guys im into, but it is starting to frustrate me... some help if any....please!
2006-11-17 13:53:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe their not intimidated by your skin color, but because of your beauty.
2006-11-17 13:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by awesome 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well Sarra, there's a couple of possibilities in play here:
First, I think black guys are much more aggressive toward attractive white women, while beauty initmidates some white guys. Don't know why this is, but whenever I see a black guy and white girl, she's always a looker.
Second, maybe you are intimidating OR maybe your personality ain't up to par OR maybe you are stuck on yourself. This I leave to you and your best friends to determine. Just remember to smile, be accessible and friendly, and help someone every day.
Third, you just aren't putting yourself where your guys are: you be the judge as to where your dream guy is, then go there. Book store, library, Golf Town - whatever.
Good Luck
2006-11-17 14:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't seem to be an issue for me. In fact, for the last 5 years or so, all the men I've gone out with have been white. Depends on the people and perhaps the area. I live in northern California, bay area.
2016-03-29 00:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres a lot of black ladies date white guys.I know some they won't date any.But,white guys theres nothing wrong with it sweetheart.I love black women if I wasn't married I would date a black lady.I feel akward around white women even with my wife.just keep trying men are intimidate by a beautiful woman.wink wink.if will
2006-11-17 14:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by Donald A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got fair skin green eyes and brown hair and I'm not intimidated.
2006-11-17 13:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by kennyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think it's awkward at all. I've seen many girls of various races I myself would have loved to go on a date with. I honestly think it would be wonderful.
2006-11-17 14:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get acquainted, get acquainted; hang around if possible. Be conversational, But, not pushy. And above all, be patient! If he (or they) are truely color-blind you will be noticed sooner than later. Patience!
2006-11-17 14:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by caesar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men will date a tree if ther isnt anything else
2006-11-17 13:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not for me love dating all girls
2006-11-17 13:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by jbmasterdragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋