My roommate and I used to be really good friends but he's girlfriend is a self absorbed,selfish,insecure person.She came uninvited ended up staying until they broke up,she came over drunk and flipped at me becuse they were having problems.I straight up told him I didn't want her here.Two weeks later she was back.I sucked it up and gave her a chance and we became good friends until one day the same thing happened except this time we had company and she came out and started tripping on me about the dishes,saying that shes tired of cleaning up after me.I HATE DISHES and she and I had an understanding or so I thought.I bit my tounge until our guest left and I attempted to talk to him when she came storming out and tripped on me.She said that I should not cook,i was a looser and an a hole.I told her when she started to pay my groceries and rent until then F.off.She left but shes back and I don't want her drama anymore.So frustrated-help???
2006-11-17 13:54:17 · 7 answers · asked by Shalimaar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's not her place to tell you what to do... it is YOUR house... not hers... if she doesn't like it... she doesn't have to "invite" herself in... I don't recall you ever saying that you ASKED her to do the dishes... or any other housework...
You're a bit better than I am... I would have already kicked her out... and if she refused to leave... I would have the police escort her out...
You're friend should have enough respect for you to keep this from happening... though no one can control another... he can at least tell her that it's your house too... and if she keeps it up... she'll not be welcome into your house...
No one needs guests that look at what they have or haven't got... etc. etc. etc... .
2006-11-17 14:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by grimmy19812000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with telling her that both you and her need your own personal space. Maybe things would work out between the both of you if you put distance between you. You two can still talk to each via phone or internet.
2006-11-17 14:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by precchar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to bite her tongue and let her boyfriend speak to you if there is a problem. She is still a guest, as you pointed out she's not the one paying rent. She is entitled to her opinion and you are entitled to ignore it.
2006-11-17 13:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People dramatize and overreact to the smallest things anymore....good luck
2006-11-17 14:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by Country 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U REALLY NEED TO LET UR ROOMMATE KNOW HOW U FEEL AND DISCUSS THIS LIKE ADULTS I GUESS THE ONLY OTHER OPTIONS IS FOR U TO MOVE OUT OR ASK UR ROOMMATE TO MOVE AND THAT WILL SOLVE EVERYTHING
2006-11-17 13:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by baltimore_queene 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How much of a good friend is your friend? If he allows this bitc_ to treat you this way then I'd tell him that unless he can keep his chippy under control, then she will not be welcome any more. You may have to move out! Or just keep to yourself-don't even talk to her even if she does & don't even talk to your "friend" either! LOL
2006-11-17 14:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Bijous 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
leave the place or let her go
2006-11-17 13:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋