My boyfriend said he wanted to go out with his friends and drink tonight. I agreed but 1/2 hour ago he called me drunk as H E L L to say he won't be home until another hour or two because he's having too much fun with his friends. Does that mean he doesn't have fun with me? He told me he'd come home for dinner but he blew that off after I had cooked a nice big meal which is what he wanted to have tonight. What could this mean?
2006-11-17 13:57:09 · 11 answers · asked by Wondering gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're going to be rude then don't answer this question! U have no idea how rude answers are hurting me right now!!!!
2006-11-17 14:10:40 · update #1
I don't know anyone here. I just moved here with him. I feel so alone. I came here because he said he was lonely and wanted me here with him.
2006-11-17 14:12:24 · update #2
are you old enough to go out? do you have friends? well if you answered yes to both of those ?'s then get dressed up right now and call a friend and go out right now ... make sure he has a way in .. then you go out have fun and see what he thinks...
2006-11-17 14:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it seems to me that he's just not very reliable, besides being immature & self-centered.
I've known a few people like this. They just go where the wind blows. They give their word lightly, with no intention of keeping it. You can't count on them.
Aside from this, he knows that you're alone, except for him. He probably figures you have no place to go, so he doesn't see the need to change.
You really need to have a serious talk with him about this. His reaction should tell you what you need to know.
To be honest, you should be prepared to leave. Do you have family or friends who could put you up for awhile, even if it means moving to another town?
Good luck to you.
2006-11-17 22:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by WillyC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just mean that he's just a little too drunk to remember and a little too drunk to care. It's really hard to tell with the alcohol behind him so with that said maybe he really thought he was having fun because he was drunk and done forgot all about what he has at home. But i would be questioning him as soon as he sober his tail up. Good Luck!
2006-11-17 22:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean he is having a great time getting drunk with his friends. At least he called you and told you, I think your acting like a spoiled baby. Stop whining every time he doesn't do exactly what you want him to do. Keep acting like this and you'll be eating alone for quite awhile.
2006-11-17 22:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simply that he's irresponsible enough to get drunk and disregard what he told you earlier.
Bet his "friends" helped him make his decision too.
Hope he's not driving.....if he is, you need to either go get him so he's safe getting home, or get him a ride with someone sober.
Best of luck.
2006-11-17 22:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you're the housekeeper, the cook, and the unpaid hooker, but NOT his wife. There's no honor or respect in this relationship, so he doesn't feel as if he owes you anything.
It's time to pick yourself up and move on.
2006-11-17 22:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It means there is a better looking girl at the bar then you
2006-11-17 22:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by urstupid...dr.phil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no respect to u sometimes men r like weather wait and sunshine will come out again or sleep on it
2006-11-17 22:00:56 · answer #8 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he was drunk....but I'd take a long, hard lood at your relationship.....
2006-11-17 22:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r stupid he lves u he needs space
2006-11-17 22:01:35 · answer #10 · answered by man2 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋