Okay, I know this is weird but most girls I know aren't virgins and I'm just wondering! They make it seem like the best thing ever...
does it hurt, was it fun, etc.
???
no i'm not interested in losing my virginity anytime soon, i'm young!
2006-11-17 13:56:19 · 17 answers · asked by Janessa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ahh yeah, bleeding?
that makes me kind of... awkward feeling
wouldn't that be odd though?
WOW
2006-11-17 14:05:00 · update #1
It can be a wonderful experience, or it can be totally horrible.
First, you must be with someone that truly cares about you and that makes you feel good mentally.
Second, the "first time" will be awkward and probably will be much better for him than you. Boys in that age group will have now clue or desire how to satisfy you and will leave you feeling like what just happened was just plain weird.
Third, yes, as a girl.... its not gonna be all pleasant.
Bottom line is, wait as long as you can. Find as true love as you can before you share your body with them.
Remember this one quote all of your life:
Women give sex to get love.... Men give love to get sex.
If you can find someone that does not fit that mold, then get to know them well and if the time feels right, try it.
Being a virgin is NOT a bad thing. Hold on to it as long as you can!
2006-11-17 14:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by Dog Lover 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It didn't change a thing, to me. I was expecting it to be life-changing and it wasn't that big of a deal. That's just me though.
My first time hurt like HELL. Seriously. It was the most intense pain I've ever felt. It even hurts to think about it. And not only the first time, but the second and the third and the fourth, I think the fifth was ok.
The funny part is that I always thought I was going to be one of the girls who wouldn't experience any pain the first time I had sex. But certainly did!
2006-11-17 22:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by mackenzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay guess what it totally hurts. The first time anyway. And make sure you wait until you are really comfortable with the person you want to do it with. this will make you less tense and it won't be as bad. and yes, you will bleed a little the first time, so don't freak out.
2006-11-17 22:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by latinsmama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first time is something you'll probably want to forget about. It will be brief, alarming, and one of you will spend at least an hour apologizing to the other. The second through ten-millionth times, however, will be awesome.
2006-11-17 22:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
KEEP IT PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE. You would feel better about yourself in the long run. Yes it hurts and you do bleed your first time. Aids and Stds are too common these days and you don't want your first time be your last if you know what I mean. Enjoy being Whole and clean. If I could get mine back I would hold onto it and never let it go. Read the bible about being a virgin. Look up under the words vessel, whole, clean if you have a reference in your bible. PLEASE KEEP IT. Once a guy get it especially if they know you are a virgin you are going to be considered a 304. STAY PURE!!!
2006-11-17 22:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of the adult women I have known that remember their first time feel like they should have waited. It is almost never what you dream up in your mind. But with that special guy you, say get married to, it can be more special.
2006-11-17 22:02:30 · answer #6 · answered by googlemeatyahoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you don't plan on losing virginity- that is the most precious thing you can have. guys will have more respect for you if you are a virgin, and see you for who you actually are.
2006-11-17 22:11:13 · answer #7 · answered by Peta Chips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should'nt be asking these kinds of questions yet if your young,, wait til your 20,,if you haven't done it by than, but when you do it, make sure it is with the right person,, the one your going to stay together forever with,,so you don't get stuck paying CHILD SUPPORT!
2006-11-17 22:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awkward, weird, strange, difficult. Ahh, but the SECOND time...and then the THIRD...and the FOURTH....ou la la!!
2006-11-17 22:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by Edward DeVere 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it hurts when he first goes in you but after a while, it doesn't hurt that much anymore. yeah it's fun and exciting at times.
2006-11-17 22:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Godz_ANGEL*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋