Family & Relationships - 10 November 2006

To make a long story short i have done everything to keep my neighbor from naggin such as keeping my yard clean my grass green my animals inside and yet he still finds something to say about us he has even called the cops or some humane socciety on us saying our gutters are dirty and our yard looks like crap. Taking him to court is the furtherst thing on my mind its to much of a hassle to deal with. I have tried to talk to him but he still claims that we are on welfare and he is going to do anything possible to get us evicted from our house that we have lived in for 6 years and he cant cause we own it and it cant be racist cause he is the same background as us but why do old people always seem to make the younger ones life a miserable hell ? we now ignore him but why does he still point and stuff there cant be to much wrong with us my husband works for a great company my brother is in school and i am a homemaker and yet nothing i do is perfect. why us ?

2006-11-10 11:00:07 · 5 answers · asked by mommyandbaby 4 in Marriage & Divorce

right i was with this boy for quiet a long time but he had trouble with his dad and move sudden its been about 3 years now and i really want to get back intouch i no where he lives and i can get his number but he may have moved on should i get back intouch??? we was really close we nerver argued and theres a bit of a age differance well quiet a bit 5 im 13 and hes 18 i have had sex before but not with him, but hhe doesnt persue me into it anyway he sed she can wait till im ready what should i do

2006-11-10 10:59:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was involved in a difficult marriage, filled with confusion, lies, threats, financial, emotional, verbal.....and THREATS of physical abuse. It used to be wonderful at one time.

There isn't enough space to tell every detail BUT I'll just say this, aggressive, rude domineering mother, meddling siblings, suspected infidelity with ex's. STALKER ex's. Financial mismanagement, while he was UNEMPLOYED and I worked TWO jobs, crime spree.....and him being sentenced to three years.
I paid for the lawyer, paid off some of the stores robbed, put money on his books, and endured TONS of verbal/emotional abuse through mail.
Well, met someone new, got along REALLY well, filed for divorce. Got to know this other someone, fell in love and am treated like a queen.
Now three years later he's home, and he DOES seem different, more mature.....like he finally GETS it now. He knows I'm involved but wants me back. I think I want him too. (The boyfriend knows) I also want the boyfriend, and love him.

2006-11-10 10:58:11 · 22 answers · asked by lilac b 3 in Marriage & Divorce

okay.....long story, about three weeks ago this boy i like got asked to homecomming by this girl he dont even really like, but last night we went to state volleyball games and our team wanted a spirt bus, so anyways.....on the way back we were talking alot, and he was in the seat infront of me and he was staring at me and i asked him why and he said he liked me, and we were holding hands, and when we got back to the school he gave me hug, and was being all nice and flurting w/ me, well......thats the story he likes me i like him....but homecomming is in a week and he has a date and i dont even know if were going out or not, what can i do because his date is kida my friend but not really, so.....and she gets really jealous if im around him alot, so what can i do or say to him, to figur out what is going on.

2006-11-10 10:57:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How much do women really care about a man's past relationships? Granted getting an honest answer could be hard, but would you want to know every gory detail, numbers, etc, or does it just not bother you at all? Is it possible a guy who has not had many relationships would be worse than having a ton? If so, why?

2006-11-10 10:57:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

shouldn't they contact 24 hours before the date? I made plans with a co-worker for lunch on Monday, for today. However, 30 minutes before the date, I hadn't heard from him, so I left :)
when I got back and he had called 5 minutes before the date... was I wrong to leave?

2006-11-10 10:56:55 · 6 answers · asked by therealaumoi 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 10:56:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

as much as eleven years for example.

2006-11-10 10:55:41 · 16 answers · asked by Carmen M 1 in Singles & Dating

i feel lonely like i need a boyfriend what should i do

2006-11-10 10:54:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know i love my man and he loves me as well.


So do u love your man or woman? im bored and i jsut want to know about u guys?

2006-11-10 10:54:10 · 14 answers · asked by FairChild 3 in Singles & Dating

my ex boyfriend came to see me a couple months before i moved to tampa. and he came over and we watched a movie but he wasnt very talkative. and after he left i emailed him and asked him what was wrong. he said he didnt want to close to me because he knew how i used to get fixated on things. and he said he wasnt going to think about a realtionship for a while.

2006-11-10 10:53:45 · 10 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay ladies...Of the three choices, just based on the idea, which body type in a man would be ideal for you?

1. A guy 5'7"-5'8", 150 LBS
2. A guy 5'11"-6'0" 220 LBS
3, 6'1" and up, 175 lbs

Or none of the above and explain...I am curious to see what type of man is really the choice just based on the numbers...

2006-11-10 10:53:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad left when my mum was pregnant. I would like to find him how do i do it? I only know his name and previous address of parents but no names or them. Thats it

2006-11-10 10:53:15 · 7 answers · asked by kt 1 in Family

I talk to this guy through myspace and IM. We've known each other since I was six and he was eleven. Since then we've talked and now we don't talk much. When I used to talk to him, he would seem as though he LOVED talking to me and we'd spend hours talking. Now he doesn't leave comments and he's hardly online. Did I do something wrong?

2006-11-10 10:51:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

getting into a realtionship or just getting sex. Seriously I can get some way eaiser then to start a realtionship wome want to have sex as much as men do but to have a commitment thats hard. I dont know do y'all think?

2006-11-10 10:51:16 · 9 answers · asked by NONAME 1 in Singles & Dating

I Am Turning 16 In 3 Days And Am Getting My License. I Passed My Drivers Test With A Minus 0 So I Am A Good Driver. I Have To Drive To This Place In The City About 30min Away With A Friend To Go To A Golf Pracitce But My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Drive. I Have Driven To This Place Dozens Of Times With Her But She Is Super Nervous About Letting Me Go Without Her. How Do I Make Her Trust Me More To Go? She Knows I Am Responsible

2006-11-10 10:51:12 · 5 answers · asked by AHaskizzle 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this guy and things have been great, he even told me he loved me. Well, yesterday, just out of the blue, I wrote him a text asking him a question. No response! Guys, what is this? Is he mad at me? Does he want space? Does he just feel it is OK not to respond sometimes? Should I just wait for him to get in touch with me? I mean, this is a guy who just told me he loves me. But he doesn't even take the time to respond? Am I really just worried about nothing?

2006-11-10 10:50:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive liked this guy for a while. but ever since last week, theres something telling me that its really pointless to like him, since theres a HUmungUS chance that he doesnt feel the same way. proof: he acts way different with other grls by hugging them and such. something doesnt feel quite right about my feelings for him.
im so confused! one side of me says "stop, its pointless when he doesnt feel the same way! my heart will only get crushed" but another side says "go for it"
help ME pleeasee! should i just give up on this boy? or should i keep up my feelings for him?
oh, and heres another problem- if i DO go for it, it COULD put our friendship @ risk!

2006-11-10 10:50:10 · 2 answers · asked by jumanjifaceee 4 in Friends

she acts so mean and she likes to lie to me and she gets in big trouble too and has problems and she russian and get so cool and she is 13 and in 6th grade and has a boyfriend , one time i told her that she likes a boy named adam and she lie to me and i thought wut that was true and she likes to lie and she mean too and sometimes can be nice but her breath smells so bad .

2006-11-10 10:49:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

In what order would you choose the following:

1) White
2) Russian
3) Black
4) Asian
5) Spanish

2006-11-10 10:49:33 · 9 answers · asked by | 1 in Singles & Dating

Its from a friend, that Im not really close to. Really a family friend...she is about 18. and i dont want to sound to kiddish or serious...

2006-11-10 10:49:33 · 12 answers · asked by WoW!!! 2 in Friends

I've been with my partner for almost 4 years now. When we started out everything was great. I was sure I had found my soulmate, but as the years went by I found out I was more outgoing and my partner not so much. I was into doing fun things to keep the relationship interesting but my partner not so much. My partner thinks the relationship is perfect, but lately I have been thinking about a different person, almost constantly. Not thinking about this person sexually, but just thinking about spending time with this individual and having a future with this individual. What do you think this means for my current relationship? Do I really love my current partner? In my heart I feel I do, but how could I love one person and picture a future with another person???!!!!!

2006-11-10 10:49:30 · 8 answers · asked by HottGuy 1 in Singles & Dating

how to forget a boy ? cuzz like yea lol :) need help i can't forget him and it will neva work

2006-11-10 10:48:47 · 5 answers · asked by justlilme 1 in Singles & Dating

theres a girl i really like and im getting some signals that she likes me. You see she liked me in the 7th grade and i did too, but i just didnt have the balls then to ask her out, so then in 8th grade she came up to me and asked if i wanted to hang with her and maybe with some of her friends at the mall. but at that second all these thoughts went through my head like shes too beautiful for me, i need my haircut. because i was so nervous,i then said "i dont think i can." I really screwed up that time, so now in ninth grade i asked her out by sending her a message on myspace, but she replied "iono, i might be busy y?" i told to watch the grudge 2 but she nvr replied ( i know that was a bad way to ask her out, but i almost never see her in school now, only about 2 days a week). right now im going crazy for this girl i need to ask her out face to face, but what if she doesnt like me anymore? what if she gives me the same answer as before? What is the best way to ask her out?

2006-11-10 10:48:03 · 8 answers · asked by Chale 1 in Singles & Dating

when me and my ex were together well we werent really together when this happend. but he found a girl he liked and slept with her the first night and i was upset. and we started talking to him and i asked him if he made her *** alot.and he said i made him *** alot more.and he used to tell me that it made him hard when i whould moan. and i always used to wear sexy lingeria for him but he didnt like it. he like me in panties and a t shirt

2006-11-10 10:46:02 · 9 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok there is this guy I like he is a year or so older than me do i still go for him

2006-11-10 10:45:42 · 13 answers · asked by Gooni 1 in Singles & Dating

makes you laugh, makes you feel comfortable around them, flirts with you, enjoys your company, lays the pipe 110% great, and takes you places and always has fun with you??

2006-11-10 10:45:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey im in chour and i sing really good from what the teacher said idk if its true i like how chours going but my bf doesnt i wanna stay in but i dont wanna lose him idk anymore i mean idk what to do anymore...this is a big problem right now and if i dont get help i will mess up everything in my life!

2006-11-10 10:45:10 · 6 answers · asked by it never ever ends 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-10 10:45:07 · 6 answers · asked by Iceream Woman 1 in Friends

...I've lost 75 lbs and it seems like my life has gotten worse. I've been friends with a guy for almost four years and I care A LOT for him...I don't know if he does, it seems very much like he does...I asked him if he liked me last year when I was bigger and he said "I think I just want to be friends"...but i honestly think he just wasn't ready...I want to ask him again but I'll feel so completely stupid if the answer's no again...I don't know what to do...he took me to homecoming and he gave me a red rose, and he flirts a lot..at least when I was fat I knew why guys weren't interested...I also essentially don't have friends..he's my only friend and my best friend lives two thousand miles away..I'm waiting for something good to happen in my life...I'm so afraid to ask him...I don't want to be rejected again.....no other guy has made me feel like I'm not good enough...I don't understand...I am pretty and now thin and I'm in my junior year and honor roll and never had a boyfriend...

2006-11-10 10:44:22 · 7 answers · asked by caitymercede 4 in Singles & Dating