...I've lost 75 lbs and it seems like my life has gotten worse. I've been friends with a guy for almost four years and I care A LOT for him...I don't know if he does, it seems very much like he does...I asked him if he liked me last year when I was bigger and he said "I think I just want to be friends"...but i honestly think he just wasn't ready...I want to ask him again but I'll feel so completely stupid if the answer's no again...I don't know what to do...he took me to homecoming and he gave me a red rose, and he flirts a lot..at least when I was fat I knew why guys weren't interested...I also essentially don't have friends..he's my only friend and my best friend lives two thousand miles away..I'm waiting for something good to happen in my life...I'm so afraid to ask him...I don't want to be rejected again.....no other guy has made me feel like I'm not good enough...I don't understand...I am pretty and now thin and I'm in my junior year and honor roll and never had a boyfriend...
2006-11-10 10:44:22 · 7 answers · asked by caitymercede 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should talk to him sweetie. Ask him out and explain to him your feelings for him. Tell him why you feel like he is the man for you. Open the lines of communication with him and you will see that you will recieve the answers you need. Sweetie, you've got it all, intelligence, kindness, beauty, a good heart. Any man would give a lot to go out with you. Give it a try, you don't have anything to lose. you two will always be friends no matter what. If not, I will be your friend.
2006-11-10 10:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by ravensfan172003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries. High school sucks for relationships. I had almost none. When I got into college and into my 20s everything picked up and became very easy.
Just yesterday someone told me that I'm like the guys from Wedding Crashers because I have been able to make connections so quickly.
You need to worry only about whether you are having fun and other people will be attracted. Everyone wants to be around the group that is happy and having a good time, make yourself the center of that group and you'll never have to pursue a relationship again - they'll be coming to you.
2006-11-10 18:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by FSJD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Con graduations on the weight loss, what an accomplishment. You are putting too much pressure on yourself to get a boy friend. There are a lot of skinny girls out there that don't have one in high school (my niece was one at 80 pds and 5' tall, blond hair and blue eyes). So don't worry, one will show up in time.
2006-11-10 18:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen guys are odd. Not just one of them all of them. Girls will never understand them. My advice for you would be to sit him down and talk to him about it. I mean if he is your friend he will sit down and at least listent to what you have to say. Dont do it over the phone because if you really want to get something across someone than you need to do it in person.
If he was to tell you that he still just wanted to be friends, well that probably what he wanted all along. He probably thinks of you as a sister and you know thats a very special thing. Dont take it for granted.
If things work out like you want them too..GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-10 18:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by Charles' Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was a chubbie chaser from the beginning. He should be happy for you. Hell with him be happy for yourself!
2006-11-10 18:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me 2!
2006-11-10 18:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by It's killing time again..... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really your choice to make is it really worth the risk?
2006-11-10 18:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by Ross J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋