Family & Relationships - 8 November 2006

my husband and i are unable to have our own childern so we became foster parents to a baby girl who was 2 months old when we brought her home, she is now a year old, the problem is we are adopting her and my husbands parents dont like the fact that shes black and we are white, every time she sees them she will walk up to them and want them to pick her up but they never do they act like shes not even there but they fall all over my husbands sisters baby, it hurts me to watch them do that to her shes just a child, they tell us cant you get a white baby. my family loves the idea that we are adopting her and cant wait to make her a part of our family forever but the problem is my husbands family, we have no support from them at all. any ideason on how my husband and i can talk to them with out me getting up set and saying something mean and nasty to them and causing a fight between us ?

2006-11-08 13:17:47 · 33 answers · asked by michelle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-08 13:16:55 · 7 answers · asked by pathy z 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 13:15:56 · 30 answers · asked by ksr102775 2 in Weddings

I am Blond, Blu Eyez, 6 FT 4 IN and Very Single... I have an average build. If you you like to know know more your welcome to write me and I will respond as soon as I can. Please include any more questions you may have.. P.S. - I do have photos

2006-11-08 13:15:22 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

hey i really really like this guy named nick and all my friends say he like me back but i don't wana risk our friendship how do i tell if he likes me

2006-11-08 13:14:05 · 7 answers · asked by baby g 2 in Friends

they are both very nice, friendly and smart.
same height and same weight.

one is very feminin and she has a long brown hair.
she always wears cute shirts and skirts.
she is very angelic

the other is very sexy and she has a long blond hair.
she always wears tight jeans and sexy tops.
she is a blond bombshell

2006-11-08 13:13:04 · 31 answers · asked by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

umm this is kinda embarassing but how do i kiss someone?

im looking for a detailed answer please explain if i just try to do anything naturally it comes out all screwed up. please explain extensively

btw this is my first kiss and plz dont tell me it will come naturally cause believe you me it never does i always seem to screw up the situation so having a plan will be my best bet

plz give DETAILED answers i need all the help i can get.....THANX!!!

for example what do i do with my hands?what motions do i do with my lips?

mouth open or closed?
ect...

u get the idea....

2006-11-08 13:12:36 · 8 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Singles & Dating

when hes around i feel warm. i dont dream about guys but i dream about him. theres like a warm glow around him when hes around me, and even if i dont see him i sense that hes around for some reason, i feel it.. and when i feel it, he pops out form behind a corner at school! what am i feeling

2006-11-08 13:12:21 · 22 answers · asked by Holly Advice 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 13:12:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It can be anything.

2006-11-08 13:10:42 · 10 answers · asked by Princess 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i don't think so about guys or gals...but what do u think?

2006-11-08 13:09:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

at the foot ball game after we performed our marching band performance we went to sit in the stands and my crush was sitting in front of me and he was sitting by his best friend andy and andy turns to me and goes u like mike..and mike was talking to someone eles..soo iam like who told u that? and hes like of ur myspace the bulliton u sent,..couse it was a survey i did about love..soo iam like oh sh*t.so then iam like i do not like him and he tells mike i like him and mike already new that..and he tells him to shut up..then i made up a name of a guy and i said i like this other guy insted...soo a couple of minutes later mike pulls on andys hat and he says i did it and hes like mike ur gf has issues...so i said omg out loud..and he just became silent..anyways he always flirting with me ..lol (random) then i gave him my change
from a soda i bought i donno if he likes me and i dont know if he knows i liek him anymore..what do u think? does he deff know i still like him? or what?

2006-11-08 13:09:14 · 11 answers · asked by andralynn147 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend is working at an old folks home, and her con-workers are nasty! they say disgusting perverted things to her all the time. She has been taken advantage of in the past, and I'm not so much worried about something happening to her, but I worry that it is really bothering her. She tells me that it bothers her, but she says she needs the money and doesnt know where else she can get a job

What can I say to her to make her make the decision. She already told me she wants to quit. How can I convince her to?

2006-11-08 13:08:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want to ask this one girl that I think likes me out, but every time I get around her, I just freeze up. What would be a good way to ask her out? (No sarcastic answers plz).

2006-11-08 13:08:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

doing it with police officer, teacher, doctor, cableman...etc.
if so Who???
I'm taking a survey to see who are fantasized over the most.
Reflect on your early years as well as now.

2006-11-08 13:08:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 13:07:32 · 6 answers · asked by bigmacpop34 1 in Singles & Dating

Does this sound pathetic if a girl in eigth grade still hasn't had a boyfriend! I need tips on getting my crush to like me, please! I mean im italian and not nerdy or ugly!

2006-11-08 13:07:03 · 11 answers · asked by ♥BrunetteSweetie♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I am really in love with this guy he makes me smile but he also make me cry sometimes I dont no what to say about us but no matter what I just want let him go because I feel like he is my everything but we fight, and argue all the time sometimes I feel afraid of him sometimes I'm not he makes me feel real down at times like I am ugly but alot of his friends likes me and try to talk to me whenever i go out and stuff but i never talk to other guys because I think about him and the things he say which really bring me down I use to look in the mirror and cry because of things he have said but I still love and care for him and he sometimes show me love and care but there is more of him talking down on me then he talks good!

2006-11-08 13:06:03 · 13 answers · asked by youngbreezy_123 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 13:05:49 · 13 answers · asked by Luis 4 in Singles & Dating

Other than Sex,
But
Busts
And Bj's Or stuff like that!

2006-11-08 13:05:45 · 9 answers · asked by Vivi [: 2 in Singles & Dating

Im going out with someone.

My friend who went out with him last year said he likes to Kiss, hold, hug...

*But i dont kno what to expect from him.?.=/

2006-11-08 13:05:20 · 4 answers · asked by scared by myselfXxXx 2 in Singles & Dating

im outside my country and my gf is in my home country, weve been out for 2 yrs. do u think its right for me to be cheating on her. i mean im only gonna have fun not gonna get serious.........????

2006-11-08 13:04:40 · 21 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Singles & Dating

I was reading your answer a couple of minutes a go and was surprised at your advice by "setting him up with a friend". Then the female friend should lead him to the bedroom and c if he would kiss her .... What surprised is that exactly 3 years ago, the other girl I used to like did some thing like that but slightly different and luckly I didn't fall into the trap. If I had your email, I would share with u what exactly happened, what "saved me - by just seconds" and how the whole dramma unfolded!

2006-11-08 13:04:19 · 2 answers · asked by badboy22bs 2 in Singles & Dating

i was at school the other say and a kid came up to me and said that the kid at the other table liked me and he asked if i liked that kid and i said no because i thought they were kidding because they are the more popular kids at school. they are always doing that at my school, they think its funny. well when he went back to his table and toldthe kid the news he looked really sad. ive seen him a couple of time since then and hes always smiling at me and waving to me but never came up to me and talked to me yet. i kinda feel bad because the kid is really kinda cute and i dont know if he really does like me or if its one big joke!!! please help!!!

2006-11-08 13:03:33 · 17 answers · asked by swimgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 13:03:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that used to be on drugs really bad and she has really straighten her life up. She's been clean for almost two years now. Her daughters grandmother (fathers mother)doesn't want to face the fact that she has changed for the better and wants custody of the child. The father and the mother have 50/50 custody of the child. The father is in jailbecause his mother let him borrow her car and called the police and told them he stole it just to get him out of the picture so she could have custody. The grandmother, at the time, didn't know that the mother and father had already agreed on the custody situation and now she can't drop the charges because the state has picked them up. So the dad is sitting in jail hoping to get out next week. The grandmother has hired a private investigator to follow the mother around to see if she's doing anything wrong. My question is, should I tell the mother about the private investigator? If it was me I would want to know, would you?

2006-11-08 13:03:12 · 10 answers · asked by wendy 3 in Family

and his reason was "he is not capable of loving me the way i need to be love or deserve to be loved" what's up with that?

2006-11-08 13:02:07 · 17 answers · asked by your name here 3 in Singles & Dating

About gay people NOT getting married? I am not gay but I don't have a care one way or the other waht they are doing behind closed doors........I have been married 15 years (to a guy) and we have enough problems without worring about others........Don't you agree that they should have the right to be miserable too?.....lol.....I simply don't understand the fuss........

2006-11-08 13:00:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I would be taking my husband this weekend. Is that a good idea?
He brought us to a really good club two weekends ago, and I had a FANTASTIC time. Now it's my turn to take him somewhere. What do you think? Neither of us are super educated on wine, but we both enjoy it.

2006-11-08 13:00:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my best friends name is ka'tina and her boyfriend jason treats her very "good" but hes cheating on her with like 3 other chicks. Other girls have tried 2 tell her but since he treats her "good" she doesnt believe them. i just dont wanna see my best friend since kindergarten hurt like this cuz it would break her heart and she has a heart of gold. i already know im gonna tell her n i have some proof. so my question is how do i tell her without breaking her heart completely

2006-11-08 13:00:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends