A really pathetic question but one that i hope is easy to answer?

Question

umm this is kinda embarassing but how do i kiss someone?

im looking for a detailed answer please explain if i just try to do anything naturally it comes out all screwed up. please explain extensively

btw this is my first kiss and plz dont tell me it will come naturally cause believe you me it never does i always seem to screw up the situation so having a plan will be my best bet

plz give DETAILED answers i need all the help i can get.....THANX!!!

for example what do i do with my hands?what motions do i do with my lips?

mouth open or closed?
ect...

u get the idea....

Answer 1

hey there girl whoa slow down your way to out in left field. Kissing believe it or not is really very easy, only when you start reading to much into it does it become more like a task then something pleasurable. Planning your kiss is ok but if it is planned your gonna take all the romance and fun out of it. If you must plan your first kiss, try this. Remember if people were looking to drown they would find a bridge to jump over, lol, so dont plow right in with your tongue slobering his lips and teeth. Remember fresh breath, dirty mouths just plain down right gross-yuck. Your mouth should not be gapping wide open like your trying to catch flies, lol. Slighty ajar will be just fine. Were you say you always screw up, I suggest you dont close your eyes, unless your looking to kiss his nose, give him a black eye,ect..lol you get the idea. Its okay to keep your eyes open as long as your body movements coincide with your eyes. What I mean is dont being move at a slow nice pace and to look at your face, your eyes are wide open like its christmas morning and you just found all the gifts under the tree. Keep your eye lids relaxed, and look him straight in the eye just in case he opens his eyes you dont want to be caught staring at his mouth. Now your hands well thats tough, cause unless you know for sure where you will be when this happens then you wont know if you will be sitting or standing. A good safe place for your hands might just be holding his hands. Might I suggest your first kiss be gentle light pecks to the lips with just a little tongue. You cant go wrong with that. If this CRASH COURSE on kissing isnt helpful, I do have a movie scene that will convey what I am explaining to the "T". Its a Adam Sandler movie called "THE WEDDING SINGER" I swear to you that there is a scene in this movie that would help you. I hope I have been helpful. Good Luck to you in making the kiss work. Remember this with confidence-if you do screw up it can be fun at least practicing, that is if your comfortable enough to keep trying.lol

Answer 2

okay, this is a bit weird, but I'll give it a shot... You'll be so nervous...its so cute, I remember feeling as you do! Sometimes its easy just to lean your head on his shoulder if you're at the movies or something, and eventually you will look up at him and he'll look at you and then you give a little smile and lean on it (don't pucker your lips until you get close) - you'll have to decide who's nose it going to be on what side - and just gently press you lips against his - for about 2 seconds and then pull back...if he's smiling, then you can go for another one, maybe a little bit longer. Its sounds silly, but it WILL come naturally - you'll be able to tell if you both want to pash some more... If you've had a couple of short-ish closed mouth kisses, then next kiss you can open your mouth just a little and move your tongue slowly out, giving his mouth a little prod - if he wants to go that way too, then his tongue will be coming out too! Gently sort of massage his tongue with yours - don't flick it around like you're ice cream is dripping or something. You'll feel silly, but practice on your hand, just open you mouth a little and do gentle circles, half closing your mouth now and then to prevent drooling. GAWD I hope this helps!

Answer 3

There really is no way to describe a kiss....you just kinda feel the vibe from the other person when your lips meet and go from there, you can cup the persons face with your hands but that is generally a more intimate kiss, you can hold their hands or you can wrap your arms around his neck...Practice makes perfect sweety, have a good one...sorry I cant help more but its really a natural thing...

Answer 4

The best thing is to be sensitive to what your partner likes. Give back what you get but be willing to push the envelope a little. If he rams his tongue down your throat, you ram back. If he kisses lightly, you kiss lightly. If he's a "dead tongue", you might try teasing him a little by biting (very lightly), using lots of quick, tiny kisses, or by flicking your tongue a little. Just be aware of what he likes and doesn't like and you'll be fine.

Answer 5

best advice i can give is relax and do what feels natural(don't go to far you know) but you have plenty of time to experiment and perfect your kiss and that's the BEST part:) good luck and remember RELAX

Answer 6

No one can describe it in words. YOU need to go talk to your mom, or an adult you trust.

Answer 7

I think it's time to have "The Talk" with your parents.

Answer 8

Do what a fish does.