I am really in love with this guy he makes me smile but he also make me cry sometimes I dont no what to say about us but no matter what I just want let him go because I feel like he is my everything but we fight, and argue all the time sometimes I feel afraid of him sometimes I'm not he makes me feel real down at times like I am ugly but alot of his friends likes me and try to talk to me whenever i go out and stuff but i never talk to other guys because I think about him and the things he say which really bring me down I use to look in the mirror and cry because of things he have said but I still love and care for him and he sometimes show me love and care but there is more of him talking down on me then he talks good!
2006-11-08 13:06:03 · 13 answers · asked by youngbreezy_123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him. That is your only hope. He will not change for you.
2006-11-08 13:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child Let Me Tell Ya What, "DUMP THE BUM" He is an insecure JERK!!! He belittles you and wants you to think you are ugly? I will bet you are DROP DEAD GEORGEOUS!!! That is why his friends talk to ya. As far as being afraid , well a REAL MAN would make you feel secure in his arms all the time!!! Arguing is OK in a positive sort of way but to degrade you and make you feel insecure is because he is insecure and immature by bringing you down to his level . He doesn't want you talking to other guys cause he is afraid you will see what he says you are really aren't. You fear him ? Oh No !!!!! A REAL MAN WANTS YOU TO ADORE HIM AS HE PUTS YOU ON A PEDESTAL AND WORSHIPS YOU AND THE GROUND YOU WALK ON!!!! Now as far as telling him to take a hike, ask yourself this, Is this what I want to fell like in a relationship? Is this what I want to be,beside him or under his boot heel? Do I want A MAN or an insecure little boy? Look in the mirror and say out loud" YOU ARE THE MOST GEORGEOUS WOMAN ON EARTH AND YOU DESERVE THE BEST" AND (add his name ) DOES NOT DESERVE ME OR ANY OTHER FEMALE THAT WALKS ON 2 LEGS !!! I AM DESERVING OF SOMETHING BETTER THAN THAT SOB, AND TODAY I WILL EXPECT NO LESS FROM ANYONE ELSE!!!! Now if he gives you a hard time about busting up and threatens you tell him you got a friend in CINCI OH who drives an Eldorado who will straighten him out if he makes any threats or induendos ! You Go GIRL OK!!!!!
2006-11-08 13:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do and so do you. You're used to this person only because it's a likeness to the way you were brought up. You feel comfortable because it's all you know. Had you lived with a hitman for a dad and a hooker for a mom, you'd feel comfortable dating a killer. He's definitely NOT your everything, and don't make him out to be. Have higher expectations for yourself, toughen up and find in someone what you really want. You should NEVER feel afraid of the person you love, love does not hurt. He's playing head games with you and if you remain with him he's going to hurt you in more ways than one. Don't put people on pedestals who don't belong there. They fall hard and you right along with him. My mother always said, "If you have nothing nice to say; don't say anything at all." If a man talks down to you and you put up with it, you're no more than his doormat. You don't love someone sometimes, when he feels like letting you. He's inconsistent and seems to have his own baggage. He also seems to have anger issues for which he needs help. You will become his punching bag if you're not already there. Kick em' to the curb, I say. You like to read? Get ahold of the book "CoDependent no More"!
2006-11-08 13:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by MareinAira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh love, this sad , that you feel that it ok for a guy to say something that make you feel real bad in cry. where im from we call it emotion abuse that always come before the phyical abuse. talk with you mother not friends she know what best for you .
2006-11-08 13:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by elisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please listen to me. You need to get out of this relationship. If he makes you feel this way now it's only going to get worse.
I married a guy who made me feel the same way, and it wasn't long before he started beating me. It took me seven years to leave, and it's taking me a long time to get over. I jump at little sounds, I don't trust men, and I have confidence issues.
It will be hard to let go, but please do it now. The longer this relationship goes on the harder it will get to end it.
2006-11-08 13:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by Amy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand b/c my dad and stepmom argue constantly and fight...They keep saying that they are going to get a divorce, but I haven't seen either of them leave with their clothes yet...
2006-11-08 13:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by .::country gurl in a 4X4::. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send me his address and I'll get my boys to knock a little sense into him, or get rid of the asshole, find new friends away from his area of influence, start a new life.
2006-11-08 13:24:39 · answer #7 · answered by fed up with stupid questions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like he's a few beers short of a six pack..let him go! Tell him he's the one who's ugly and go date his friend, lol!
2006-11-08 13:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by wendy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy who breaks your heart is not worth your time. you have to leave him and when you do, no going back. it's not fair to you. leave him, no matter how painful it is. don't take him back either, it time it will make you feel better.
2006-11-08 13:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by Emily B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are a dime a dozen. Ditch this loser and get new friends, take his friends even, just don't take crap from anyone.
2006-11-08 13:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by edi_z_willo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him find Friends then through a friendship find a partner good luck
2006-11-08 13:13:32 · answer #11 · answered by your name here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋