I was seeing this guy for about a week and we got along great. We got really close...had some pretty deep conversations. He kept telling me how I was what he'd been looking for for so long, etc. But, basically, he's got commitment issues and is afraid of getting too close to someone. So he pulled back. He says he wants to be really good friends, because he still needs me in his life, but doesn't want a relationship right now. It's breaking my heart because I care alot about him but don't feel like I can do much in the situation. So we're trying the friend thing. But he's still pulled back from me. I think he's afraid of what he felt for me. So I'm trying to give him space. How long should I wait? I'm going out of town tomorrow for about 5 days...should I just not say anything to him until I get back? What do guys really want in this situation? ANd don't say sex...that's not what this is about at all. Thanks.
2006-11-07
06:44:24
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Squeegy
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