Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

this is my problem...i just started my college i'm 17 and then i met this guy 19 my senior...we have kissed hugged touched u know wat i mean rite? but never ones he told me he loves me...he always tells me he likes me a lot...he already has a girlfriend whose overseas....he had told since our secondmeeting he never hid it from me but i like him n i takecare of himi let him touch me kiss me n still he will never say he loves me....when i compliment his friend you could clearly say from his face he's not pleased...doesn't like if i talk to his friends for long...wont let me go outside alone mostly..since i'm new to the place and don't know the language and all...he has a reputation of being a flirt but i dont see him talking to much girls he says people are back bitingbut now i have got a bad name since i'm roaming around with him n when people ask me who is to you i have no answer! i have to say he's just a friend and all but ofcorse no one belives.... besides why cant he accept me?!

2006-10-18 22:11:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 22:09:40 · 14 answers · asked by Lady_Y 1 in Friends

OK here's the deal... there's this girl i'm abslutely crazy about we're very close but she has no idea that im in love with her she also has a boyfriend...this is the reason why i haven't told her anything for so long however it gets harder each day im starting to feel i should tell her how i feel i don't care if she turns me down i think it'll be easier once she knows am i doin the right thing or should i just keep quite and try to get over it ...bottom line is i just want her to be happy plz help..

2006-10-18 22:07:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

which one u prefer??????

2006-10-18 22:04:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I had to do it so many times!

Is it wrong to fake it ?
Or should you stop the guy and say "hey bro this just aint working for me" (shame what about his feelings, screw it what about your feelings)
What are your thoughts on this guys & ladies!
Should you tell or fake.....................

2006-10-18 22:03:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Symbol of love is that *wellknown shape of heart*...from where did that shape came from??

2006-10-18 22:03:05 · 4 answers · asked by haya D 1 in Friends

What makes a good husband? What do they do for their women that makes them worth it?
And if the women is pregnant with his child what is expected of a real husband and father?

2006-10-18 22:01:58 · 9 answers · asked by Sarah C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-18 21:59:40 · 45 answers · asked by delboy 1 in Singles & Dating

she is going to travel over seas and she doesnt know wheter to have a long distance relationship or to just end it but she keeps saying that she neva wants to leave me but i think she doesnt want to do the long relationship thing but she doesnt want to tell me that.what should i do?

2006-10-18 21:58:56 · 7 answers · asked by aycee 1 in Singles & Dating

If a woman is REALLY as attracted to guys who are completely at peace with themselves as the rumors claim her to be, why does she always try to change the person? Why is she attracted at all to this man who apparently NEEDS changing if he's not Mr. Right to begin with?

2006-10-18 21:58:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If a woman is REALLY as attracted to guys who are completely at peace with themselves as the rumors claim her to be, why does she always try to change the person? Why is she attracted at all to this man who apparently NEEDS changing if he's not Mr. Right to begin with?

2006-10-18 21:58:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

trying to find out the advantages of having sex

2006-10-18 21:58:06 · 25 answers · asked by bombom 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-18 21:56:43 · 19 answers · asked by shah 1 in Singles & Dating

there's a boy who's one year younger than me. we both go to the same school. i like him but i never have a chance to talk to him. however, i caught him staring at me most of the time when we met at the canteen.does this signify that he likes me too?or maybe it's just that i like him and that's why i keep feeling that he's staring at me while he's not?

2006-10-18 21:55:47 · 13 answers · asked by huey 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 21:55:17 · 18 answers · asked by peaches 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this one girl asked me out i said i really don't have feelings for you

she asked "why"

i said "your not the type of girl i like" and she got mad and yelled couse i was saying she was a "type" lol


why was she so moody? she kept taking everything i said and made me feel bad haha

2006-10-18 21:54:59 · 15 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

She was an almost girlfriend in high school, and he hadnt seen her in alomst a year.. my Husbands friend started bringing her around the house in the last week. In only a week he fell for her. He left me at home sleeping to go tell her that he had feelings for her and she shared them and that he was confused... I dont know the truth only what he finally told me.. He went to her, walked with her, and held her hand. I can only pray that thats all it was but he left at 11am and didnt come back until 3pm. He says he told her that they couldnt be together and just wanted to be friends. He said he likes her but loves me. He says he loves me and Silas our unborn son. This is the same girl that has been invited over to my apartment on several different accounts to "hang out" while Im at work for 10 hours every night where I cant leave. He even invited her over after he supposedly told her that it wouldnt work. Let me remind you all that I am 81/2 months pregnant...

2006-10-18 21:54:11 · 17 answers · asked by Sarah C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I used to have sex 3 times a week. two times each time.
Recently I wanna do it everyday to times each time. this is really getting out of hand , waht is going on with me and what to do about it.

2006-10-18 21:54:00 · 8 answers · asked by Elsalsis 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 21:53:46 · 4 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I love you.......you are my love. You are the only one for me in this life. There is no one better than you. You are like an angel with beautiful eyes. If you need anything just ask me because I will always do anything for you,darling.

2006-10-18 21:53:33 · 2 answers · asked by FliPsIde 2 in Singles & Dating

how long can o lads last without cuming when ur having sex?
just want to know cos every one ive done it with last 15 minutes and then its over!!

2006-10-18 21:52:18 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been confronted about my feelings toward him, but I felt aggression on his part and therefore, I kept my distance, and lied to him about them so I could protect my feelings. He knew from the beginning that I lied to him, but if he said he didn't like me, it shouldn't matter to him anyways. So I'm confused. Some friends of his told me that about my feelings toward him and also lied in the process, and he was foolish enough to believe him. I even got into a fight with his ex-lover about how I felt. He found out and asked me about it on IM, but I was too afraid to admit the details of everything that was said, so I pretended to be alright and just act like it wasn't a big deal. Frustrated with me not addressing my true feelings, he started to ignore me. When I pleaded for the chance to profess the naked truth, he told me I protected my feelings so much, he couldn't tell what was the truth and what was fabrication. He's mad, but he said he never liked me. Is he hiding??

2006-10-18 21:49:22 · 5 answers · asked by The Maverick 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 21:48:23 · 11 answers · asked by lilhouis 1 in Singles & Dating

come on ... think

2006-10-18 21:47:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay first let me start by saying I do trust My boyfriend & I will untill he gives me a reason not to, but heres the thing, he has this ex right....well she calls all the time whitch is not a problem infact I told him to be nice & talk to her because he is 20 she is 17 & they were together for three years so I figure she is a young lady who may need someone to talk to & obviously feels comfortable around him & I have been there before well she threatens to kick my *** & all that for nothing just being a kid & wanting a little drama well thats fine too, but then she asks him all these questons like, does she live with you, witch I dont but he tells her this like it's her buisness & he has to explain himself to her that question among others that I wont mention well the way he explains things to her about us like he has too is annoying also sometimes he'll be talking to her & then ask baby is it okay if I go in the bedroom & talk to her alone for a while..so ofcourse I'm like yeah..but it kills me inside.... this is a big problem to me but I don't know how to tell him without sounding jeoulous or bossy please help!!!!!!!!

2006-10-18 21:46:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Since 1995 we were maintaining real good friendship but last year she quit relation with me accusing based on rumour that we are in an affair which truely confess is wrong.But I need her, her friendship and now I feel is that I am in love with her- herself is pampa

2006-10-18 21:46:12 · 7 answers · asked by pamkal52 1 in Friends

i like a guy that has no experience in dating.at first he likes me also,but later after 1 month he suddenly said he has no love feelings for me already.i really wana date him!but he said he didn't like me so i don't dare to say anything also.he said he wants his love to come naturally.and he doesn't want to talk about this love thing first.so i'm a lil sad.only can hope for him to like me again now.but i don't wana just sit back and wait!i want things to move faster a lil bit!is it stupid?and how should i do to have him come back to me?? please give me some advices....

2006-10-18 21:46:03 · 9 answers · asked by samantha k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really need somebody for my aunt who has been widowed for a year now, but they have been separated for almost 15 years. i know she dont wanna grow old alone. i need somebody who is decent. if you cant recommend someone, at least tell me how to look for candidates. i have posted a question about this, but it seems everyone is of no help. shes from the philippines, a very decent woman, she has been the Floor Manager of Holiday Inn Manila for so many years until the hotel closed. for now, she worked in a overseas employment agency. she is in her early 50's now. i am dead serious. pls help.

2006-10-18 21:45:58 · 6 answers · asked by mhyjan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean if u know a girl and in love with her and can't say as u fear that even she will not be ur friend anymore if she refuse !!!!!!!!HELP ME .

2006-10-18 21:45:19 · 15 answers · asked by jc 1 in Friends

My husband of 22 years is apparently going through a middlelife crises, he excersice alot and he keeps repeating that he has to have a blonde at least once in his life, he said that if he tells me about it then it is not cheating because he gave me notice.
I am going crazy, i feel pain and don't know what to do, I dont want to ruin my marriage due to his fantacies, we have 2 children and a good life.
I dont know how to explain to him that I feel bad around him when he starts with stupid jokes about me and his wish for a blonde because he wont listen, he thinks its funny.
any suggestions?

2006-10-18 21:45:17 · 16 answers · asked by cholilagros 2 in Marriage & Divorce