i like a guy that has no experience in dating.at first he likes me also,but later after 1 month he suddenly said he has no love feelings for me already.i really wana date him!but he said he didn't like me so i don't dare to say anything also.he said he wants his love to come naturally.and he doesn't want to talk about this love thing first.so i'm a lil sad.only can hope for him to like me again now.but i don't wana just sit back and wait!i want things to move faster a lil bit!is it stupid?and how should i do to have him come back to me?? please give me some advices....
2006-10-18 21:46:03 · 9 answers · asked by samantha k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just let it go. You can't make that happen. I know you are all wrapped up in this guy but it's not worth it. You will find someone who likes you and finds you interesting without having to do something to make it happen. What drives guys crazy is not acklowdeging them. Just ignore him. Move on and you will feel better.
2006-10-18 21:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by jamie2341 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you've got to ask yourself if he's really worth it. And chances are, if he changed his mind after a month, what makes you think that won't happen 'if' you guys decide to date each other. If he has no 'love' feelings for you anymore, you've just got to accept it and move on. There's no point in dwelling on a sad moment in life, especially if it concerns a 'potential' relationship that was ambiguous in the first place.
Point is, you can't do anything else but sit back. If he's already told you that he's not interested then I think you should move on to. There's plenty more people out there for you.
2006-10-18 22:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by Hum B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say don't waste a lot of energy on this guy. He doesn't really know what he wants, but he doesn't seem that interested in you.
You've done what you can and it doesn't seem to have produced the results you wanted. There are a lot of guys around and you can probably find one who will love you the way you want.
Keep looking.
2006-10-18 21:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You first have to come to terms with you can not MAKE people feel anything...people feel things ... okay i know that sounds complicated...Wait...it is like this...Be who you are and try to stay in the moment..do not focus on the future with him...If you care for him and he can not see it, then...He does not deserve you...And you would not be happy anyway for him to be with you out of convenience....You want it all...the love , the relationship, the friendship...Do not settle...If you guys connect it will happen ...If not ...It is not your destiny...
2006-10-18 21:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by LENNON3804 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not make any one have feelings for you! You need to go on with your life! It's really that simple, of course that is not what you want to hear!
2006-10-18 21:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must have done certain worng which he couldnt like pls try to grasp that point first than the answer will be yours
2006-10-18 21:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by pawan c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing to do is be his friend first
get to know him well, then u can decide ur next move
2006-10-18 21:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by Mikael C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, don't try so hard, if he thinks your backing away from him, he mite come to you.
2006-10-18 21:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new...
2006-10-18 21:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by cin c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋