OK here's the deal... there's this girl i'm abslutely crazy about we're very close but she has no idea that im in love with her she also has a boyfriend...this is the reason why i haven't told her anything for so long however it gets harder each day im starting to feel i should tell her how i feel i don't care if she turns me down i think it'll be easier once she knows am i doin the right thing or should i just keep quite and try to get over it ...bottom line is i just want her to be happy plz help..
2006-10-18 22:07:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im in college
2006-10-18 22:35:32 · update #1
How old are you? College or high school? I mean no offense by that either, but it is important if you want responsible/useful advice.
2006-10-18 22:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by colhadley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend
Its nice to be in REAL Love .
Its wonderful as long as it is true , which is true with very few.
Before its very late tell her politely, frankly . it should not be a problem for you are friends.
think this way -
Suppose she says `NO' , then still you will be friends, but you lose your love-n-life partnership. Right? But suppose she says `YES' then.... just think.
On the other hand if you dont ask her. then definitely you are going to lose her to someone else. (unless she is in love with you and bold enough to say so to you.) Why take chances.
She might be waiting for you to approach 1st.
So dear friend go ahead. talk neatly,cooly, confidantly. give her time to think on it.
All the best
have wonderful love life.
(let me know the result .)
Raj
2006-10-18 22:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by dreamsunltd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly want her to be happy, you won't try to break up her current relationship. Whether she chooses you or the guy she's with, she's going to go through a lot of heartache first. If you're prepared to lose her as a friend, and you just can't hide your feelings any longer, then by all means, tell her...but be prepared for her boyfriend to pummel you.
2006-10-18 22:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by nonnygoats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How previous are you? What do you recommend "your mum and dad won't enable you get a sparkling one"? Why could your mum and dad care? greater advantageous yet, use your determine's vibrator! That'll lead them to purchase you one in all your very own. Use your arms/hand for emergency alleviation. stay faraway from blenders...they're going to reason inflammation.
2016-10-02 11:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by bungay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably tell her how you feel and be done with it.
If it gets harder every day then you're only going to suffer if you're not honest with her. If she rejects you, at least you can go away knowing that you tried.
2006-10-18 22:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wish to keep your friendship, dont tell her. If you dont care either way, go for it. Dont try to seperate her and her current bf as she will resent you for it, try being as close friends with her as possible and who knows, you may outshine her bf in the long run.
2006-10-18 22:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know how you feel,life's too short to ignore your emotions. And she may not be as serious about her "boyfriend"as you think. Good luck.
2006-10-18 22:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by kick it 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you like her. Even when she reject you, you have nothing to lose... right???
just tell her how you feel and you will be much more better.
2006-10-18 22:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by evolutionf330q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just go and tell her how you feel its going to be okay if you are truthful and you follow your heart if she says no then you can move on and not have to wonder if you don't you will always have to wonder what if i would have done this
2006-10-18 22:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...don't go crazy, tell her and deal with the consequences.
2006-10-18 22:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋