If a woman is REALLY as attracted to guys who are completely at peace with themselves as the rumors claim her to be, why does she always try to change the person? Why is she attracted at all to this man who apparently NEEDS changing if he's not Mr. Right to begin with?
2006-10-18 21:58:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The truth is that no one is perfect, and no two people are PERFECT for each other. There is always some compromise and some adapting that needs to be done. For women, this comes a lot easier. If a woman wants you to change something small, like the way you greet her or say certain things to her, or something silly like putting the toilet seat down, these are compromises that help people to cohabitate. They aren't changing your personality. If, however, a woman tells you she wants you to stop seeing friends, stop doing things you enjoy, or start doing things you don't enjoy for her sake, these MIGHT be warning signs. Not definitely, because if she's asking you to change things that hurt her, there is a fine line that she may not be crossing. But if she's constantly bitching about them, she'll probably never be happy with you.
2006-10-18 22:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by nonnygoats 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not about changing him into Mr.Right...it's to push him and see if he will stand his ground or be a pushover and falter to us. Some women like the power to be able to tell a guy to do something and know that they will listen. But maybe you should take a step back and look at what she is asking you to change? MAybe it's to better you or maybe it's something that you two can meet halfway on....Change isn't always bad and is definitely inevitable....give the lady a chance and at least hear her out and give her a good reason for why not
2006-10-18 22:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by xxsanchabonitaxx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's a womans nature! They are rarely satisfied with any thing for any period of time! The sad thing is, is when you try to change a person, you may very well distroy the things you loved about them to start with!
2006-10-18 22:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the longer ppl together, more n more flaw u'll see...
i guess after some time, whateva that attract her to him at the first place lost its spark...
change doesnt necessarily a bad thing..
probably u should hear her first...
if it for the better why not???
2006-10-18 22:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by fallforniky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls like what's best for u....so change for the better...ok?
2006-10-18 22:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋