this is my problem...i just started my college i'm 17 and then i met this guy 19 my senior...we have kissed hugged touched u know wat i mean rite? but never ones he told me he loves me...he always tells me he likes me a lot...he already has a girlfriend whose overseas....he had told since our secondmeeting he never hid it from me but i like him n i takecare of himi let him touch me kiss me n still he will never say he loves me....when i compliment his friend you could clearly say from his face he's not pleased...doesn't like if i talk to his friends for long...wont let me go outside alone mostly..since i'm new to the place and don't know the language and all...he has a reputation of being a flirt but i dont see him talking to much girls he says people are back bitingbut now i have got a bad name since i'm roaming around with him n when people ask me who is to you i have no answer! i have to say he's just a friend and all but ofcorse no one belives.... besides why cant he accept me?!
2006-10-18 22:11:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you want a guy who would cheat on his girlfriend? Do you want him to cheat on you? You are getting an honest look at what this guy is about. Is this what you want in a relationship? A lie? Please. Have some self-respect. Hold out for a guy who puts you first as you would him. This guy is for someone else and he has made it clear. Look for someone who is just for you. You deserve that, not someone else's guy who openly cheats on her!
2006-10-18 22:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by emilynghiem 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well for one he has a girlfriend. I am sure he cares for you a lot as a friend, but you have to honest with yourelf. His girlfriend is overseas, and all you are to him is a booty call...well friend with benefits. Why are you putting yourself in this situation? Do you really expect him to say he loves you? You can honestly expect anything more from him. He has been honest with you and thats all you can ask. You deserve an unattached man who will treat you a lot better.Think of it thi way...if he were to leave his g/f and be with you...how do you know he won't cheat on you? I think it's best to go your seperate ways out of the common respect for eachother.
2006-10-19 05:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't you just say that he already has a gf overseas? so how can he accept you? of course he likes you. but he can't love you. don't be blind to the situation.
also it's not ok for him to forbid you to do anything like complimenting others or talking to his friends. who are you to him again? i remember you're not his gf, right? that's unfair to you. he can't treat you as his gf, but he controls you in a way that you are already like his gf.
you won't win in this situation. either he leaves his current gf for you. or he just stays away from you. make him choose. well, unless you are ok with being a 2nd gf, then go ahead with him. but don't expect that you'll be numero uno in his eyes.
2006-10-19 05:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your still a kid!!!!!!
Its obvious as the sunrise in the morning that he is usng you sweety!!!!
Why do you think he doesnt want you to say hi to his friends obviously coz your his little fling on the side!!!
If someone loves you they should tell you - flat out!!!
I totally agree with dublin boy - HE IS JUST USING YOU FOR S E X
You deserve nothing less then the best - always remember that!
DUMP HIS @SS ASAP!
2006-10-19 05:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by MERCAYDEES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm to me it sounds like your his **** buddy because he still loves his GF and just have you for sex or whatever your talking about if he doesn't want you to get to know his friends sounds like temporary..... meh in other words get outta the situation hes not worth it ... your going thought emotional battles... I'm guessing with the whole reputation thing ... best thing i think is to drop him but hey just my opinion
2006-10-19 05:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves someone else. Stop being used.
2006-10-19 05:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt love you he is just using you for sex
2006-10-19 05:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋