Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

I feel That i will never find her. Everyone is superficial and this is making me to search harder and harder. But i think i wont find her.:(((((

2006-10-18 11:35:52 · 22 answers · asked by ArchAngel 1 in Singles & Dating

If Raquel Welch asked me out on a date, I'd have to say yes, even though she's 66 and I'm 27.

2006-10-18 11:35:32 · 7 answers · asked by GGman 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

to make a long story short, I was having an affair with an ex, Iam married with 2 little ones. It all blew up in my face. the ex was threatning he was gonna tell my hubby, I broke down told my husban, he forgave me, but I don't know how I started talking to the ex again but the ex said he was never really gonna tell my hubby he was just threatning, now he says it can just be our lil seceret, but he thinks he has to talk to me everyday, how do I get rid of him completey?????

2006-10-18 11:34:42 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i like some one out of my grade at school, 8th, but idk if he likes me bak.. he keeps lookin at me n all that but weve never spoken to each other the whole year hes been here.. any advice u can giv me?

2006-10-18 11:34:08 · 1 answers · asked by CourTn3y 3 in Singles & Dating

I spoke to a woman today who met a man with money and kept showing off about it, Anyway, i was a little jelous but, i would just like to meet somoen loveing and kind, but if i meet a man who has money, i kinda feel well he wont be interested in me i am a single parent, i don,t even have a car and i am bringing up my grandchildren so i carn,t work full time, although i have nearly finished my degree, sometimes i think men with money think they are it, and that puts me off, i thnk they will want a woman with a flash car and all that. I am independant i suppose ishould be proud of that am i being negative. I just cannot handle hurt you know.

2006-10-18 11:33:27 · 12 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

gay guys know the complicated mind of a woman they know it so well even women love getting advice from them....i was in the salon w/ my mom and the gay guy was dr phil in that salon... gay guys are good spy for us straight guys trust me they know everything about women....and not the dumb stuff but the important stuff...

2006-10-18 11:32:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

there's this chick in one of my classes (i'm in high school) and she's just sooo hot I want to squeeze her c-cups and f*uck her brains out what do I do to her?

2006-10-18 11:32:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How would you feel if you lived in 1851 and you kissed an Indian and a sailor and you were supposed to get marry

2006-10-18 11:32:04 · 7 answers · asked by ericthegreat92 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and you don't return his feelings, but think of him as a brother/friend and are totally freaked out. i've told him a couple times to stop calling me and that me's making me uncomfortable. i've also at various times thought this was one of his infamous elaborate jokes (its not). i really do not know what to do here. i do not want to lose my best friend, but her hubby is putting me in such a spot that i feel like i might be forced to tell her what's going on... i do not want to hurt her

2006-10-18 11:32:02 · 16 answers · asked by ally 6 in Friends

Im trying to find an old freind. I know what town she lives in, her current name, but all I get is FREE regisration on the search services, then when they have the info I want they want me to pay for it.

2006-10-18 11:31:19 · 3 answers · asked by stretch2limit2003 1 in Friends

my bf and i got into an argument yesterday and i didnt see him let alone talk to him till this morning. hes refusing to see me again today. the fight was about his priorities. he told me his friends are just as important as me and we have been together for almost 3 years. shouldn't i be a little more important? he said if i bring anything up about that stuff he will leave me.

well today i thought he lied to me about something and we had an argument over that. i made mistake and thought he lied to me and he keeps holding it against me and refuses to accept my apology when everyone is hanging out tonight now..but me. what can i say to make things better?

2006-10-18 11:31:03 · 18 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

boyfriend of over a year, we both go to a community college together, and have one class together that is only 3 dats a week and 50 mins long. When I want to see him, I always have to mention ' when is the next time im going to see you", its like it doesnt bother him, he is always with his bestfriend every other night of the week, when i see him its in school for that 1 class and on tues and thurs for 2 hours, and we watch tv., he acts like he has some much more fun with his bestfriend, he calls him more than me, and when I say anything about this on how i feel...he says "not true", i dont know what to do, he says i complain, but i love being with him, he doesnt, he acts like he needs a break from me throughout the days, today, I said when am i going to see you, he said friday after school....which would be for only hours and he goes to work and goes to his bestfriends for 3 to 4 hours and drinks....this constantly happens every week. What should i do, he never brings up "us"

2006-10-18 11:30:12 · 5 answers · asked by old 4 in Singles & Dating

Eveything at home and places i go remind me of him i think i am going mad.

2006-10-18 11:30:07 · 34 answers · asked by karen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why not just have her take your name? Who wears the pants in your family?

2006-10-18 11:29:47 · 15 answers · asked by oldstalecheeks 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well theres this boy that i cant stop thinking about..and im pretty sure that he likes me,becuase he was flirting with me that time. iv only met him once.because he is my freinds cousin. and i met him at my freinds birthday..
i really want to see him again. but i dont know how to tell my freind,i dont want her to know i like her cousin..

so how can i kind of remind her or something like that, about her cousin..so i can kind of see him again or like..talk to him or something?

there pretty close..so any ideas?

please i really want to see or talk to him again just so mabyy i can stop thinking about him cuase thats practicaly all iv been thinking about when im talking to my freind on the phone. [im always hoping that he's at her house or something lol]

2006-10-18 11:29:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ladies, what's more important and why? What if they sorta had equal amounts of both, but nothing outrageous.

2006-10-18 11:29:02 · 13 answers · asked by Jim C 5 in Singles & Dating

There's three of us that always hang out!!! But, I'm always left out because the other two get together......is it possible that three just can not be? help! I need ya'lls advice.... I don't know what to do! Do I just give up and let them be? But they're like my best friends.....=(

2006-10-18 11:28:27 · 4 answers · asked by luv_2sing06 2 in Friends

My man sometimes thinks he isn't enough for me... but WE DO IT A LOT! I am sure more than average. He is 41, I am 33. We have sex about 3 times a week. Its not lame sex either... its good. I guess I just want to prove to him that he needs to stop being so hard on himself. I guess he used to do it a lot more.

Whatever though... I'm happy. I've told him but he doesn't believe me... good grief... he should "know" I am happy by what he does to me though.

2006-10-18 11:28:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Since I quit alcohol 8 months ago I dont go to bars or clubs anymore and my job doesn't involve meeting women. Everyone said I would meet someone special in the supermarket, the gym or wherever. It's the longest I have ever been single! I'm told I am quite goodlooking and that I'm a good laugh but I just aint meeting anyone. Even my weird friends have found someone!! Do I just have to wait and hope for the best?

2006-10-18 11:27:41 · 20 answers · asked by returnofkarlos 2 in Singles & Dating

i really liked this guy and well we were really close , i guess you could say we were bestfriends. but we like each other a lot more than just friends but i moved from CA. we talked to each other, and he told me he still like me a lot, but we never saw each other anymore and he really liked this other girl too. so he's going out with her , he wants us to be friends , because he said i'm his bestfriend and he doesnt want to loose me. but i like him more than just a friend, and i dont know how to get rid of that feeling.
so i told him that we could be friend but i needed to stop talking to him for a while , so i could forget about him. he was really upset when i told him that i wasnt going to call him for 2 months ,

i really want to be his bestfriend but i dont know how to get rid of the other feeling, and everytime he tells me about his girlfriend , i get so mad.
i dont know what to do.
should i just never talk to him again?
how do i forget about him

2006-10-18 11:27:29 · 5 answers · asked by cindy 1 in Singles & Dating

the hairs under my daughters arms are so long i don't think she has shaved or cut them for over 5 years.......she has started plaiting them it's so embarassing...i dread the hot weather when she has them exposed i asked her to do something about it but she thinks this is fine...am i wrong please let me know!

2006-10-18 11:27:25 · 6 answers · asked by diane c 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay last time my best friend Eve and her close friend and my close friend Jane were talking and I joined in the conversation and Eve gave me a look. I was pissed. So anyways this week Eve and Jane were having a conversation instead of joining in with them I walked right by because i didn't want Eve to give that look again. Eve asked me why i was pissed. I lied to her and said i wasn't. she yelled at me and called me a liar. I explained to her that everytime she and jane are talking i feel felt out and third wheel. She was pissed at me and told i was being too quiet around them. I am quiet around them. So she asked me if i was fine. I said yeah and got off the bus. The next day i came up to Eve and said hi to her in the morning. she ignored me and walked right past me. Why? Any advice, tips, comments, etc.

2006-10-18 11:26:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I used to like this guy, he never found out. I don't anymore though. One day he started yelling at me for no reason whatsoever. Then a couple of weeks later I had Wendy's for lunch. Then he said "If you give me fry, I will make sure nobody steals them."

Then just a few days ago, on picture day, I brought a mirror, a brush and some lipgloss. I didn't know where to put it so I left it on a bench. It was beside him. Then he said "You brought all of that for picture day?" Then he smiled at me! Oh and he also stares at me whenever I walk by. What does this mean?

Oh and he always makes me laugh.

2006-10-18 11:26:51 · 5 answers · asked by Vanessa<3 5 in Friends

dont believe in spanking or hitting of nekind have a 6 yr old twins that r 4 and a 3 yr old any suggestions?

2006-10-18 11:26:46 · 6 answers · asked by kim s 1 in Family

My fiance wants to have a big church wedding and invite all of his family and friends. I, on the other had, am extremely shy and that is the last thing I want, I would sooner elope down south somewhere and get married. How do we compromise?

2006-10-18 11:26:12 · 9 answers · asked by lalala 1 in Weddings

What does it mean when a guy is totally into you and makes it obvious, then actually tells you he's been intimidated by you when you guys finally DO end up doing the cute cuddly kissy thing, then makes plans to hang out, then breaks them over text at the last minute for work? And hasn't called since, but when he sees you say, oh, I don't know...at the gym and comes up and talks your ear off for a good 20 minutes, still giving you the impression that he likes you? what is that? What the hell? Will someone please tell me what is going on? Oh, and the guy is single, too by the way.

2006-10-18 11:25:34 · 13 answers · asked by trickyandmysterious 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been using some form of drug all my life. I've always wanted to stop, but I've been scared of facing reality alone. No one around me was making a move to get out that life so I waited and still used. During this time, I have neglected giving my full self to my children, neglected important activities and neglected myself.
It's been 5 years and me and my boyfriend have been battling drug addiction together and mental illness. I got so depressed that I was searching for help in the T.V. and newspaper. I became delusional and wanted help so bad that I convinced myself that someone out there in the world had been hearing my cry for help. As I got weaker, fighting my addiction and mental illness, I then thought someone was coming to kill me. After my stay at the hospital my mind got stronger. I've used since then. I've left my boyfriend. I made a move on helping my family, but my partner is in denial. He resents me for making a stand. I Love him and can't help him. I stay depressed.

2006-10-18 11:25:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a potential Sugar Daddy. How much do I give my Baby the times when I see her? I'm thinking $250.

I don't want to seem gullible on one hand or cheap on the other. I want the relationship to work. How do we set boundaries & what boundaries?

2006-10-18 11:24:44 · 5 answers · asked by okapi1 1 in Singles & Dating

My heart tells me to give him another chance I have nothing to lose...My head is telling me to run away as fast as I can...What should I do?.....He cheated on me!!

2006-10-18 11:24:42 · 15 answers · asked by MCB 2 in Singles & Dating

He's the one that ask me for a 2th chance's and well i keep telling him no but i still love him tho. but its his damn sister in the way she trys to tell him things i have never done...AND YES I HAVE HEARD THAT SONG BY GARTH BROOKS "SHAMELESS"

2006-10-18 11:24:34 · 5 answers · asked by Cindy M 1 in Marriage & Divorce