My heart tells me to give him another chance I have nothing to lose...My head is telling me to run away as fast as I can...What should I do?.....He cheated on me!!
2006-10-18 11:24:42 · 15 answers · asked by MCB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you religious? If you are, then you can forgive and forget but I know that is too ideal. I'd like to share these thoughts from a man's point of view. Maybe you will understand better why the heart is located below the head.
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends."
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
2006-10-18 11:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mhel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run away!! He'll never change. You'll always worry he's doing it again too. Your heart is telling you to stay because you already know him and it's easy. It is always hard to get into a new relationship. I'm sure your guy is like comfy shoes. If he is Mr. Perfect in every other way than think about it. If he has other flaws that bug you MOVE ALONG..... good luck..
2006-10-18 18:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your heart is your emotions your head is your logic
when you take a test in school did you use your emotions or your head
you know that leaving a cheating boyfriend who intentionally hurt you is the true Action on how he feels.
you know that his words are just that words. He will say anything to have sex with you again then with her and her and then maybe you.
ALWAYS FOLLOW YOUR INTELLECT,YOUR LOGIC,YOUR HEAD.
If he really loved you and wanted you he Never would had diddled another person
He doesn't love you never has and never will
find someone who will
2006-10-18 18:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Logic
2006-10-18 18:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by KgraBASKET 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give him another chance only if he really wants it. My man cheated on me before but he dumped her for me because i gave him another chance. but make sure you really think you have something with him because if it not really or just like puppy love then in the end you would get hurt more than when you found out he cheaped on you.
2006-10-18 18:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I followed my heart. If you think he has changed then follow your heart, if you think he will cheat again then run!
2006-10-18 18:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by charmz21lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away, if you let him get away with it, he will do it again. Don't you sacrifce yourself worth to a man who didn't even think about you. No matter how much it hurts, time will heal all wounds.
2006-10-18 18:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO listen to your head. are you crazy! if he loved you ..he would not have cheated.
NO No NO....don't take him back...you;ll be sorry...if you do, he will think he can get away with anything....how can it even be possible that he thought about you while he was cheating? he was selfish and disrespecful..girl don't do it..you deserve better!
2006-10-18 18:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have something to lose: Your self-respect. Could you really live with yourself if you stayed with a cheater? I sure couldn't. Do the smart thing and dump his lying a-ss.
2006-10-18 18:47:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after every thing i have learned on here follow u heart
2006-10-18 18:26:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋