What does it mean when a guy is totally into you and makes it obvious, then actually tells you he's been intimidated by you when you guys finally DO end up doing the cute cuddly kissy thing, then makes plans to hang out, then breaks them over text at the last minute for work? And hasn't called since, but when he sees you say, oh, I don't know...at the gym and comes up and talks your ear off for a good 20 minutes, still giving you the impression that he likes you? what is that? What the hell? Will someone please tell me what is going on? Oh, and the guy is single, too by the way.
2006-10-18 11:25:34 · 13 answers · asked by trickyandmysterious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only he knows what is going on. he could be playing you, he could be shy, maybe his 20 minute talk was nervous babbling? if you like him, give it a little longer, then move on if he doesn't shape up.
oh and ignore the first answer up there. sex won't solve anything!
2006-10-18 11:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by advicemom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I treat women, that I am into, like I would my best friend so something like a text would be fine to break plans with especially if it was for work (at least the guy has a JOB). You seem pretty clingy that is one of the most annoying things in the world to me let the guy be, if he likes you he would call you when he gets a chance and if you want to call him them call him don't play games. Treat him like you would your friend.
2006-10-18 11:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by BigKilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing hard to get, he might be the type of guy that wants a girl running to his feet and your not that girl. I recommend having a one on one talk with him next time you two run into each other and let him know don't play games either he is interested or not, but if not then leave the flirting out of your conversations. Hope this helps!
2006-10-18 11:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by smartiebc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im guessing your both about 16 or 17 somewhere around there hes young he wants to just hang out with the guys at that age he doesent know what a relationship really is.
2006-10-18 11:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by gilligansr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking a little long to put out are we.also you sound king of desperate.chill a bit and also let him sample some of the goods xx Oh! by the way , ignore the Religious Nutters, Losers, fat ugly and bitter individuals and the spotty never had a partner..ever... 'living alone with my Star Trek DVD's" bozos that post xxx
2006-10-18 11:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
the guy is a wuss, any guy who breaks plans on text without also trying to call is a loser
2006-10-18 11:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by Mango 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing with you, and you seem to be eating it up. If you stop rewarding this behavior, it will stop.
2006-10-18 11:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by Your Best Fiend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he's single because it doesn't sound like it!
2006-10-18 11:28:33 · answer #8 · answered by MCB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we dont and we heard u the first why u have something wrong with u
2006-10-18 11:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we like to have multiple partners
2006-10-18 11:33:07 · answer #10 · answered by jokedrugs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋