i really liked this guy and well we were really close , i guess you could say we were bestfriends. but we like each other a lot more than just friends but i moved from CA. we talked to each other, and he told me he still like me a lot, but we never saw each other anymore and he really liked this other girl too. so he's going out with her , he wants us to be friends , because he said i'm his bestfriend and he doesnt want to loose me. but i like him more than just a friend, and i dont know how to get rid of that feeling.
so i told him that we could be friend but i needed to stop talking to him for a while , so i could forget about him. he was really upset when i told him that i wasnt going to call him for 2 months ,
i really want to be his bestfriend but i dont know how to get rid of the other feeling, and everytime he tells me about his girlfriend , i get so mad.
i dont know what to do.
should i just never talk to him again?
how do i forget about him
2006-10-18 11:27:29 · 5 answers · asked by cindy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If there's a possibility that you knew you would be able to see him a few times a month, then I say tell him how you feel. The only reason why he would get upset when you told him you weren't going to speak to him is because he really cares about you. Tell him everything you're feeling, including how it hurts you when he talks about his girlfriend. Honesty is the only way you'll truly know how to go about the situation. If you know that you won't be able to tell him everything though, start over where you're at now. There's always other guys out there, and you never know, that relationship might not even work out.
2006-10-18 11:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ally S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont forget about him. you will get over liking him like a bf, but dont loose him as a friend, if it is ment to be taht you guys date then you will later on, but for now flirt with lots of guy s hav fun at parties, but in the bak of your head will be your true feelings for him. hes in a relationship and likes this other girl, he wants a friend to talk to and tahts you, its awesome wen a boy and girl havea best friend relationship, dont loose it. good luck!! byee
2006-10-18 11:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by Tessa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him, tell him your feelings, explain why it is so hard to be friends when you want so much more, i too am going through this, you need to be honest with yourself and with him, feelings don't just disappear, so there is no way to get rid of it, they just get stronger. Please be honest with him, other wise you will suffer in the long run.
good luck to you.
2006-10-18 11:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by hot_angel_missy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find a boyfriend - guys just move from one girl to the next, why shouldn't we?
2006-10-18 11:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by Mango 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you could do what lots of guys do and drink away the pain
2006-10-18 11:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by D R 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋