Family & Relationships - 15 October 2006

one of my friends lets call her chevy shes a cool friend and all but this friday she started saying messed up things about people she made fun of one of my other friends because of the way he was dressed which is stupid to me and then she made fun of this other girl that wanted to go out with her man she said that that girl was ugly and that she was fat and that she was a joke and that her man would never go out with herand it would look ridiculas because shes fat and she kept on laughing and i told her that that was mean and one of my other friends was there and i felt kind of ashamed that she heard her talking bad stuff abotu the girl and chevy, she told the guy i liked that i liked him without my permission and without me knowing! until the guy himself told me what she had said to him im starting to wonder is she talks **** behind my back to other ppl? and if she really is a friend i want to have.any advice? have you guys had these types of friends before? just give me your advice!

2006-10-15 06:45:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-15 06:45:08 · 8 answers · asked by martinashenden 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this girl named Katy, and we like the same things, same movies, same music and everything, but she says that she wants to wait to get to know me before she'll go out with me. I kinda have problems with being shy and everything, and now it seems that she feels a little weird around me for some reason. I just want to know how to get her to talk to me, how to get to know her, and maybe how to get her to like me.

2006-10-15 06:43:39 · 9 answers · asked by big_bear29360 2 in Singles & Dating

I kicked this boy in the balls, I was just trying to have a little fun, and what’s the big deal girls do it all the time. HE TOLD A TEACHER! That never happened to me before, they are always too embarrassed. My more experienced girlfriends told me to just deny it with and innocent girly look, so that’s what I did and it worked, they always believe the girl! It was a really scary experience, but I got my revenge.
The next day I squeezed his balls from behind, but I got a little carried away and he passed out and when he woke up he started vomiting(ewww), I just ran away!!!! I told my girlfriends and we laughed. They asked me how the balls are, and I told them that they are slippery, soft but kinda hard at the same time, and oval shaped. They didn’t believe that they are oval and want to feel them too; I think they are just jealous. He missed school for a few days but now is back.

2006-10-15 06:43:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what is the first present should i give her after engagment?

2006-10-15 06:43:05 · 5 answers · asked by frankly 2 in Family

I've been going out with my boyfriend for over ten months and I'm seventeen. I'm afraid of the next step sort of. My parents said that I have to tell them when we are going to sleep together because of going on the pill and stuff but at seventeen I can go to the doctor alone....so I know they're just doing this to control me but I feel like I cant do it because I will feel guilty. I am totally in love with guy by the way so that doesnt come into it.

2006-10-15 06:42:36 · 26 answers · asked by Naomi N 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

after that she said it was over. But then few weeks she text me saying that she loved me and could stop thinking bout me. She also said that she doesnt know what to do and that she needs "more space". I am not violent and not a heavy drinker but i must have flipped and cant remember doing it. It is totally wrong to hit a girl and i admit I have a problem now. She knows she can trust me again if discontinue drinking. i am going to wait till she contacts me if ever. what are the chances of getting her back.?

2006-10-15 06:41:59 · 19 answers · asked by giles 2 in Singles & Dating

I have always wondered that there are so many housewives in this world who have so many things to share but do not have a good trustworthy friend. Would there be some place/person whom they can approach and share their problems/get a shoulder and get good 3rd party opinions?

2006-10-15 06:40:29 · 14 answers · asked by bh37bh37 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am married, and I know what my husband thinks, I was just wondering..
What do you find attractive in a woman that makes you fall for her?

2006-10-15 06:40:19 · 6 answers · asked by Lanie 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 06:39:13 · 32 answers · asked by DeMaris I 1 in Family

I keep writing about this stupid guy that i was dating and found out he was a player and he admitted it...he said he really likes me and that i deserve the best blah blah and im such a great person...and we decided to be friends...well ive noticed that hes not signed into his site which is like myspace for like 5 days...but hes on msn messenger...i said hi and he didnt say anything back...i kept talking and just kinda messing with him and maybe he took it the wrong way...he put his thing on busy then i kept talking and he signed off and signed back on...i said sorry...eventhough i dont believe i did anything wrong...hes got a bad temper...but damn, why is he ignoring me? he has no reason...were not going out or anything...and we just talked the other day and he seemed fine. why would he be ignoring me and then the bigger question why should i care and let this ruin my whole day?? i feel like a total looser.

2006-10-15 06:39:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This Guy Is always Looking at me in school and always acts like he's making fun of me. But everytime im with another guy he get's really mad and starts talking Sh** about me and i always inore him and he acts like hes laughing at me all the time and when he's with his girlfriend he still looks at me.

2006-10-15 06:38:41 · 4 answers · asked by Terry l 1 in Singles & Dating

4 weeks ago this guys sister asked me if I wanted to go out with her brother. I said that I would think about it and answer her the next week. She missed 3 weeks of school because she was hung over and didn't want to come to school. When she finally come I told her yes, I did wanna go out with her brother. Then she showed me him and he seemed to like me, but I didn't like him. He kissed me the same 10 mins I met him. Yeah I know he's fast. Then I left him and went to lunch. I talked to him in the halls and stuff. We've only been going out for 6 days now and I don't wanna go out with him anymore becuz I only see him in the halls and yea. I think he's just with me to grab my *** and thats the big reason why I don't wanna be with him. I don't wanna tell him I don't wanna be with him becuz I am friends with his sister and I don't wanna ruin our friendship, but I know she will take her brothers side on this. I need something to say that will have us split up without any DRAMA?

2006-10-15 06:38:28 · 8 answers · asked by Dr.DRE 4 in Singles & Dating

hmm...have u tried doing so b4?? if so why? what triggers you to do so??...

2006-10-15 06:38:26 · 9 answers · asked by WTF ! 1 in Family

I had asked a question about my friend on here beore. She will never come out of her house b/c she fears she is too ugly. So I called her a few nights ago to ask her if she wanted to sleep over and she said no because she is too fat and ugly. She has no life outside of her house. Once I called her and she said she couldn't talk to me b/c she was trying to figure out what to eat for dinner. wtf? right? So I have tried to help her and she just drags me down. How do I tell her that I am done with her? ( oh I'm her only friend). Is this a bad decision? All the time she complains that nobody will call her or hang out with her, yet she does this crap.

2006-10-15 06:37:38 · 4 answers · asked by uluvme8807 3 in Friends

I think that if a gay couple are in a stable relationship they should be able to adopt, but alot of ppl would disagree.
What do you think?

2006-10-15 06:36:51 · 19 answers · asked by WTF ! 1 in Family

I have a shy girl who is showing the signs of liking me. She's avoiding me and looking away when I look at her. There's no way I am going to be able to just bump into her or wave at her and say hi because of the way she does. I've got to go out of my way to talk to her, but I don't know how. She's 19 and she is very close to her mom. It's hard to talk to a girl around her mother when you like the girl. When she is by herself, she tries to avoid me. ...but I really think she likes me because it is not mean. How do I talk to her? Girls what would you expect from a guy and what would be acceptable without creating a scene? I'm shy and get embarrassed easily.

2006-10-15 06:36:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do not think my marriage will be lasting much longer. We have a daughter, and I do not work at the moment, I am going to school. Since my husband is the provider, can I set some of our money aside in case it does come down to my leaving? I would get a job if this happened of course, but I would need some money to get myself and my daughter on our feet at first. Can I do this, since its HIS money??

2006-10-15 06:36:42 · 12 answers · asked by udontneedmyname 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what word would it be, no cheating just one word answers only

2006-10-15 06:36:09 · 64 answers · asked by trouble 4 in Singles & Dating

Is that too wierd? I also send my homeroom teacher and english teacher e-cards. Is that normal?

2006-10-15 06:36:05 · 5 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Friends

My boyfriend is really wonderful when he is sober but if anyone comes over he drinks and insults them. None of my friends want to come over if he is around because he has insulted them all. He drinks a lot and he says very hurtfull things when he is drunk, when he is sober he cleans and cooks and is a generally good guy but it is getting increasingly hard for me to deal with this Dr. Jekyl / Mr. Hyde problem. He has had huge problems with drinking in the past and has had treatments but apparently nothing has worked. It has become so regular that he has these angry drinking binges that I am not sure what to do. He knows he has a problem but he also seems reluctant to do anything about it. On the occations that I have told him to go to treatment or stop drinking he makes great effort to hide it from me then explodes with more rage then when he drinks regularly. I do care about him a lot but I really doubt that this is workable, is there a solution?

2006-10-15 06:35:07 · 19 answers · asked by kArMaRiFiC 5 in Singles & Dating

I was curious cause I saw some hoties last night and they were shaking and giving me the body language! P.S HOW DO YOU MAKE IT WORK WHEN THE MUSIC IS SO LOUD TOO?

2006-10-15 06:34:46 · 12 answers · asked by Nathann S 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 9 months. I love him to death but sometimes he just gets on my nerves. He's in college and it's my senior year in high school and i feel like i should be living it up, but i feel held back. Talking to any other guy about anything is an absolute NO! I'm curious to see what else is out there, but on the other hand, i dont want to risk losing the one guy i might love. what do i do?

2006-10-15 06:34:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Weve been dating here and there for almost 2 months. Because of some bad things that have happened to her she said she wants to take it slow but take it slow with me. She is still checking her personal ad and Im upset. Hopefully well talk about it today or tomorrow, what do you think?

2006-10-15 06:33:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Decision you make when first meeting, ...so ask yourself when meeting a man for the first time does his accent or the way he talks have any importance to you... does it put you off him, or are accents a real knock out to your senses? or is it just things like personality, looks, the way he's dressed, smells etc.....that you go for?......

2006-10-15 06:33:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

4 weeks ago this guys sister asked me if I wanted to go out with her brother. I said that I would think about it and answer her the next week. She missed 3 weeks of school because she was hung over and didn't want to come to school. When she finally come I told her yes, I did wanna go out with her brother. Then she showed me him and he seemed to like me, but I didn't like him. He kissed me the same 10 mins I met him. Yeah I know he's fast. Then I left him and went to lunch. I talked to him in the halls and stuff. We've only been going out for 6 days now and I don't wanna go out with him anymore becuz I only see him in the halls and yea. I think he's just with me to grab my *** and thats the big reason why I don't wanna be with him. I don't wanna tell him I don't wanna be with him becuz I am friends with his sister and she's in a gang and she knows how to fight. I don't becuz I'm a lover not a fighter. Just kidding.

2006-10-15 06:33:22 · 3 answers · asked by Dr.DRE 4 in Singles & Dating

your what? any thing you want kids.partner.car, pets parts of your body, you decide any funny or cute names

2006-10-15 06:33:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-15 06:33:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If so why?

2006-10-15 06:32:36 · 27 answers · asked by tRaCi3 4 in Family

2006-10-15 06:32:22 · 14 answers · asked by mclasdd 1 in Weddings