I had asked a question about my friend on here beore. She will never come out of her house b/c she fears she is too ugly. So I called her a few nights ago to ask her if she wanted to sleep over and she said no because she is too fat and ugly. She has no life outside of her house. Once I called her and she said she couldn't talk to me b/c she was trying to figure out what to eat for dinner. wtf? right? So I have tried to help her and she just drags me down. How do I tell her that I am done with her? ( oh I'm her only friend). Is this a bad decision? All the time she complains that nobody will call her or hang out with her, yet she does this crap.
2006-10-15 06:37:38 · 4 answers · asked by uluvme8807 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm tempted to ask why she's your friend!
We're all responsible for our own happiness. She needs to understand 'laugh and the world laughs with you, cry and you cry alone'. Nobody will notice her looks if she has a bright personality - that's up to her. Don't let her drag you down.
2006-10-15 06:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by Empea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Friends can be rather trying sometimes, but it seems like she's going through a hard time and really needs your friendship and support. If she's worried about dinner, take her to dinner someplace, many restaurants accomodate people on a diet (at least in big cities). If you leave her, that will just reinforce her impression of herself.
2006-10-15 06:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by musiclover 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude...shes just drawing attention to herself...if u call her and ask her to sleep over than obviously somebody calls her!!! if i were u i would tell her im not puttin up with it and make her feel bad and like crap cuz she lost her only friend...then maybe she will smarten up a little and CHANGE
2006-10-15 06:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by Emy B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she doesn't come outside to see ppl bring the ppl to her.
2006-10-15 06:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋