Weve been dating here and there for almost 2 months. Because of some bad things that have happened to her she said she wants to take it slow but take it slow with me. She is still checking her personal ad and Im upset. Hopefully well talk about it today or tomorrow, what do you think?
2006-10-15 06:33:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's nonsense if she wants to take it slow then why is she checkin her personals? If a girl wants to be cautious in a relationship then she would not go around looking for more stress don't you think? she has a plan and she knows exactly what she is doing,if i were you i'd sit her down and ask her whats going on...from the way she answers and what your instincts tell you, you will be able to know whether or not she is two timing you or not...keep your eyes open.
2006-10-15 06:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by ericktravel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a grip, buddy. It's called DATING. You expect to be exclusive after just 2 months? What time table are YOU on?
Are you keeping a toothbrush at her place yet?
Better yet ... Do you know her mother's maiden name? Who was her favorite elementary school teacher? Does she use Equal, Splenda, Sweet-n-Low, or good old fashioned sugar in her coffee?
Exclusivity is determined by the level of intimacy in a relationship, in my opinion. How much do you know about each other? If you don't know detailed questions such as those, her pace is absolutely reasonable. You are the one who is rushing it.
And there is nothing wrong with her continuing to check her personal ad if she wants to. If you want to get right down to it, she could check it right up until (and if) you choose to propose.
Until the cow is bought, you don't have sole rights to the milk, even though it may be free. ;)
2006-10-15 07:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by jewel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask her first to take it off. She might've met some friends there..it doesn't always have to be new guys. If she refuses and it bothers you and she notices..but still refuses..she is still on the market in her eyes..don't deal with it.
2006-10-15 06:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by beautifullybroken 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think she likes you if you 2 have been dating for 2 months and she might want to keep her options open incase it dont work out with you 2
2006-10-15 06:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she is still checking her ads then she isn't ready or as attracted to you as you think she is ..she is not looking for the same kind of commitment that you are ..so you should cut your losses and move on
2006-10-15 06:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that you want her off the market.
2006-10-15 06:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and go from there
2006-10-15 06:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋