I have a shy girl who is showing the signs of liking me. She's avoiding me and looking away when I look at her. There's no way I am going to be able to just bump into her or wave at her and say hi because of the way she does. I've got to go out of my way to talk to her, but I don't know how. She's 19 and she is very close to her mom. It's hard to talk to a girl around her mother when you like the girl. When she is by herself, she tries to avoid me. ...but I really think she likes me because it is not mean. How do I talk to her? Girls what would you expect from a guy and what would be acceptable without creating a scene? I'm shy and get embarrassed easily.
2006-10-15 06:36:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
[just so you know, im not really gramatically challenged, my apostrophe key doesnt work so thats why i will sound like a moron who doesnt know what an apostrophe is in this answer. haha]
maybe she is shy because she thinks you dont like her, and shes afraid of getting hurt.just smile at her occasionally when you see her. eventually she will probably get the idea that you like her too, and she will build up the courage to say hi to you or something like that. you need to not be afraid to make the first move though, especially if you both are shy. just say hi to her, whats the worst that could happen?
2006-10-15 06:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At one point in my life I did the SAME EXACT things that she is doing even though I am not her I can tell u that she is probably waiting 4 you to make the 1st move, esp depending on her morals. She is shy and prob likes you she just doesn't know how to go about things. Because you are shy and she is shy someone has 2 break the ice, in this case I think you might have to unless she surprisingly does,
Try to get her when she is alone it might be hard b/c she is avoiding you but don't think too much of it she is just nervous I did the same exact thing, which is weird when you also like the guy
Keep the Conversation friendly and throw some jokes in their 2 Kill the awkwardness, and you should be fine, getting her to laugh will make her feel at ease when she is around you
Goodluck
2006-10-15 06:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by Breann 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confindence is the key. Even if you're a total loser, which I think you're not. Try to run into her when she doesn't know you're there and casually ask her out for lunch, movie, dinner or stuff like that. Don't quite make it clear that you like her, just that you're interested in her. If she says "yes", GREAT! If she declines, try to shrug it off or she might feel bad, and say "Oh, okay."
2006-10-15 07:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by quanginator 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You seem like a great guy, if you were cute, I would go with you. Well, you should try to come up from behind- when she doesn't know your there. Then, deep breath, and try talking as smooth as possible. Good Luck! Tell me what happens.
2006-10-15 06:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 08:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your kinda like me i`m having the same problem but my guy has known i`ve liked him since last year.i would just write a note to her and see what she says
2006-10-15 06:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you will have to keep the conversation going once you do start talking to her. read tips on dating and more to help you on this site
2006-10-15 06:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by lushy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋