Family & Relationships - 13 October 2006

I'm 13 and I have some great friends at school. I get on with them and everythin, but I don't feel as close to them as you should feel with a best friends. I would not be able to say which ones of them I am closest to but there is noone that I feel 100% close to. Am I expecting too much from a friend or what. I just feel that I need someone that I can always depend on and can be my complete self around. I'm just not saying I wouldn't consider them as friends, they are great friends, there are just not as close as i feel i need them to be. Any advice??

2006-10-13 09:51:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am nice to them if i play out a conversation in my head or if I talk to girls I am nice. I also dont have lots of guy-friends. sooo any ideas.

2006-10-13 09:51:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ihad a deep crush on a girl and co incidentally i happened to get ona very good friendship with her. BUt she denied any other relationship except friendship, so i broke up with due to anger and hurt.
But few weeks after i broke up i found her even more attractine and started masturbating thinking about her?
IS IT NORMAL?
I AM SORRY IF MY QUESTION IS OBJECTIONABLE AND INDECENT TO ANYBODY

2006-10-13 09:51:27 · 36 answers · asked by metallixan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been dating for a few weeks and really connect with one another. We were joking around last night and i said that i loved her. Today she asked me if I really love her. I do have strong feelings for her. But what can I say in response to keep her on the edge and keep her guessing??

2006-10-13 09:51:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Want to find some female chat friends but do not really care to hang out in chat rooms. What is a good way? Love to hear from people and have fun.

2006-10-13 09:51:19 · 3 answers · asked by papabear569 2 in Friends

2006-10-13 09:51:18 · 4 answers · asked by Polash 2 in Friends

I haven't been able to find my brother "Bobby Dean Clark Born 1/19/55" since about 1996 when my mother passed. I'm just trying to locate him. I've tired without success bighugs. As far as I know he hasn't been in contact with any of my other brothers or sister. I've searched the internet but also without success. Can anyone help me?

2006-10-13 09:50:26 · 6 answers · asked by beastmastermark 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know he is married, but when he comes to my office to visit me I can not avoid this feeling, it just feels right when he is around. He comes by and say's how I'm I doing and brings me a snack or something. He makes me feel good, but I know he is married but he is very nice, and out of all the guys that come to this office he is the only one that catches my attention. He seems like he likes me too, but I do not know how far is too far.

2006-10-13 09:50:21 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 09:50:04 · 12 answers · asked by roy 4 in Singles & Dating

White guys who answer these posts always leave this out of their argument about how it's ok for everybody including Asian guys to accept these relationships when these are the same people who would denounce relationships between Asian males and white females. This is obvious by the way the white media in this country pair up Asian females with White males 90-99% of the time when the majority of Asian relationships are between Asian females and Asian males. The media doesn't do this to women of any other race hence you don't see those women have a thing for white males in the same proportion as Asian females.
The influence of the media towards it's targeted audiance has been proven to be substantial in study after study. The media has a substantial affect on Asians in this country because their population is smaller than other ethnic groups here. There is also a lack of an Asian American culture in America leading to a lack of a defined Asian American identity. Look at it this way, African Americans have a defined African American Identity (black music, black stars etc), White Americans have a defined white identity (white music, white stars etc), Hispanics have a defined Hispanic identity (Hispanic music, hispanic stars etc). Asians in this country really don't have an Asian American culture so the majority of them will take up either a white identity or a black identity. In essence, it's like having an Asian person that looks Asian on the outside but are either white or black on the inside.

How the media conditions Asians in the country and how it divides Asians Americans: The media portrays Asian females and Asian males divergently. Asian females are paired up with white males the majority of the time yet the majority of Asian relationships in this country are between Asian males and Asian females. The American media almost never pair up Asian males with white females even though these relationships, though fewer than AF/Wm relationships make up a portion of Asian reltionships in this country. What you have then is a mirroring effect of how the media actually conditions Asian Americans to socialize in this country. Asian guys can get white women and women of any other race as can be seem in this website:

http://www.aznlover.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=14&page=1

The problem with the distortion of Asian interracial relationships is that the media gives a thumbs up to Asian female interractial relationships-showing this mostly with white males, sometimes with black males and almost never with hispanic males and you get the mirroring effect of social dynamics for Asians in this country. One has to ask why the media continues to portray Asian females with nonAsian males the majority of the time when Asian female Asian males male up the majority of Asian relationships in this country. The media doesn't do this with women of any other race.

Link to what happens when the one way conditioning of the old media gives way to the internet.

http://www.proudasianamerican.com/Articles/2004%20ACS.htm

Links to media influence:
http://www.troubledwith.com/stellent/groups/public//@fotf_troubledwith/documents/articles/twi_013859.cfm?channel=Parenting%20Teens&topic=Media%20Influence&sssct=Background%20Info

http://www.troubledwith.com/stellent/groups/public//@fotf_troubledwith/documents/articles/twi_013855.cfm?channel=Parenting%20Teens&topic=Media%20Influence&sssct=Background%20Info

http://www.troubledwith.com/stellent/groups/public//@fotf_troubledwith/documents/articles/twi_013924.cfm?channel=Parenting%20Teens&topic=Media%20Influence&sssct=Background%20Info The white male dominated media does not like to portray Asian males with white females because they know what giving a thumbs up to these kinds of relationships can do. Imagine what would happen if 90-99% of all media portrayals of Asian males are with white females and Asian males are portrayed in the most positive light while Asian women are dogged out in the media. There'd be a pretty dramatic impact on Asian interracial relationships in this country.

2006-10-13 09:49:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-13 09:49:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how long should i realy what i have been with him for a year and we love each other but im scared. to u know but i want to at so many times.

2006-10-13 09:48:57 · 30 answers · asked by baby gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 09:47:57 · 15 answers · asked by Fredd O 2 in Singles & Dating

Which picture is the hottest pose of this chicks cute feet

http://kutefeet.textamerica.com/?r=5254768

http://kutefeet.textamerica.com/?r=3936409

I think the last one is. Damn i'd do anything to be those sandals for a day to be strapped to those sexy feet!

2006-10-13 09:47:44 · 3 answers · asked by TT M 1 in Singles & Dating

how come a woman can sleep around with who ever she want and it's ok but if a guy dose it he's a whore????

2006-10-13 09:47:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like you seem them a few years later down the road with a bunch of kids, and the husband's walking in front of the wife, and they look so miserable? Why is that? How can you prevent it? Why can't people always stay happy like they used to be? Is life just cruel? :(

2006-10-13 09:46:36 · 22 answers · asked by Justina 3 in Marriage & Divorce

because he cheats on his gurlfriends

2006-10-13 09:46:32 · 7 answers · asked by arlene u 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my sister...okay he said that we cant even go to my dad's house w/o getting permission from him...he doesnt even own my moms house...her name is on the lease...and i cant stand him...okay he wouldnt even let me come up stairs for dinner bcuz i had paper on my floor...im living w/ my dad now, but i love my mom so much but, w/o her bf being around, she just lets him do w/e he wants and she wont stop him and i dont know what to do, i know that my mom loves me, but not that much if she lets him kick my sister outta her house...he needs to leave...what should i do before he does something worse to us?

2006-10-13 09:46:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-13 09:45:56 · 13 answers · asked by HEY 1 in Singles & Dating

One of my best friends is always remending me about my uncle David in Demolition Derbys. He does good, but when he looses a tire she laufed. It gets on my nerves! She is always trying to act cool like me because I am popular and everyone loves to ask me questions about the derbys. Also she is always behind me following me around. How can I tell Her to Leave me alone or what should I do? PLEASE HELP!!!!!

2006-10-13 09:45:45 · 5 answers · asked by Savanah 4 in Friends

Ok so like there is this girl in my food & nutrition class, and she's really weird. She keeps asking me weird questions like "Are you happy?" ... "Are you sad?" ... "Are you emo?" ... "You hate rap right? good?" ... "Are you a suicidal piece of sh!t?"

She draws hearts all over her notebooks, with knifes sticking through them and blood gushing out. And she draws like these little devil peeps with little red horns and she draws satan stars (and this is a Catholic High school) And she always has her cell phone in class and she just sits there for the whole class and texts her peeps.

What is she? Emo, or just plain weird? Everyone is always saying to her that shes emo, and then shes like "WHAT? I'm not emo!" So is SHE EMO or just plain weird????

2006-10-13 09:44:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok. my best friend has a younger sister. i am at their house pretty much everyday. She is 12 and her sister is 10. They are like sisters too me. Well in April my friend was spenfing the night at my house and when her mom and little sister came to pick her up the little sister died. It was so sad and I feel so bad that it happened at my house. Well I was just wondering if anyone could compete with a sad story like THAT.

2006-10-13 09:44:23 · 2 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Friends

2006-10-13 09:44:16 · 15 answers · asked by faroh27 1 in Weddings

I used to go out regularly with them, but of late I just can't be bothered, its just become too much of the same old thing, i've not argued with them or anything like that.

its just...i don't know why this is happening..

2006-10-13 09:43:39 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-13 09:43:16 · 12 answers · asked by confusedude529 2 in Singles & Dating

ok....so there's this guy i like and whenver we're downtown in bars we'll be really flirty...like he'll touch my leg or once we were waiting for a taxi and he was leaning against a tree and told me i could lean against him (so my *** was on his front side) and then he put his hands around me and in my front pockets (he said he had no other place to put his hands) do you think he likes me? also...i kind of hooked up with someone else on another night downtown (i was really drunk)...do you think this drove him off or does he now see me as a challenge? i heard guys like chasing girls. also where's the best place to subtley touch him to turn him on? thanks a bunch!

2006-10-13 09:43:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 09:42:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the guy that i like..that i spent so many days with..jus talking..messsing around..even sleepin wit..he is leaving tomorw to another state..i m sooo depresed i cant express how sad i am...its jus too much i cant take it..and even worse..its like he dusnt even care hes not the commitment type so i dun have any way of knowing if he has any feelings for me..and i dont think he cares, once he leaves he will jus find more girls to play around n flirt wit there but I m siting here with deep feelings for him and crying my eyes out...plz tell me..will i forget him..how can i forget him...will it just take time...and maybe once hes gone it will actualy be a load off my back ..i dont have to keep wrrying abt him anymore??? Plz advise me on how to forget this guy..and also tell me do u think he mite also hav feelings for me..for gods sakes we slept together...

2006-10-13 09:41:58 · 15 answers · asked by Har S 1 in Singles & Dating

he lives with his mother we were never married.

2006-10-13 09:41:56 · 9 answers · asked by snake9203 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

like you love them, but they drive you up the wall if you spend too long with them?

2006-10-13 09:41:55 · 7 answers · asked by Justina 3 in Family