I used to go out regularly with them, but of late I just can't be bothered, its just become too much of the same old thing, i've not argued with them or anything like that.
its just...i don't know why this is happening..
2006-10-13 09:43:39 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
how does someone who is 35 meet new people though? i don't like the pub/club scene & there isn't much for those in my age group to do socially??
2006-10-13 09:53:47 · update #1
You're tired of doing the same old things with the same old people.
There's nothing wrong with meeting new people and trying new things. It doesn't mean you dislike your old friends, it just means you need some excitement.
2006-10-13 09:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A similar thing happened to me when I was in high school. Well, it could be that you are just becoming bored with the same old routine, same friends, same thing all the time. Maybe you can suggest you guys doing something different. It could be that you are outgrowing them, sometimes this happens, especially when there are never any changes--things get stagnant,and then sometimes people just start growing apart. Maybe if you take a break from them for a little while, you may enjoy them more--or you just may make new friends who are on the same level you are at this point in your life...Good Luck, my friend...
2006-10-13 09:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get the same thing. When you hang around the same people or person for a long time it's easy to get annoyed with them. This should tell you that you need to take a break from them. Nine times out of ten, once you've distanced yourself from them for a while when you come back you'll be just fine. Or it could just be that you're growing apart, things like this happen and there isn't a whole lot you can do to stop it.
2006-10-13 09:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by lady.ceridwen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 19:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're hanging out with the wrong type of people, and maybe the are not the kind of friends to help stimulate thought, maybe they're just the "good time" friends.
Or, maybe you need some change in your life. Try a new hobby or something to make you have some fun.
2006-10-13 09:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it your friends you can't be bothered with - or going out?
I used to be depressed and went through a similar thing, only I discovered that it wasn't my friends that wre the problem, it was me - I found the effort of having to entrtain too much, and always felt I was not good enough, or boring them as I felt so low.
2006-10-13 10:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by Contrary Mary 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you suggest you all do something different for a change. Maybe they are a bit fed up too. But dont lose track of them. Cos believe me, everyone needs friends. Maybe not right now but sometime in the future.
2006-10-13 09:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by JUSTENJOYINGLIFE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, everybody needs a change sometimes. I dont see too many of my old friends anymore, I ride my motorcycle a lot now, and just chill. write music on my computer, play guitar, I see enough people at work, I like to be alone on my time.
2006-10-13 09:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by Big hands Big feet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been like that off and on since I was about 14 years old. (I'm not 26)
It happens to me. I don't know what makes it happen. I guess it is just the way our personalities are. As long as you aren't secluding yourself for deeper issues like depression then it is okay to be like that!
2006-10-13 09:46:50 · answer #9 · answered by Amaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i understand the same thing is happening with me and my best friend its like we just grew apart or something nothing bad just dont spend much time dont even really talk to each other anymore...dont worry just go find some folks you have something in common with
2006-10-13 09:53:33 · answer #10 · answered by tumama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋