how long should i realy what i have been with him for a year and we love each other but im scared. to u know but i want to at so many times.
2006-10-13 09:48:57 · 30 answers · asked by baby gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TOO YOUNG FOR WHAT... SEX???
UNDER 18 in most states!!! Just realize there are consequences for your actions and your inactions...
IF you let him have sex with you and didn't wear any protection. You could wind up with an STD or a pregnancy. Some cases, you'll only end up with a reputation of being an easy girl and guys will come around you looking for sex only.
To some guys saying, "I love you" is like saying "Pass the Ketchup." It means that little to them. You would be better advised to wait until you are married.
However, I know that is what the "squares" say. Generally, the squares don't end up with lots of regrets.
2006-10-13 10:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to, and you're not being pressured into it, well than it's completely your decision. Scared could be simply anticipation or anxiety. It really depends on how far you have already went. If you have gone pretty far already than that may be the next step. But if the both of you haven't been very intimate, then wait.
Slowly do some more and take your time to get more experience before you jump into something you're not ready for. Also, realize that sometimes sex ruins a relationship when you're young. Be comfortable that if you you do do it, you will probably not be with this person forever, will you regret having lost your virginity to them anyway?
2006-10-13 09:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by coletteraubal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion I think that is question is not a matter of age, if you are older than 18, it might be OK, but if you have not done it is good anyway, but another reason is because if you are still thinking about it, it is because you are not ready yet! If you are not ready do not do it, you know the reason why you have waited so long, and congratulations, not a lot of girls wait no more and the consequences are so many teenage pregnancies, but I recommend that if you feel comfortable the way you are you should not do it, and if he really loves you he will understand. Good Luck.
2006-10-13 09:57:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 04:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by mcfee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are between the ages of 12-16 its to young.
2006-10-13 09:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Under 18 is never OK. Too young. Over 18 only if DEEPLY in LOVE and in a committed relationship and after a long time dating.
2006-10-13 09:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should at least wait until your 14 or 15 to do ANYTHING like that. If your younger then that you shouldnt even be having those thoughts yet. Secondly, do it ONLY when you feel comfortable with it. If your not sure if you really want to, you would probably do better to hold off for awhile.
2006-10-13 09:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by Xx Spookz xX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k well first if you have to ask that question you are to young theres alot of responsiblities that go with it.there is no guarentee of anything except taxes and death and either way they may just be involved. whether or not its taxes - prego or stds - death all 3 of mine were on coterceptives so watch yourself if you cant support the 3 of you then why rush it.its over rated there is no way to know if he will help if you get prego or if he has anything i think you need to take more time on yourself first
2006-10-13 10:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no set age to when it is right to have sex. When you are ready, you are ready, at first it is best to try fingering/handjobs and oral. You can have ALOT of fun with that, and wait until you have tried everything until you have se. Now that I have have sex for a year, I miss the way me and my ex were before we had sex, messing around in tents, bedrooms and on buses. I'm glad i stayed at that stage for a while.
2006-10-13 09:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by barbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure hes scared 2 but take it from another male he really wants it if hes been wit u 4 a year o and if ur under 13 thats 2 yung but i new alot of girls who lost around tht age
2006-10-13 09:54:20 · answer #10 · answered by lilhustler9178 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋