Ihad a deep crush on a girl and co incidentally i happened to get ona very good friendship with her. BUt she denied any other relationship except friendship, so i broke up with due to anger and hurt.
But few weeks after i broke up i found her even more attractine and started masturbating thinking about her?
IS IT NORMAL?
I AM SORRY IF MY QUESTION IS OBJECTIONABLE AND INDECENT TO ANYBODY
2006-10-13 09:51:27 · 36 answers · asked by metallixan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to get a new girlfriend
2006-10-13 09:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Anything you cannot have can be a subject for desire. And when it comes to sexual urges and mental images that stimulate masturbation, there are absolutely no taboos. So whether you think about your brother's gf, yoru best mate's bf or your cousin it matters not. Well not as long a syou realize it is just a fantasy and you are using it only to pleasure yourself. Never let fantasy take over though lest you wind up tryign to get it on with someone you know would not be a good match. Instead make sure ot move into new territory with yrou reality and seek out new people to replace what you can no longer have (or want).
2006-10-14 12:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I often masturbate thinkng about your former girlfriend. But it is not normal to break off a relationship and then have one via your hnd. Try the normal way.
2006-10-13 09:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to think about someone that you find attractive and who is more natural that your ex for whom you had deep feelings.
I am fortunate in that my OH is the only man that I want and need and it is always him that I think about.
If anyone finds your question objectionable they should not have clicked on the link.
2006-10-13 10:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing to worry about unless you start stalking her, PLEASE DON"T DO THAT! She is attractive to you that's fine. to think of her would be like seeing any woman in the world and thinking of that woman later in a sexual way. it's ok, just don't let her know. it might spook her out, especially if she just wants friendship.
Your question is fine anyone who has loved anyone would have probably done the same thing, we are human after all.
2006-10-13 10:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by valentina c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can think of alot crazyer sh!t people have posted on here lol i think your fine... why wouldnt it be ok? Its not like you havent had her before or came close to... what happens in your head... is in your head.. dont worry about it...and lets just HOPE to god she doesnt know about this yahoo account and never stumbles across this question :P now i made you paridoid didnt I?? :P
2006-10-13 09:54:53 · answer #6 · answered by chrystal_lynn2002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats because you always want most what you can;t have. Try finding someone a celebrity or something to replace that image with and try to go and keep yourself occupied doing other things not having to do with her.
2006-10-13 09:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess thats pretty normal ive broke up with someone out of anger but still wanted them
2006-10-13 09:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y not? In fact in fantasy you can have safe and fantastic sex. I Get another of your exes in ur dreams and have a 3sum on me.
2006-10-13 09:57:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if it's normal or not; I'm not a psychologist and I don't think I can make that call. I can say that excessive masturbation can lead to penile curvature.
2006-10-13 09:53:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's very normal. Everyone has fantasy's when their doing it. Whatever gets you off. Have fun ~~~
2006-10-14 12:31:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋