the guy that i like..that i spent so many days with..jus talking..messsing around..even sleepin wit..he is leaving tomorw to another state..i m sooo depresed i cant express how sad i am...its jus too much i cant take it..and even worse..its like he dusnt even care hes not the commitment type so i dun have any way of knowing if he has any feelings for me..and i dont think he cares, once he leaves he will jus find more girls to play around n flirt wit there but I m siting here with deep feelings for him and crying my eyes out...plz tell me..will i forget him..how can i forget him...will it just take time...and maybe once hes gone it will actualy be a load off my back ..i dont have to keep wrrying abt him anymore??? Plz advise me on how to forget this guy..and also tell me do u think he mite also hav feelings for me..for gods sakes we slept together...
2006-10-13 09:41:58 · 15 answers · asked by Har S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When does sleeping together really mean anything? If he's leaving the state, and he hasn't told you how he felt, what makes you think that doing anything now will make any difference? It's simply too late, so just let it go.
How to forget about him? Well, how about getting yourself together and start dating other men for a change?
2006-10-13 09:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by Natalia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way of knowing but to ask him if he has any feelings for you. If he does, talk to him about what happens next. Will a long distance relationship work for you guys? If he was just playing with you, he ain't worth the tears girl. You're worth more then just messing and sleeping around with and the faster you realize this, the better off you'll be. Unfortunately there's guys and gals that could care less if you slept together. It didn't mean anything except for getting a piece of a*#. Sorry I know you don't want to hear this but if that's the case, you don't need him. Just hold your head up, don't rush into any other relationship and take one day at a time. You'll find that "MR. RIGHT" one day and the wait will be worth it. Nobody is worth crying over - take care!
2006-10-13 09:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by albert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
""and also tell me do u think he mite also hav feelings for me..for gods sakes we slept together...""
Why did you allow yourself to be used? Just because you slept together doesn't mean a guy has feelings for you. Guys don't say no... you spread the legs they will jump right in.
When you start thinking more highly of yourself then you will get over this depression. Try making some self improvements and try loving yourself more.
2006-10-13 09:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first things first relax.if you two have feelings for each other then you will always remember him but it will get easier in time.the only thing you need to do is worry about you hun.people break up daily.its not the end of the world.besides you do have the internet so you can still talk to him .its not like he's dead.and the sleeping together well thats life you will sleep with others and have feelings for others so hold your head high and keep on movin on live will treat you better if you help it along
2006-10-13 09:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it seems as if he doesnt care maybe he is just a distraction that is holding u back from realizing what you have the potential to grasp. When he is gone it will give you an opportunity to see what life is really like and not be tied down. I will admit that it wont be easy to just let go, but if you believe in urself and keep ur head high everything will come
2006-10-13 09:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by strwberryshortcake_65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone loved parts, you feel he is missing, obviously, and it hurts sooo!
Don't try to forget him, only think situation has changed, no matter why, but it is not the same. Don't feel ashamed if you miss him or think "If he would be here..." Write today a huge paper about your feelings towards him and burn it, (you will feel so free) and make some changes in your life, don't let yourself down or it can make you lose nice moments of your life.
2006-10-13 09:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by mbestevez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 06:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by riesgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man is worth beating yourself up over. It will take some time to get over him but it will happen. Just because you slept with him doesn't mean he wanted to spend the rest of his life with you. Sorry to be so harsh but it is reality. The distance will do you good. It helps when you are far away from each other. Keep your head up!
2006-10-13 09:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so maybe he is protecting himself from getting hurt and not revealing his true feelings
or perhaps he doesnt have the same deep feelings as you do. guys and girls are different, sleeping together can be a much more emotional thing for most chicks then guys.
hang in there, things will get better
2006-10-13 09:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point you have nothing to lose by telling him how you feel. See where that goes. I think once he is gone you will be able to move on from him. Just spend time with friends, date others and enjoy yourself.
2006-10-13 09:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by JEMER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋