2006-10-13 09:50:04 · 12 answers · asked by roy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Someone needs to be the one to make the final decision; but it should be pretty equal. The man should definitely listen and takes his woman's opinions seriously, but he should make the final call on it. If it's love, he will not deny her of things that are going to fulfill her needs and desires. A man may not be near as sensitive to things and does tend to be a little more hard headed, but that's not such a bad thing. A woman feels and senses things more (woman's intuition) and is more easily persuaded. I would NOT want a leader who was constantly changing their mind...but neither would I want one who is not going to take the opinions of others, weigh the facts carefully, and stick to his decision. Not to say you can NOT ever change your mind. Situations change too...and we are ALL wrong on occasion. Don't forget to stop and ask for directions at times. :)
2006-10-13 10:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by Michali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather be somewhere down the middle. Yeah, I know...sounds like a cop-out, but I'm going to explain why. I happen to be of the school that thinks that a woman should follow her man as LONG AS he is doing the right thing by their relationship/household, and as long as he is being a GOOD man. So, it's perfectly okay for him to take the lead most times. However, there may be times where I have more information or experience than him in a certain area, and I NEED to take the lead...I will do so at this point. However, I would prefer for us to be on equal footing, so it's not really a control issue, it just becomes the way our relationship flows. Now someone mentioned the bedroom...well, that's different. ;) But, I remain silent on that part of it.
2006-10-13 17:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Submissive
2006-10-13 16:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the actual relationship? Equal.
In the bedroom? Submissive.
2006-10-13 16:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a healthy relationship the male is suppose to be the head of the household and the female his partner...not his doormat. this of course applies to marriage, yet why just wait and be totally youre own complaining self having to have it your way..and the next attempt being a submissive wife? think it works? honestly youre wrong and silly for thinking so.
to have a healthy continual relationship the man should respect and love his partner more than himself...and the woman should be a guidance to him..but allowing him to make the final decisions
2006-10-13 16:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by TheMaverick.The Artist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lead role. Whenever the man gets control he's sure to ruin and kill the relationship.
2006-10-13 16:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather have the lead role.
2006-10-13 16:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in relationships its not about "lead roles" and "submissiveness"...its about equal partnership, you have to trust one another and be willing to accept each other as they are, and be willing to give and take....otherwise there is no relationship.
2006-10-13 16:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by ne_patriots2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More of a submissive role,HOWEVER, I wouldnt tolerate abuse or my husband out often,Im still his wife,he belongs here but as long as he treats me well,and he does,I prefer him to be dominant,Its sexy!
2006-10-13 16:52:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your gonna have a meaningful relationship then it has to be 50/50. a relationship is something people work at together.
2006-10-13 16:52:37 · answer #10 · answered by It's a secret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋