I am nice to them if i play out a conversation in my head or if I talk to girls I am nice. I also dont have lots of guy-friends. sooo any ideas.
2006-10-13 09:51:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe guys intimidate you so you beat them to the punch by being rude. Just a guess.
2006-10-13 09:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably just like this girl that I like. And yes, you are probably intimidating. Guys will not stand to be picked on by girls, so anytime a girl does something mean it is a turnoff. I'm not trying to criticize you, though. I'm only making this point to give you a reason to stop being mean. If its a joke, MAKE SURE it is very lighthearted and won't hurt anybody's feelings.
Just convince yourself that you are a nice girl and start to act on it. Be sociable and start talking to a lot of guys. The more guys you are seen talking to, the more guys will want to talk to you. Just be nice to (almost) everyone and you're golden.
2006-10-13 16:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are a bit afraid there. Just treat them as you would if they were a girl but hold off recommending the best lipsticks to them. Remember guys have feelings too and they want to be accepted as much as you do. Smile at them and be nice. Listen to what they are saying and say what YOU really mean to say when talking to them.
2006-10-13 16:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like part of you is actually afraid to have a relationship with a guy. As soon as someone approaches you, this defense mechanism surfaces. If you're lonely, this will certainly cause you unhappiness. I suggest you take some quiet time off and really think about what that might be. What is it, exactly, that you're afraid of?
2006-10-13 16:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a boy comes up to you try to be nice. Guys might like you if you are nice. There is a girl at my school who annoys boys and the boys don't like it. You might get a lot of boyfriends that way!
2006-10-13 16:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the most important trait would be a nice smile. A nice smile says alot to a guy. It makes it much easier for him to approach and it'll make him alot more at ease. Which would help your situation.
2006-10-13 16:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah quit being some mean to boys....i think you're just afaid of them so you try to scare them off. It's probably the whole sex thing and feelings you never felt before blah blah blah. try to be nice and realize they have feelings just like you. U R probably giving them a complex too.
2006-10-13 16:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not being mean. Mean is intimidating.
If you're being sarcastic in a joking way, you need to do something to let them know you are interested in them. Keep eye contact, smile, make physical contact (bump them, nudge them, touch arm, etc.).
That's assuming you can't just not be mean ;)
2006-10-13 16:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a smile usually helps people look less intimidating, and a simple hello - be careful with the guys your smilling at though
2006-10-13 16:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by LOFT1009 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being mean. You may have some type of vibe or persona you put out there that makes you seem b-tchy.
2006-10-13 16:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋