Family & Relationships - 13 October 2006

I was with a guy for about 6 months when I dumped him because of how possessive and controlling and jealous he was. There were times when he told me he would kill me if I left him and he even got a bit physical when I would annoy or anger him. He would pinch me when we were infront of others to let me know that I was making him mad. And I know alot of you are thinking,"What a stupid girl". But you have NO idea how hard it is to leave a guy like this when he is trying so hard to get me back and wont leave me alone. I have been trying to work things out with him for the past couple months.. and it seems almost like we are still together. In a couple months. It would have been our one year. Now there is another guy in the picture that I am very attracted to and I think he may be attracted to me as well. He is sweet and cute. And just seems like a really great guy. But I dont know how to get out of this situation with my ex. **Read my details. I need more room.**

2006-10-13 18:43:04 · 12 answers · asked by y0ur_l0ve_is_suicide 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

it's really beautiful and hard to love

2006-10-13 18:42:34 · 7 answers · asked by candygirl 1 in Friends

2006-10-13 18:42:16 · 4 answers · asked by mmrjat2001 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to give my 23 year-old bf a gift but don't know what is the best gift for a guy his age. what's the gift most men want to receive from their gf's? help please

2006-10-13 18:40:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I grew up in a rural community where divorce was non existant. My mother was widowed twice, divorced twice, and had various affairs. We grew up on welfare in a middle class neighborhood. I resented my mother and made it a point not to follow in her footsteps. So I played down my appearance and became a loner.

Now, 20 years later, I am a 37 year old housewife/nursing student with no friends. My 39 year old husband is also friendless, and the two of us have very little to talk about at the end of the day.

Where do I begin to make online friendships? Should I even do it? What if I make some really great men friends. Would that be problematic?

2006-10-13 18:39:48 · 20 answers · asked by ineedonebuddy 3 in Friends

i liked this girl i knew her since early of this year. i walked her home a few times already. but recently i waited for her everyday after school and walk her home. when walking with her. i can feel that she's shy and doesnt really talk to me at all except when i ask her questions.
yesterday, a disaster happen. i waited for her again after school but she didnt appear. i went in and look around. then i saw her. i followed her to the door expecting to walk her home. she stopped at the door and the conversation is like this..
Me = Hi, where ya goin?
She = Iam goin that way
Me = Owh, so u doesnt go back home yet..
She = Ya.. (muttered) sorry...
Me = No, its ok.. so see ya later
She = Ok
Then she went with her friends. i really like it when she stopped and tell me that i cant walk her home. but it seems stupid after thinking abt it again. bcoz she seems to know that i wanna walk her home everyday and she feels awkward (maybe) and scared thats why she said sorry, rite?Wat shud I DO?

2006-10-13 18:38:55 · 8 answers · asked by WM 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 18:38:21 · 14 answers · asked by understandingwittylady 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 18:36:59 · 24 answers · asked by pacific_whales 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-13 18:36:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

troll, wizzard, witch vampire, ghost, demon?

I would be a vampire

2006-10-13 18:34:55 · 10 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Friends

Many attractive girls are tired of sitting in sports bars or dating on line or even trying to look cute while sweating in a gym. Wouldnt it be great if all the NICE NON criminal, non crazy, job having men would just answer this question..so we can ladies can pick them up...lol

2006-10-13 18:34:28 · 13 answers · asked by KA 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 18:34:11 · 20 answers · asked by bob 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 18:33:48 · 23 answers · asked by Shorti 1 in Singles & Dating

im getin married soon what are some tips on a happy marriage

2006-10-13 18:33:46 · 9 answers · asked by redants 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So this guy I know calls me "pretty cute" and "pretty attractive." He calls some other girl "pretty hot."

What's the difference? Is one more sexualized (the hot one)? Is one more based on the face or what...

2006-10-13 18:32:26 · 10 answers · asked by Harvard Student 1 in Singles & Dating

I hadn't been treated the way a husband had suppose to the treated. She always say I didn't love her but married her for her house. which isn't true. I was the only one working in the household and paying all the bills after 3 yrs she gets a job and I still payed all the bills not askiing her for any of her money, for her to spend it the way she wanted too. I only ask for money once when I was behind on a bill, But she always say that I owe her. To me when you are married . We are suuppose to have each otheer. we Both are christians, we both Love God. But I don't want to be last on her list for love . What should I do ?

2006-10-13 18:32:14 · 7 answers · asked by David M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

couples have sex? I always thought it was everynight, but then talking to married couples I heard it was ALOT less. So whats a round-a-bout?

2006-10-13 18:31:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known and absolutely liked this one guy at my middle school since 2nd grade. I remember in 3rd grade he told me he likes me but didn't have the guts to say I liked him back. And now since I'm in an advanced class I'm not sure if he likes or even knows me anymore and I want to ask him out. He's teased me a few times this year, but is that considered a flirt?So how can I ask him out??? And I don't want to embarass myself, and I'm kind of shy.

2006-10-13 18:30:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been going out with this guy for about a year and he moved to another country over the summer. it has been tough and we are getting through. everyone is telling me that it wont work. but i really like him. how long do you think it will last?

2006-10-13 18:29:45 · 16 answers · asked by Frozen_Time 1 in Singles & Dating

my bff's parents are going to split up and before summer she is going to move and im scared cuz we have been friends since we were 4 and we are 14 and if i lose her i lost like all of my child hood and im scared cuz she is moving to the other side of the contry and im freaking out. I have other friends but i will feel alone. with no1 to tell everything 2. my question is how do i deal with this.

2006-10-13 18:29:03 · 8 answers · asked by Love Is Suicide 2 in Friends

Before I got married I used make my girl friend take off her panties and put on a dress when I would come over, she would act like I was degrading her and she would really get angry, she is real fine and it made feel good to make her give in to me. I could tell she would be nervous and partly angry waiting for me to make my move. I would tease her before I would take her. Was I wrong.

2006-10-13 18:28:38 · 5 answers · asked by bigslick60 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sweet Dreams

I want this girl can’t you see
How much she means to me
And I can’t get her hard as I try
But my feelings for her will never die

I just wish I could get the chance
To take her to one last dance
So I’ll pray now to the man up above
To spend one night with the girl I love

(Chorus)
Many chances I have had
None end good all end bad
But if I could get that one night
I would make everything right
I’d give the world to this girl
Diamonds, clothes, jewelry, and pearls
Do anything to see her smile
To have a chance
I must be in denial

Somehow I passed the test
Asked her out and she said yes
Perfect is how it has to be
If not then she’ll forget about me

Eight p.m. rolls around
I pick her up for a night on the town
Walk up and knock on the door
It opens up and the crowd starts to roar

She’s so beautiful it’s almost painful
Cause I’m in love with an angel
She’s perfect: smart, funny, and kind
I could stare at her till the end of time

(Chorus 2x)

Now it’s time to take her home
Ignore the calls that I get on my phone
Spend as much time with her as I can
Because a chance like this will never happen again

She says what a good time she had
I reply it wasn’t half bad
And in for the kiss I lean
That’s when I wake…
Up from my dream

2006-10-13 18:27:58 · 12 answers · asked by Zach S 1 in Singles & Dating

I know a couple of dudes that are totally whipped! Their women control their lives like they are little kids and they have no back bone what so ever! I love my girl to death but she wouldn't even attempt to control me cause she know's i'm not having it! I just wonder why some guys put up with that? I've asked my friends that are whipped and they really don't have a good answer. I think it's funny when a man acts like a little boy! Someone shed some light on this for me!

2006-10-13 18:27:47 · 11 answers · asked by Cool Breeze 2 in Friends

Why would someone want to expose themselves to others?

Whats the turn on?

2006-10-13 18:27:35 · 2 answers · asked by lickmemel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with this guy 10 more months ago. We dated for 11 months, then he dumped me. We had a lot of arguments and he said he couldn't take our relationship anymore. After breaking up I tried to talk to him, but he wouldn't. Now I'm moving on. I deleted his e-mail address. so I don't know when he is on line messenger. When I was on line he talk to me on the messenger. He just asked me about his composition, kinda homework. We didn't talk anything about us. I knew he doesn't delete my e-mail address. why did he ask me? cuz I was on line? he didn't have any friends he can ask? or what? why doesn't he delete my address yet? Do guys delete their ex's e-mail address? i really don't know what guys think about their ex.....

2006-10-13 18:27:28 · 6 answers · asked by siena 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 18:27:13 · 5 answers · asked by michelle i 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend who i really like. she knows i like her. i asked her out a yera ago and she said no. we have grown close since then. i wanna ask her out again but i doubt she wants a bf in her life right now. i know she wouldnt mind having just a hook up buddy. knowing that do u think i should ask her out again or just try kissing her?

2006-10-13 18:26:14 · 8 answers · asked by greg J 1 in Singles & Dating

i HAVE BEEN WiTH A GUY FOR GOiNG ON A YEAR. AND THERE iS THiS GUY i GO TO SCHOOL WiTH WHO i AM VERY MUCH ATTRACTED TO. HE iS EXTREMELLY CUTE..HE SEEMS REALLY SWEET AND FUNNY.. AND iM ALMOST POSiTiVE HE iS ATTRACTED TO ME AS WELL. BUT. THE ONLY PROBLEM IS.. MY BOYFRiEND. WE BROKE UP A COUPLE MONTHS AGO.. BUT WE HAVE BEEN TRYiNG TO WORK THiNGS OUT. i BROKE UP WiTH HiM BECAUSE OF HiS POSSESiVENESS.. JEALOUSiNESS.. AND SOME OTHER THiNGS i WONT MENTiON. i DONT KNOW THiS NEW GUY THAT WELL.. BUT i WOULD LOVE TO GET TO KNOW HiM BETTER. WOULD GETTiNG HiS NUMBER AND TALKiNG TO HiM MORE MAKE ME A BAD PERSON?? i THiNK HiM AND i COULD POSSiBLY HAVE SOMETHiNG EXCiTiNG.. BUT i DONT KNOW MUCH ABOUT HiM TO MAKE THAT KiND OF DECiSiON. iF MY EX KNEW ABOUT THiS, HE WOULD FREAK OUT. i CANT REALLY TALK TO HiM ABOUT THiNGS LiKE THiS. THERES SO MUCH MORE i WOULD LiKE TO SAY ABOUT THiS SiTUATiON BUT i DONT HAVE MUCH MORE ROOM. :-( pLEASE HELP ME THOUGH. i NEED ADViSE!

2006-10-13 18:26:01 · 7 answers · asked by y0ur_l0ve_is_suicide 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if someone likes them??

2006-10-13 18:24:52 · 6 answers · asked by autumnbrookblue 4 in Singles & Dating

If there was this girl who had all the qualities you look for in a wife or longterm relationship but you dont feel sexually attracted to her at all in fact you feel a slight repugnance do you call the marriage of or do you go ahead and marry hoping that this slight repugnance would go away with time.In other words how important is sex for marriage.Should you choose a girl who really turns you on or sacrifice that for a good person.

2006-10-13 18:24:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships