I know a couple of dudes that are totally whipped! Their women control their lives like they are little kids and they have no back bone what so ever! I love my girl to death but she wouldn't even attempt to control me cause she know's i'm not having it! I just wonder why some guys put up with that? I've asked my friends that are whipped and they really don't have a good answer. I think it's funny when a man acts like a little boy! Someone shed some light on this for me!
2006-10-13 18:27:47 · 11 answers · asked by Cool Breeze 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know some guys like that myself. I love and respect my baby just like any other man should, but i don't let her boss me around and tell me what i can and can't do. I feel as a grown man, you should be able to make your own decisions. Like if i want to go after work and have a beer with one of my buddies, then i'll do that. I'll call her first but that's out of respect just to let her know i'll be late so she won't be worrying. That's what your supposed to do in a relationship. But far as her telling me i CAN'T go here or there and i CAN'T do this or that, not happening! Had one mother, don't need another. I really don't know why some guys are like that. All i can say is maybe they are not real men.
2006-10-13 18:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by Pancho 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
What a whole bunch of Whipped Wussies.
We as Real Men Got The D!ck, So We Make The Rules.
2006-10-13 18:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should ever try to control someone! You fell in love with that person for a reason! I think there needs to be a mutal respect of each others wishes,but not control! I know people like that too! And no matter the sex of the person who is being controlled they need to grow a pair!
2006-10-13 18:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by *~BETHY~* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men grew up that way with their mothers. They always made the decisions for them and controlled what they did. So now it's convenient for the man to just let the woman make the decisions. They haven't had to think for themselves, so now they don't know how or don't want to. And then, some men say the woman puts that thang on him so good, he can't tell her no.
2006-10-13 18:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, i don't think anybody should be controlled in a relationship, male or female, because it's really just a sign of insecurity in the person that's controlling. And i don't even want a man that's going to let me walk all over him like a doormat. What kind of man is that? Me and my man have a give&take relationship thats 50-50. I don't control him and he doesn't control me. it's about love, respect, and trust. And relationships that are about control usually don't last all that long because sooner or later the person that's being controlled gets tired of it and wants out.
2006-10-13 19:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
they are not whipped, they have understood the meaning of love and commitment and how to be loyal to the family that they have created. You can only be a bachelor for so long and then...you look like a loser in the bars!
2006-10-13 18:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK well if these guys are getting whipped because of there girlfriends then tell them they need to break up if its getting on there nerves and find somebody who appreciates them!!!!!!!! bu-bye
2006-10-13 18:32:51 · answer #7 · answered by baiinsanity ™ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I blame the feminists. I prefer men to be men. But as far as control goes, no one should "control" anyone.
Sissy males are definitely not my cup of tea. Keep acting like a man, please.
2006-10-13 18:55:25 · answer #8 · answered by aprilandroland 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my g/f controls mine but that does not make me any smaller than a person who just does not understand . 6'1' i plat football with the other guys hurt some and get hurt some just love my g/f
2006-10-13 18:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by k dog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they need to grow some balls and stand up for them selves, my wife doesnt tell me what to do nor do i tell her what to do
2006-10-13 18:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by someone_you_wish_you_knew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋