Family & Relationships - 9 October 2006

I've recently moved to this area, and I like this guy I'm playing music with, and I'm pretty sure he likes me, too, but I have unknowingly maneuvered myself into a position that is making me uncomfortable. We are really attracted to each other--this much I know, but things are unspoken and haven't really taken off because he has a girlfriend he has never mentioned, and because I was too distracted getting settled here to keep my eyes out. I picked up on enough signals, though, that I was prompted to do my research, and I recently went to a concert when I was able to see him holding hands with her. Problem is, we have also become good friends and are dealing with all of the rudimenary problems of a beginning relationship as a metaphor to the musical relationship. I want to scream sometimes, it is so insane!! How do I start to break down the wall and get some resolution on this without ruining out very solid musical relationship and without arguing???

2006-10-09 16:09:15 · 10 answers · asked by Leandra P 1 in Singles & Dating

6 foot 2 inches good ?
(187cm)
less ? ?
more? ?

what height do you prefer your guy to be ?

2006-10-09 16:09:15 · 35 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a FULL believer in "livng in sin". I feel that the only way you can truly KNOW a person inside and out, you have to actaully live together for a while. Think about it, if you marry a person and then move in with them, what if you find out that you cannot stand your partner? Then you have a real expensive divorce plus all that money wasted on a wedding. To me it seems more economical and less hassel, both parties can just walk away. Now if living together is successful, then all the more to look forward to when the wedding comes along. I wonder why a romatically involved couple living together before marriage is still considered Taboo to some extent. Any thoughts are welcome! Thanks

2006-10-09 16:09:08 · 19 answers · asked by Easter Bunny 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-09 16:07:49 · 10 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 16:06:37 · 10 answers · asked by coping/ letting go 2 in Family

Well my best friend from last year always picks on me and makes fun of me and excludes me from things. Then on Friday me and my four friends were walking home from school and my friend Liz picked a flower and said, "let's give it to the person we love the most" and she handed it to me and then my other friends started laughing hysterically. Then today my friend told me that my shoes were dirty and she said, "You're so perfect but your shoes are dirty." I asked my other friend that i don't hang out with why they were acting this way and she said, "Well probably they're just jealous that you're the prettiest one and that you are a straight A student because you are the nicest person I know" I think she's exagerating, well do you think my friends hate me?

2006-10-09 16:06:29 · 11 answers · asked by Alesig 3 in Friends

i have a problem with one of my friends he told a girl that i like her because he knew it would get to me and when i asked him why he told her he said he thought it was funny
he is a jerk what should i do about this i know i can't change him unless he want's to and any advice on how to mend the relationship between me and the girl that i like

2006-10-09 16:06:20 · 5 answers · asked by tjgamer70000 1 in Friends

2006-10-09 16:06:09 · 10 answers · asked by Angry 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 16:05:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok i am a Native American, and it seems like girls dont like me because of it, so i have to know for all the girls, "Would you date a Native American?"

2006-10-09 16:05:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so yeah i was just wanderin how you get over a person that you have dated for the last 3 yrs.

2006-10-09 16:04:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 16:04:27 · 7 answers · asked by Stephanie A. 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend Jon claims he is not gay, but hes dated both sexes. he is from flordia and he cliams that it is ok in flordia where he is from but in Texas its kinda weird. he is also really "flamboyant" , like he has strightened my hair.

2006-10-09 16:03:58 · 13 answers · asked by lizzy r 2 in Friends

2006-10-09 16:03:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MAYBE THE GORILLAZ,OR LINKING PARK,I CANT MAKE UP MY MIND.I WANT MY WEDDING TO BE SPECIAL AND I CANT MAKE UP MY MIND ABOUT THE MUSIC FOR MY RECEPTION.

2006-10-09 16:03:27 · 11 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Weddings

when u like a girl do u like her forever or do u just stop liking her all of a sudden. See this guy and i were really good friends and he gave me his # and we talked alot but now he works alot so i dont get a chance to call him and we've lost touch..so if we dont talk like we use to does that mean he doesnt like me. Or does he like me, bc on the phone he said that he was only shy around girls he likes is he being shy?

2006-10-09 16:02:55 · 8 answers · asked by sweet18apparatus 4 in Singles & Dating

Ladies don't immediately say no. Think about this. The way I look at females...they want what they can't have (or really have to work for). So I've decided that I make myself more attractive to girls by doing less (kinda). Girls: by talking to you once or twice a day, is your interest not sparked? By talking to 10 girls once or twice a day, is your drive to go after me not enflamed?

Note: I am a senior in high school. Girls like me. But, none of them seem to be interested in a relationship (and the ones that do, have boyfriends ironically). This is why I'm asking the question. Is my strategy only good for hookups? Is it good for nothing? Will it pay off in the long run (sometime this year)?

2006-10-09 16:02:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i reallly like this guy at school...but i honestly cant tell if he likes me or not..
he always makes a move when he is drunk..but in real life he acts like we are just friends...he told my brother that he thought i was hot, and all my friends thinks he likes me, but i want to know, because i dont know how to make a move eaither

2006-10-09 16:02:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there was only one thing I asked my girl to never do to me, and that was lie. I don't care how bad the truth was, I'll get over it. Just don't LIE!!! We have been dating for two years now. I heard her phone ring at 3 am like three months ago, so I looked to see who it was. It was some dude named don! I was pissed! She said that he was an old friend and had a question about his girl. I asked her to have him stop calling, especially at 3 am. She agreed. Two days ago I saw that she was talking to him on myspace. Nothing sexual, but still. I confronted her about it and it turns out they used to date. She lied before and said they didn't. I don't know what to believe now because I caught her in a lie. What should I do? I love her, but I don't want her to walk all over me. HELP!

2006-10-09 16:00:41 · 22 answers · asked by B man 2 in Singles & Dating

i call him, we talk for hours, then he says he gonna call back and he never does. That makes me so mad. So i just go out. When i check the called ID when i get home, his number isnt on at all. I'm starting to hate his ***. I mean, he used to call when he said he would, but now, he doesnt. Im a an attrctaive girl, im smart, and i have respect. But i dont know whats the problem. Help me!

2006-10-09 16:00:17 · 17 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 15:59:05 · 6 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Weddings

This summer I cheated on my bf and then we brokeup. I don't feel heartbroken and I don't know why. Do u think God is trying to tell me something b/c the guy I cheated on my bf with never comes outside at 6:30 a.m. And I never see him. Then I had a weird dream my door way is blocked by alot of guys that have crush's on me and in the middle of my lawn is my ex bf so I run to him and try to give him a hug then he pulls away from me and says "Steph u hurt me and I still love you". Do u think God is trying to tell me something and the dream was in colour.

2006-10-09 15:58:38 · 3 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

I am 39 and still single. Whenever I run into old boyfriends, ex-fiances, love interests from years ago, at some point in the conversation he will inevitably say I can't believe you're not married! I just knew somebody would have snatched you up. . .something to that effect. After years of this I have decided that this is code for something, but what? The guy usually brings this up

2006-10-09 15:58:36 · 8 answers · asked by shugabuns 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I really like this guy Mike and he kind of likes me too.We have gone out once and I used him but now I regret it and want to go back out with him!I know I love him with all my heart but how do I get him to go back out with me????

2006-10-09 15:58:29 · 3 answers · asked by Brittany 2 in Singles & Dating

Is this normal?

2006-10-09 15:58:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 15:58:01 · 28 answers · asked by pink79 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if your fiance asked that you not have private strippers at your bachelor party, and you told her there wouldn't be any there, would you respect that? Would you make sure your best man knew and followd through?

2006-10-09 15:57:59 · 4 answers · asked by FaerieWhings 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

cannot do it in the Middle East

2006-10-09 15:57:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he also didn't tell me about it.or i wouldn't be mad. he told her to keep her chin up and he would call her tomorrow.

2006-10-09 15:57:16 · 13 answers · asked by torenzane 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the reason i ask is i believe i love my boyfriend but a lot of people say its just puppy love...i dont want to think that what it is so how do you know??

2006-10-09 15:56:36 · 8 answers · asked by Constance 1 in Singles & Dating