i have a problem with one of my friends he told a girl that i like her because he knew it would get to me and when i asked him why he told her he said he thought it was funny
he is a jerk what should i do about this i know i can't change him unless he want's to and any advice on how to mend the relationship between me and the girl that i like
2006-10-09 16:06:20 · 5 answers · asked by tjgamer70000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If I understand this right. He told the girl that you liked that you like her,Right. If that is so whats the problem besides the fact that he probaly should not have interfered. The end still supports the means another words the girl already nows that you like her and is probaly flattered and just think that you are a little shy, Which most girls Love in a guy it shows that they are human. Now, to tell your friend, maybe he needs you to do the same to him you can always "ask him" like" hey Joe you want me to tell jill that you have a crush on her. That should stop him real fast
2006-10-09 16:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by lagies mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the girl out of it. You don't want to hurt her feelings by telling her it was part of a joke. I would continue on as before. It's not her fault your friend is a jerk. Maybe the friend really likes her??? But like I wrote before, leave her out of it. You don't want to be known as a jerk too. Good luck.
2006-10-09 23:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by Bexcy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just talk to this girl and see what happens and tell her you have a unfeeling friend and he doesnt know how to keep his mouth shut. Maybe she might like you too and things will work out between you and that girl. Good luck
2006-10-09 23:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should come clean with her and let her know that you do like her.....as for ur friend, its as simple as: dont tell him any more secrets that u dont want out. Just bcuz he cant keep secrets doesnt mean that hes a terrible person. All you've got to do is keep those personal things to yourself.
2006-10-09 23:13:31 · answer #4 · answered by ๑The Goddess๑ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet you that she's flattered that you like her
Just talk to her and see what happens
2006-10-09 23:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by Alesig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋