he also didn't tell me about it.or i wouldn't be mad. he told her to keep her chin up and he would call her tomorrow.
2006-10-09 15:57:16 · 13 answers · asked by torenzane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your feelings are valid. The fact that he lied about it would be enough to make anyone angry. Besides, his ex and her issues are no longer his concern. I suggest u be firm with him when explaining what u will and won't tolerate when it comes to his ex. And if he respects u and your marriage, he should do his best to stay away from her.
2006-10-09 16:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad. But my husband and I don't have the greatest marriage. But why does she need him don't most women go to other women for support. they are not together anymore they should have the type of relationship where if they happen to run into each other at the mall or some other place they would say hi and move along. Unless of course there are children involved. that's a whole different thing.
2006-10-09 23:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by Kathy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? OF course I would be mad! If she was over him, she would want him to think that she was happy and livin it up without him!! Same to him.. If I got a call from my x, I would be like huh?? What the crap are you calling me for? Ive done moved on,why would I want to know about your personal life.. Girl,I would definetley stop this..now! I would confront him with these details saying if there wasnt anything there,then why would you be conversing,theres something more goin on,Girl protect yourself,its not innocent,let him know youre smarter than that,and demand truth! Stand your ground,and lay down the law,Thats YOUR man,you are the only woman supposed to be coming to him for advice and comfort!
2006-10-09 23:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by luv2bawifenmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be mad too if he didn't tell me about it. But he probbaly didn't tell you because he was scared that your would get really mad at him. Some guys tend to stay friends with their Exs and the really bothers us girls. But justl ike how over time we get over the fact that one of the guys that we hang out with was once our boyfriend. Just give hi ma little bit a of trust but keep updated with what their talking about. Because Exs tend to run to their Ex lovers when they have men problems to be the 3rd wheel. So watch out and keep a close eye on this tramp.
2006-10-09 23:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by Liliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys I know that are divorced (including myself) would rather tie a pair of rabid weasels to their balls before getting frisky with their exs again. So if that is what you are worried about, don't be. Just TALK to him and ask him to be more open and don't act like you will freak out over little stuff like that.
2006-10-09 23:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be mad. Why should he care about her and her boyfriends problems. I think you need to sit down and have a talk with him. He needs to tell her not to call but if they have kids then its a different story but she still shouldn't be calling and telling your hubby about her problems. Good luck!
2006-10-09 22:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely be mad! He doesn't need to be calling her, and the fact that he didn't tell you makes it more suspicious. I'm sure she has a girl friend she can talk to and I'd imagine there's only one reason why she'd want to talk to her ex! Happened to me before-not good!
2006-10-09 23:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course you have the right to be mad.. and if he don't agree..obviously there are still feelings he's not telling you about give him an ultimatum to stop these games with your feelings she's a big girl get her own boyfriend did someone help her get him? if so well she's older know he's yours know DEAL WITH IT.. he's mine you may of had him once but now i got him all the time...
2006-10-09 23:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by your name here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be mad, his ex is a part of his past, when you married him you married the entire package and that includes his past, IF you love him then you must be able to accept his past and know that he comes with "baggage".
2006-10-09 23:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think is Ex does not need to ask YOUR Husband when she has Man Problems and he should make that clear to her.
2006-10-09 23:01:14 · answer #10 · answered by lousylaus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋