Family & Relationships - 6 October 2006

i love this gal but she doesn't know about my feelings. i just have 3 weeks before the class in which we two are studying together ends. plz help. 10 points to the one whose formula works

2006-10-06 19:20:47 · 5 answers · asked by karan s 3 in Singles & Dating

I want the letter to have everything on it, love, passion, sexyness, crazyness a lot of everything.

2006-10-06 19:20:46 · 6 answers · asked by Liz 3 in Singles & Dating

my bf calls himself 'racialist' and i'm sure most of you know what that means. But he's so perfect in every other way...he has such high standards and he's a great speaker, a real leader. Could this just be a phase? All boys go through their nietzche patch (so my dad tells me). I don't want to stop seeing him, but I'm afraid it will get out of hand.

2006-10-06 19:19:15 · 8 answers · asked by venusinfursinfers 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm just wondering how many women out there would admit if they have a jealousy problem. I used to get really mad if me and my husband were out together and I saw him check out other women. Thank God I'm not like that anymore. What causes women to think they are less than?

2006-10-06 19:19:09 · 8 answers · asked by Leaving on a jetplane 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am a guy and i am almost 16. ive fallen for my best girl whos a friend. ive liked her for the last 2 years and its been alright. i am a sohpmore. 8th grade i really found out how chill this girl was and i started talking to a lot and by the end of the year we were pretty tight,
Then 9th grade come along. Her boyfriend cheated on her on a school retreat at a beach and at the beach bonfire, i was her shoulder to cry on. I probably could have told her my true feelings that i had fallen for her but instead i was there just to listen to her vent and be there for her. I was just being a good friend and i put my feelings for her aside to help her out.
Every since then, i have been getting deeper and deeper into this " Friends Zone". i used to be fun and outgoing around her but now i am kind of shy and boring around her. I dont get what has happened, but i think i have given up my love for her because i think deep down i know that it really will never happen.

Any advice anyone?

2006-10-06 19:18:06 · 11 answers · asked by brian f 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 19:17:50 · 1 answers · asked by QuiteNewHere 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok...there is a guy that I met last week in my class and he talked to me suddenly about his gf (they broke u that day) and he wanted my opinion as someone who doesn't know him/ his gf...when he told me about everything...it seemed to me that his gf was an innocent and I told him to get back to her...and he did! we are sooooo close now, he even told me that he owes me so much for this and i'm his best friend now...but since we're so close...i kinda have a crush on him...i dont want to cuz we're studying together all week and he talk about everything...i'm not that kinda person who tries to steal anyone's bf...but what do u think?what should i do? i dont wanna tell him cuz he's a great guy...and i dont him to leave me for this...but i'm confused..it's not a good feeling though

2006-10-06 19:16:09 · 6 answers · asked by /\/ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

look i got some money and can take care of myself and whoever im with, but i just dont understand the things women say or do sometimes! i mean it is always about who has this or that and ..........cmon ladies cant u get ur own sh i t and not worry about everybody else?

2006-10-06 19:14:49 · 31 answers · asked by thesilkysmoove 1 in Singles & Dating

I am going to ask a few questions.. and i would be happy if no one said Too young or stuff like that unless you think it is realy nessisary.

First some information.
1)i dont know the girl very well
2) i am shy
3)It will be my first girlfriend
4)we are both in grade 10

now the questions;
1)how should i get to know her before i ask her out...im shy ad i dont know here well?
2)After getting to know her what is a good way of leading to and asking her out...?
3)After asking her out where should i take her on our first date...?
4)When sould we have our first kiss?

i know opinions may vary but i will be glad if you even give alittle bit of help...

thanks

2006-10-06 19:14:34 · 9 answers · asked by Dark-soul 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee has this classmate who has a thing for him. He has told her that he has a fiancee and not at all interested. He even brought me to his evening class once just so she can get the hint that he is simply taken and really NOT interested.. She is still persistent and very bothersome.. Just on a side note, we're college students so this isn't a highschool thing.. In fact I'm a college grad so this seems ridiclulous.. What, if anything do I do here? On another side note, the girl is butt freakin' unattractive.. not that it matters :-)

2006-10-06 19:13:18 · 14 answers · asked by KIm Z 3 in Singles & Dating

Theres tihs guy in my class. And i like him a lot. One day my best friend told him that i like him!!! Right know he's being all goofy, nice ,funny, and abit shy around me. And he's also been trying to get my attention a lot!!!!! Does he like me ? Is he crushing on me?

2006-10-06 19:12:38 · 6 answers · asked by pearl LISD 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so I'm not thinking I'm unattractive etc. used to do modelling etc. I just find that I am never approached by men unless they are two (actually 10) sheets to the wind - I don't know what to do to become more approachable, I'm friendly, I try but seriously unless I go up to a guy - nothing - I never get guys asking me out. Do I come across as a snob/unavailable? I'm sooooo not but I never get asked out.

2006-10-06 19:12:19 · 12 answers · asked by Reddish_black 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 19:11:04 · 12 answers · asked by RN806 3 in Friends

2006-10-06 19:10:51 · 5 answers · asked by slutbobpussy 1 in Singles & Dating

My son and daughter-in-law are sleeping with a 15 year old girl, whom my d-i-l had to talk my son into letting her stay with them. They are having bad marital problems and the d-i-l is very violent. They have two children, whom I am worried about the most. My son is trying to get his wife to sign over custody to me, she has agreed but it cost more than we can afford. My son's wife has threatened to kill him and has tried a couple of times. I worry that because of the 15 year old and his wife violent tendencies, they will get the children taken away and I will not be able to see them. I have been the major caregiver of the kids since they have been born. One is 7 and the other is 1. I have invested a lot of time and energy into the children and I homeschool the 7 year old. He is doing outstanding work, but all the fighting its taking its toll on him. I just want to do everything I can do to protect him and his sister. What should I do?

2006-10-06 19:10:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

OK just for the run down of tings let me tell ya! I have been married for 11 yrs. When we 1st got married things were really up and down. we fought like cats and dogs...he would call me names and we would litterly fight. I ventured off and cheated on him and left him for a period of 1 year. during that year he also had girl friends. He fell and had an accident and that made me realize that I wanted to be with him because I loved him. now. we have been back together for 4 1/2 yrs but the problem is, anything I do Its all wrong. Im loosing weight and walking with a friend every night (a girl) and he accuses me of cheating,acting different, and he always says we have no marriage. He says im acting different but Im really not. I just want MY TIME. any thing that I do, like I said, IS WRONG. he calles me names and throws fits throwing things and such Its always my fault. He just always assumes thing and most of the time there not true....what should I do? I lay in the bed @ night and wonder

2006-10-06 19:10:12 · 13 answers · asked by HUM... ??? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend have been living together for 5 months - been together for 9months.

I can truely say I can see my future with him. However still after all this time, he still hasn't said he loves me. He knows I love him... I've told him several times. But I don't say it as much as I would like because it hurts saying it and not hearing it back.

I'm just wondering if maybe I've rushed into love? And he is on course or should he be stepping it up a notch by now!?

He's told me he can see us getting married and wants our relationship... but why can't he say he loves me? I do everything in my power to show him my love.. am I doing enough?

2006-10-06 19:09:59 · 12 answers · asked by InnerBeauty28 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-06 19:08:16 · 1 answers · asked by Ramin 1 in Friends

Mmkay, there are so many of these, but I'm just wonderin'. Kk, i'm only in 9th grade, but theres this reaaally hot guy n @ the dance 2day he would dance w/ almost evry grl but wen he came 2 me he'd like..walk away. we alwayz make eye contact tho n we talk @ least once a day. n he's really nice. well...duz he?

2006-10-06 19:07:59 · 5 answers · asked by heyy i'm retarded 1 in Singles & Dating

there is a guy in one of my classes that i like. He might like me but i am to shy to ask him if he does. The other day in class he asked me a question and i had a migrane and i wasn't really up to answering his question with out an attitude. I think that made he a little ill tempered towards me. He normally talked to me about class stuff and before class started he would always ask me how i was ( and he would also do that after lunch 2) and after i had gotten an attitude with him it stopped. It was almost like he was looking for an excuse to talk to me. i guess i have a few questions :
1. does/did he like me?
2. if he does i am to shy to ask him out, so what should i do?
3. should i just put my pride on the line and ask him if he likes me?
HELP ME- Curios Georgette

2006-10-06 19:07:08 · 7 answers · asked by Angel Eyes 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 19:06:17 · 12 answers · asked by angela 2 in Singles & Dating

How do I stop this without putting my daughter in the center. If this woman was a school teacher, pier or just a stranger on the street I would stop this behaviour yet as my daughters step mother I am unable do anything.

Please help

2006-10-06 19:06:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i met this guy about a month ago that i really like. i'm a soph in high school, and he's a junior at our rival high school. we have so many things in common, from loving the same sports, to so many other things.
whenever we hang out, he's always around me, and when i leave for a few minutes to do something, i come back to find that he was looking for me. he's not clingy though. we have a lot of things to talk about whenever we're together.


but whenever we're not hanging out in person, and i try to reach him through myspace or e-mail, he never responds. it's like he disappears or doesn't want me around or something. i know he has a very busy life, and of course it doesn't revolve around me because we're just friends. does anyone think he's purposely ignoring me, or could it be something else? (maybe he doesn't like to talk online much?)


thank you SO MUCH to whoever gives me a thoughtful answer. this has been on my mind for some time, and i just wanted someone else's input.

2006-10-06 19:05:24 · 14 answers · asked by Valeria 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 19:05:18 · 7 answers · asked by MARGARET B 1 in Family

i am 44 he is 50 we been seeing each other for 20 yrs. sex was great when he was chasing me all those yrs. now we are in a second time committed relationship, living together, the first time we live together was for a yr. I left because he was enoring me and being ruled. after 2yrs I came back to the house we shared to try again. he was over my house all the time ready for sex always had sweet things to say, all was well. two weeks after i moved back he started sleeping on the sofa. after complaining to him why he said it was his blood presure meds. i said okay. now he says i am to big and he has to work to much. so after a month of no sex i told him we need to make love because i am stress. he turns me over and **** me in the ***. now how should i feel about this? I am a attrative women should i put up with this bullshit
i feel he's trying to bring down my spirts? plus i still didn't get what i wanted out of this at all. it was 3mins. what should i do? leave or workitout

2006-10-06 19:04:49 · 11 answers · asked by see123see4 1 in Singles & Dating

My list goes like this.

1. Cheat.
2. Date the village bike.
3. Date a smoker.
4. Pay for everything
5. Get her name tattooed of my arm.
6. Give her a 4,000 ring.
7. Forget her birthday.
8. Forget the date of the frist or date or when u asked her to be urs.
9. Forget the favorite song.
10. Look at her hotter friend.
11. Say another girls name during sex.
12. Telling her she does look fat in her jeans.
13. Calling her crazy.
14. Asked her if shes on the rag.
15. Tell her, her friend is hot.
16. Lie.
17. Forget to call.
18. Leave the toilet seat up.
19. Fall asleep during her favorite movie.
20. Forgeting the condoms.

2006-10-06 19:04:10 · 16 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 19:02:51 · 32 answers · asked by Juan 1 in Singles & Dating

watching the movie fatal attraction and am wondering are there as many affairs today as there were in the 70's seems i used to know lots of people cheating back then but no one today. is it still going on like it was?

2006-10-06 19:02:38 · 10 answers · asked by freedd 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter and her father are bullied by this women, this is straight from my daughters mouth although she as asked my to say nothing as it will only make the time she spends at their house more uncomfortable than it already is. Some of the things this woman has said to my daughter are:

“Your father and I only fight over you, you will be the reason for our divorce”
“You’re selfish and you only think of yourself”
“If you don’t sort things out don’t bother coming back”

And that is not half of it I only have one thousand characters.

None of these comments are said in front of my ex yet I believe he is aware of some of it. Last night I had to speak to her, I rarely call their house as it is usually not necessary. Both my ex and my daughter were for no reason curt and short with there answers while the wife was in the background coaching my daughter on what to say. The phone call was abruptly ended when my daughter was told to get off the phone.
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2006-10-06 19:01:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine keeps trying to please everyone, even at the expense of her own happiness. How can she learn to take care of herself and not try to please everyone all the time?

2006-10-06 19:00:51 · 10 answers · asked by High On Life 5 in Other - Family & Relationships