ok...there is a guy that I met last week in my class and he talked to me suddenly about his gf (they broke u that day) and he wanted my opinion as someone who doesn't know him/ his gf...when he told me about everything...it seemed to me that his gf was an innocent and I told him to get back to her...and he did! we are sooooo close now, he even told me that he owes me so much for this and i'm his best friend now...but since we're so close...i kinda have a crush on him...i dont want to cuz we're studying together all week and he talk about everything...i'm not that kinda person who tries to steal anyone's bf...but what do u think?what should i do? i dont wanna tell him cuz he's a great guy...and i dont him to leave me for this...but i'm confused..it's not a good feeling though
2006-10-06 19:16:09 · 6 answers · asked by /\/ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have got a great image in him & as far as iam concerned pls don't say anything about your crush be calm it may be just an infactuation.If you happened to say anything he may feel cheap about you.A day may come when he feels you more important than his g.f that day he himself will come and propose to you,that day you will know the value of paitence
2006-10-06 19:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You certainly did a great job as a friend by bringing them back together. Being his friend is the best way for you to spend more time with him without putting anything else in jeopardy and being a good friend means knowing your limitations as one.
Seeing him in a more platonic way can scare him away esp given the fact that you know yourself he's happy in his relationship. You will only get hurt more if he tells it in your face that you're fighting a losing battle.
As much as we all know you can't help what you're feeling and you didn't expect it to happen, it will be better if you try to find ways to get over it. Divert your attention and affection to something (perhaps a hobby or any other extra curricular activity) or SOMEONE else. You can try to date as much guys with the same qualities as him who are much available and as a great friend as he is. I always believe there's atleast one for each of us. It just a matter of waiting and knowing when he's the one.
Goodluck! =)
2006-10-07 02:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by kamahalan_12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a good friend, keep him just that way. You may not believe this now, but it is possible to have close friends of the opposite sex without romance getting in the way.
2006-10-07 02:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swallow your crush and ask him if he has a brother or friend because you like his 'type' of guy. Recruit him to be on the lookout for someone for you.
If his relationship doesn't work out, he'll ask you out without you having to come out and say anything.
2006-10-07 02:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be careful, he really liked and trusted you as a friend, and only as that, so don't try to turn things into what they're not....... unless he's giving u a reason to take him in as more than a friend
2006-10-07 02:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sarita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him,,,,,.
2006-10-07 02:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋