look i got some money and can take care of myself and whoever im with, but i just dont understand the things women say or do sometimes! i mean it is always about who has this or that and ..........cmon ladies cant u get ur own sh i t and not worry about everybody else?
2006-10-06 19:14:49 · 31 answers · asked by thesilkysmoove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the dollar bill to a chick is like a fine piece of as$ to us men
2006-10-06 19:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by mr.bill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all women are like that which i am sure you hear alot from women. I think that when you meet the right women then money and nothing else will matter. You havent found her yet but she is out there. Dont let your past exsperice's defeat you, keep them in mind and learn from them, but dont let them jade you against all women. Some men are the exsct same way so there is always the other side of the coin. I am a not so wealthy women who fell in love with a even not so weathy man but we made it work. you will find someone out there for you, dont give up!
2006-10-06 20:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by loverbird20032003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you generalising? I can't even be bothered to get angry with you, I spend most of my time feeling depressed, the only thing I ever wanted was to be happy for once in my life, so maybe my husband will see his wife smile for once.
Why don't you have a heart and stop lumping all women together, you don't know anything about women. And if you have ended up with gold diggers, then maybe you have been looking for the wrong kind of women. Don't blame the rest of us for your personal problems.
And just for the record, my husband and I have equal salaries, but money is really the least important thing on our minds.......
2006-10-06 21:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm it is a state of mind...the laws of attraction if you have the notion that all woman are gold diggers you will so inturn draw this to you. Yes there are gold diggers but there are men that do this too. It depends on the individual. The stronger you are in your boundries and what you want then you won't notice this behavior as much. I am an independant woman and I buy my own stuff and support myself even when I WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP AND IT WAS OFFERED FOR ME TO BE TAKEN CARE OF FINANCIALLY BY HIM...I chose to earn my own dough. We were equal partners. If someone is ever is with someone for money that is misery in the making. Money comes and goes companionship is the true treasure,
2006-10-06 19:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Inquisitive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I hope that you are not assuming that all women are like that, because they are not. I, as a woman, would rather be with a dirt poor man with a sense of humor and the same interests as myself than a rich man with nothing to offer but green pieces of paper. Second of all, if golddiggers are the only type of people you are meeting, I suggest looking at what YOU could be doing wrong. Are you flaunting your money? If women date you before knowing that you are wealthy, then you know that they are with you for you. If you mention how much money you earn/have, and they start sticking to you like velcro, they are after your money. Are you meeting them in the wrong places? Chances are, if you are meeting women in places such as bars, you are asking for nothing but trouble. Try meeting them in places like arts festivals, sporting events, or anything that interests you. You can usually tell apart a classy woman from a sleaze bucket in a short amount of time.
2006-10-06 19:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by housesoftheholy90 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats not True!!!!!Real Woman Don't care about the Money...They can take care of their own...And they care about their future...They have Some Type of Morals ...Like is this the right Man?..The father of my kids?... My best Friend!...The man whose gonna be there when im down and vise/versa?...Don't get me wrong i know money is important to maintain oneself with the things they want and the place they want to be...But it's not everything!!!!!
And it sure aint for you to give it out like it didn't cost you sweat and tears!!!!!!!
The Women you probably go out with are Hoe's the ones that you can get in their Panties the same night you go on your first date...
Those are the ones that care about the money!!Why cause they don't have anything good going for themselves... With 5 different baby daddy's... claiming five dependents on their W-2's...And then get a dumbAzz that wants puuushhy and can easily be manipulated...and with that being said...In Her mind gives here the right to ask you for money to get herr hair done, nails, car note, rent... WHo knows what else!!!
Where you meeting these Golddigging Women??????
2006-10-06 19:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by Gatitabella 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Where do you hang out? Golddiggers Anonymous?
There are plenty of wonderful, beautiful, savvy women out there who are not catty, materialistic, or mean. Why don't you join an environmental group, a we-love-doggies or we-love-kitties group, or a knitting circle? Anywhere where nice ladies are likely to be hanging out, instead of holding up the wall at fern bars expecting the altruistic woman of the century to show up between shots and beers.
2006-10-06 19:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by nora22000 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Then again, guys are the one putting it on the ladies.
They want their ladies to always have their hair did or nails did, wearing nice dresses or outfits that turn them on or make them proud to walk around with such beauties in their arms.
C'mon, now. Don't tell me it isn't true.
But I do agree that woman should depend on themselves to make it. They shouldn't EXPECT their men to provide all the luxuries.
It is up to the guy if they want to do that. It should never be a given just because they together.
2006-10-06 19:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by denh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at yourself, and all of your species. men that is. all you guys ever care about is beer and damn s*x!!!!!! what is the world is wrong with you. money, if earned honestly, will not get a person in any kind of trouble!!!!!
Get a life dude. or like someone said go to the knitting club or bingo hall, and find a money careless woman there.
2006-10-06 19:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by Desert Rat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, well umm..i dont think you should stereotype like this, cause NOT ALL women are golddiggers, and well you do have a good point that women do worry alot about certain things they shouldn't be worrying about, but that's just us, we all got our flaws and you just gotta accept and move on, cause i KNOW you can never say men are flawless. hm..hope this helps : )
2006-10-06 19:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by Tasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your seeing the wrong women. Money can only take you so far and when you're at the end of your rope its not money that is thought about.
2006-10-06 19:20:39 · answer #11 · answered by Casper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋