i am 44 he is 50 we been seeing each other for 20 yrs. sex was great when he was chasing me all those yrs. now we are in a second time committed relationship, living together, the first time we live together was for a yr. I left because he was enoring me and being ruled. after 2yrs I came back to the house we shared to try again. he was over my house all the time ready for sex always had sweet things to say, all was well. two weeks after i moved back he started sleeping on the sofa. after complaining to him why he said it was his blood presure meds. i said okay. now he says i am to big and he has to work to much. so after a month of no sex i told him we need to make love because i am stress. he turns me over and **** me in the ***. now how should i feel about this? I am a attrative women should i put up with this bullshit
i feel he's trying to bring down my spirts? plus i still didn't get what i wanted out of this at all. it was 3mins. what should i do? leave or workitout
2006-10-06 19:04:49 · 11 answers · asked by see123see4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well...it sounds like he's trying to drive you away honey. Sorry to tell you this, but get out of the house. If you two have only been "seeing" each other for 20 years with no serious commitment, then he's just not that into you. He's got commitment issues and he's probably freaking out right now, so once again...GET OUT!
2006-10-06 19:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave now, and don't look back. He doesn't care about you, he insulted you. He is not meeting your needs. Move on before he convinces you to stay in a relationship where you are not loved or respected.
2006-10-07 02:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by sandcatsle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt care about your needs anymore leave, Its best. You need to figure out if you're happy if not its time to go.
2006-10-07 02:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think matures are pretty hot, i always fantasize about that. anyway your not getting any younger but if you feel that sex is really important then you should find it else where.
2006-10-07 02:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out. you are not obligated to go through this. I can't tell you how many women I know who ruin their lives this way.
2006-10-07 02:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by dragonwythe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM ALONG, HE DOES NOT RESPECT
YOU. AND YOU WEIGHT SHOULD NOT BE A FACTOR
AT ALL, AND I WOULD LET HIM KNOW THAT IF HE HAS
A PROBEM WITH YOUR WEIGHT THEN TELL HIM HE
COULD LEAVE, I WOULD NOT PUT UP WITH HIS BULL
SHi##. YOU COULD DO SO MUCH BETTER.
2006-10-07 02:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't happy, you aren't happy. Trust yourself. You're in the right honey.
2006-10-07 02:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him and go on with your life.
2006-10-07 02:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by B. Miller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not happy leave if you are then try and work it out
2006-10-07 02:12:52 · answer #9 · answered by free2style1026 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find another guy cause that's messed up.
2006-10-07 02:10:50 · answer #10 · answered by No Kitty Cat for you!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋