Family & Relationships - 4 October 2006

Why do people treat something so wonderful and private, so casual and like a joke?
Whatever happend to people getting to know each other first? And actually caring for the person? Does no one realize it causes broken homes, therapy, disease, unwanted pregnancies, STD's , and a messed up society? or do you just not care?

2006-10-04 10:08:17 · 20 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 10:08:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday evening, I was supposed to pick up my 14 year old niece at 6 pm. I went to pick her up and she ran out and smacked my window about a mile before I got to her boyfriend's house, where she was supposed to be. She'd gone off to the skate park instead, with her friends. She swore her mom knew and that it was okay, so I said I'd pick her up at 7:30. I came back and couldn't find her. I drove out 1/4 tank of gas looking for her, worrying. I finally found her. My fear turned to anger, making me so mad I couldn't see straight, hardly. We had plans this week-- I even took a day off work to spend time with her, go fun places, enjoy all of it. We were going to go to Cypress Gardens and Kissimmee. She knew the plans but said, after all I'd been through and with me going to lose $50 on my next paycheck for the day off, that she wants to spend the night at a sleepover instead. I left the situation in her parents hands, but what should I do-- how should I react?

2006-10-04 10:07:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-04 10:07:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've been married 16 yrs. 14 of them I've been begging by husband to see me, hear me, acknowledge me...He was so focused on work and his personal goals I b/c resentful, angry and he was blinded by this, therefore never hearing the problem, only seeing an angry "crazed" woman. After all this time, a trial of marital therapy as well, our communication has somewhat improved but our major problems remain constant. I've fallen out of love with my husband of 16 yrs, I love him as a father, he is wonderful, I love him as a provider, he has made great strides, he is a very nice man, just not the husband I need. I told him I want to divorce, after much thought, many years of therapy for myself...the clarity is real, no fear, no second guesses, it feels head to toe the right thing to do..
Our families have known the issues, yet, everyone seems to be of the opinion, inevitably, that I am the bad guy..I want to be free of this, why can't people care and not criticize?

2006-10-04 10:07:32 · 8 answers · asked by flipit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondered.

2006-10-04 10:07:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its driving me mad.

my boyfriend comes home from work and we either have tea at mine or at his. if its at mine we have sex sometimes then go round to his and either i sit and go on the internet while he watches sky or its the opposite way round. then he drops me back at home at about 11pm or he stays at mine.

i can understand that he wants to chill after a day at work but its the same every night and im getting bored of it. we dont have much money at the moment but what else could we do?

please help im getting so bored of this nearly everynight. we get on really well but we just end up doing the same thing all the time. we have been together over 2 and a half years

2006-10-04 10:06:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I went out on another very enjoyable date with the girl I met recently tonight. I got home and noticed that she's got rid of her profile on the dating site we met each other on. We've already arranged to see each other again after we get back from our various business trips around Europe next week. Can I take it as a hint that she's possibly starting to fall for me, or is it wishful thinking on my part? I'm wary of taking things too quickly, but am optimistic there might be some mutual feeling...

2006-10-04 10:06:52 · 6 answers · asked by bovie 4 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for a place outside of Napa county but within a few hours driving range. There will be a few kids with us and we all need rooms for a couple days. Also maybe some place low in cost. Have any ideas?

2006-10-04 10:06:47 · 10 answers · asked by mandrin 2 in Weddings

2006-10-04 10:06:46 · 48 answers · asked by peachiegirl 2 in Friends

Anything,

2006-10-04 10:06:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and pretty wasted, My girl freinds were all daring me to suck the strippers you know what. I did and he had a condom but now I feel pretty cheap because all my freinds saw me, Should I tell my husband? I'm afraid he might find out if one of my freinds tells there husband.

2006-10-04 10:06:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-04 10:05:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ask this because I am inlove with one and we've been tofether for a year now and my problem is the way some people look at us so can someone please help!!!!

2006-10-04 10:05:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am i just crazy or does anyone else feel like the ugliest and most unwanted on the planet when your husband watches porn when he knows if makes you feel horrible about yourself. He says he don't watch it but he won't delete if off his computer...am i being nuts

2006-10-04 10:05:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You live together before and suddenly he went far away from you

2006-10-04 10:05:30 · 10 answers · asked by marguirite c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a 23 year old female who works and goes to college. I've never had a bf b4 and I have had a crush on a guy, that i see at work everyday,for the past 1 year and a half. I've known that he has a gf (whom he plans to marry someday) for a while, but I still have feelings for him. The thing is that I know that he is not really the guy for me since we are too different. He's Filipino and I'm American and plus we want different things out of life. Sometimes, I get the impression that he likes me too since he teases me and likes to be around me or look at me. But I know that he really loves his gf who is back in the Phillipines. I even told him how I felt about him and he said he luvs his gf very much. How do I get over him, especially since I see him everyday?

2006-10-04 10:04:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Somebody is following me and i think they are really annoying. How do i handle this without being mean?

2006-10-04 10:04:17 · 24 answers · asked by daphine 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-04 10:03:24 · 6 answers · asked by Giggly Giraffe 7 in Family

my girlfriend and i are having some problems. she wants some time off and i understand that. its been 4 months and i want to get that spark back between us. i have no idea how to do it. anything would be nice.

2006-10-04 10:02:39 · 25 answers · asked by Trevor 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently met this guy and like everything about him except his voice. It's just too high-pitched and nasal for a guy. I feel shallow for not dating him anymore because of it . . .ever happen to anyone else?

2006-10-04 10:02:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and wants to kiss... alot. any good sites on a how to!? Thanks

2006-10-04 10:01:56 · 3 answers · asked by underoath_777 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 10:01:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And have you been curious enough to visit??....

2006-10-04 10:01:27 · 5 answers · asked by phil_maquim 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

A friend of mine called me stupid. I call him bad names sometimes too, but I just had a bad day so I kicked him in the nuts. He was on the floor for about 15 minutes and was pale; I could not help but to laugh at him. When he got up, he slapped me him the face, and that made me sooo P.I.S.S.E.D OFF! I called the police; he got arrested, and now HE must go to jail for one month!
DON’T YOU JUST LOVE DOUBLE STANDARDS? ;-)

2006-10-04 10:01:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was told by some people I know that their was a picture of me seeking woman and I am a woman. I went under Personals and there it was. The picture is a old picture of me. But I don't know who could have done this. Its funny to me. But its somewhat embarassing

2006-10-04 10:00:53 · 10 answers · asked by dmcvay101 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend cheated me and instead of breaking up l gave him some time to think abt it all. he said that he does not know whom he really loves. we both gave him time to think over it and to make a choice. now he let go of the other one and l told him to give ourselves a break just to see if we can do without each other. l also need to think this over

2006-10-04 10:00:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it's true, i know and have talked to alot of black guys (dozens) and they always tell me they won't wear a condom. and most of them don't even pull out. i should also point out that the vast majority of them have at least one kid to a woman that they aren't married to. are most black guys that irresponsible about sex?

2006-10-04 10:00:01 · 9 answers · asked by Mystery Guest 2 in Singles & Dating

Ladies, Rank these date choices from #1 to #4

A hot guy with an STD

A guy with no arms

A guy with a mental disorder

A sweet Fat Guy

Which would ya date? Rank em in order #1 to #4. Just a unscientific survey

2006-10-04 09:59:58 · 29 answers · asked by OTNEB 2 in Singles & Dating

i feel bad if i left him out .he looks cold out side

but he might infest the house if i let him in .i have flea powdered him
what do you think

2006-10-04 09:59:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends