We're both 18. It's been 2 and half months and we have done NOTHING "sexually" - only kissing and hugging and whatever. We were both best friends for 3 years before we got together recently and I know she'll never tell me she's ready unless I ask her about it - even if she's ready right now, she'll never say a thing, she's just like that.
Anyhow, I want to ask her how she feels about taking the relationship to the next step but I don't know how to bring it up. I also want to be deadly careful about making her feel pressured and/or forced. I respect her so much and I love her more than anybody in the world, so I want to know it's "OK" before I try anything but I also don't want to ruin anything by asking her.
In that sense, I'm kind of trapped. I fear asking her and losing her respect but I also fear trying anything without her hating me for trying something.
Any ideas on how exactly I can sort this out?
Thanks!
2006-10-04
09:33:14
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